I came here tonight because I wanted a little support I suppose. Sorry to impose.
My wife occasionally "dates" other men. We both think it's fabulous! It's a turn on for me, and I really enjoy knowing that she's getting what she cannot get from me. She's also turned on spending time with more dominant/masculine (and well-endowed) men.
We've been married for ten years, so I understand that she needs a bit of excitement and "difference" in her life. We haven't had intercourse for many years, although she does thoroughly enjoy oral service from me (I *love* it too!). I'm really comfortable with all that.
I should mention that she knows that I am also attracted to men, and truthfully that's a turn off for her.
She generally keeps everything in her sex/dating life with others apart from me, even though she knows I'm dying to know any details. Usually she'll just tell me that she's "going out after work" or something. Her companions all know she's married, but I've only met one of them.
My post here is about her work colleague, Steve. She's going to spend three days in Napa with him this weekend at a romantic little inn. It's the first time she'll be gone so long. I'm giddy with excitement that she's going to get a wonderful sexual experience. On the other hand, I'm a little nervous about what this might mean for us, since it seems a bigger step. I was surprised when she told me about the trip, and I asked a few questions, but I certainly don't want her to believe I am "pushing" her.
It's really a matter of acceptance. I need to accept who I am, and the steps that led us all here. I obviously need to put my commitment to her and her needs first.
I've decided that I will not get myself off until after she returns on Sunday evening. I find that pent up "demand" on my part, helps me focus on her (as counter-intuitive as it may seem). I'm considering whether I should spend Saturday cross-dressed or finding some cocks to drain (or doing my taxes). Depending on when she gets back, I will kiss/cuddle and make her a great dinner (or breakfast). I'm going to attempt to get my tongue down her pants, but she's usually not into that after a date (as much as I'd love to gently and wetly caress a really well-fucked pussy).
As I write this, it all doesn't sound too healthy...
My wife occasionally "dates" other men. We both think it's fabulous! It's a turn on for me, and I really enjoy knowing that she's getting what she cannot get from me. She's also turned on spending time with more dominant/masculine (and well-endowed) men.
We've been married for ten years, so I understand that she needs a bit of excitement and "difference" in her life. We haven't had intercourse for many years, although she does thoroughly enjoy oral service from me (I *love* it too!). I'm really comfortable with all that.
I should mention that she knows that I am also attracted to men, and truthfully that's a turn off for her.
She generally keeps everything in her sex/dating life with others apart from me, even though she knows I'm dying to know any details. Usually she'll just tell me that she's "going out after work" or something. Her companions all know she's married, but I've only met one of them.
My post here is about her work colleague, Steve. She's going to spend three days in Napa with him this weekend at a romantic little inn. It's the first time she'll be gone so long. I'm giddy with excitement that she's going to get a wonderful sexual experience. On the other hand, I'm a little nervous about what this might mean for us, since it seems a bigger step. I was surprised when she told me about the trip, and I asked a few questions, but I certainly don't want her to believe I am "pushing" her.
It's really a matter of acceptance. I need to accept who I am, and the steps that led us all here. I obviously need to put my commitment to her and her needs first.
I've decided that I will not get myself off until after she returns on Sunday evening. I find that pent up "demand" on my part, helps me focus on her (as counter-intuitive as it may seem). I'm considering whether I should spend Saturday cross-dressed or finding some cocks to drain (or doing my taxes). Depending on when she gets back, I will kiss/cuddle and make her a great dinner (or breakfast). I'm going to attempt to get my tongue down her pants, but she's usually not into that after a date (as much as I'd love to gently and wetly caress a really well-fucked pussy).
As I write this, it all doesn't sound too healthy...