Seems like a lot of people are having an issue logging into chat since we updated. Here is what you need to do: Logout of the chat and forums, clear your cache and cookies. Log back in to the forum, then login to the chat with the same user/pass you use for the forums.
We're not there yet, but I am working on getting my wife to go black. In the bedroom she is quite comfortable, but she is yet to cross the line and let her inhibitions go in public. Any suggestions or tips on how to get her to open up are welcome.