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So close but chickened out when guy was coming over.

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Long time lurker here. Let me start with my story... A little over two years ago my wife had an affair with a guy from her work. Well it was pretty hard and still is hard thinking of this guy fucking my wife. Counseling and recently having a child we are starting to get on again. So one of the problems was I found out this guy had a really big cock. Well now everytime we have sex we masturbate and I get my wife to say how good his cock was. Last night I finally got her to text him again and tell him to come over for a booty call. After the text he said he would come over tonight and do her anytime she wanted. About an hour ago he said he was on his way over after he gets off work. I start to get real horny and told my wife I was going to hide in the closet while they fucked. I could tell she was getting all excited she went and shave and cleaned up. Then I chickened out and told her I didn't think it was a good idea. I don't know if I did the right thing or not. In the back of my mind I think I will always wonder what his cock looked like and if he fucked her better than me. She tried to convice me she would tell the guy we would then get in a threesome and I still told her no. I am big guy so I have already beaten the guy up, he is tall and skinny. So it isn't like I am intiminated by the guy. I feal real sick to my stomach now and my wife says she does too. Man I don't see how you guys do this.:confused:
 
With the history you and your wife have with this guy, it would be a good idea to start fresh with someone new, with no bad memories.

I'm surprised that guy wanted to come back after you beat him up.

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rextc, forgive me for preaching but you do not sound like the type of guy who should be getting involved in this sort of thing. My wife has been fucked several times and I am totally at peace with it no matter what the endowment of her lover - it is a two-way street and although your wife is up for it you should only give consent if you are 100% at ease. Did you have any cuck desires before the affair or have they evolved because of it? If it is the latter then I would be very wary of losing control of the situation.
 
rextc,

I echo a sentiment already expressed here, that you probably ought not try this with this particular guy. If you do, however, the ground rules need to be clear. But I really think you two need to consider an NSA hookup with a stranger.

Believe me, your wife will get frustrated if you open up your relationship a bit, just to slam it closed again when you "chicken out".

What mindset should you have? Whatever helps you compartmentalize it. Some people on this side get off on the humiliation. For me, it's just an extension of my girlfriend's and my sex life. You want to see her pleasured in every single way, which is an admirable thing for any good husband to want. You and her need to be partners in crime ;) Look at it as benefitting your sexual relationship. Most men and women in open (or semi-open) relationships enjoy increased and more satisfying sex.

Good luck,
CG
 
Bad part about this is you opened up a can when you asked her to start fantasizing about him fucking her again. She put away all regrets she had about the affair when you wanted her to tell you how good it was, how big it was, how you wanted her to do it again. If she was truly sorry and changed her ways, she broke down any resistance to going out and getting some strange dick again when you started asking for and using her past infidelities as a crutch for a better sex life with you.
I am not going to give any advice that might break up a marriage, any porn forum is not the place to settle marriage difficulties, it is a place to help you find out if you want to get into a lifestyle that you are cautious about getting into.
But if I were you, I would think about what this will do. If she likes it and you don't, she will eventually go back to cheating behind your back. It would be better to know who, when, where and how she is fucking than to not know about any of it, expecially if you are thinking about having a baby soon.
There is no in between. You do it, or you don't. If you decide to not do it, tell her you want to use fantasy in to stimulate your sex lives, but do not use any past lovers you or her have had. It will only bring bad karma to the marriage.
You have put yourself and your marriage between a rock and a hard place. One that only you and her can get out of. Good luck.
 
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