Unusual Problem, Need Help

[hugothecuck]

The idea of my wife cuckoldsing me makes me so horny. I would love for her to fuck tons of different men while I'm only allowed to fuck her. I havn't told her my feelings yet but I think I'll have more problems than the average guy on here.

I see most wives get into this because their husbands preformance in bed is poor or they have too small of a cock. Howver, I do not fit into that catagory. I have a 9 inch long cock that's just over two inches thick. Our sex life is amazing and I have no problem giving her multiple orgasms. I just really like the idea of her fucking other men.

So how can I get my wife into the lifestyle if she's already getting everything she wants from me. Any advice?

 

[cdlola]

i have the same problem as u in 8 inches and my wife enjoys sex with me as does yours with u
i agree with macNfries though id try dropping off hints and see how she reacts ,a way that has helped me alot in seeing my wifes reactions was using porn ,there are cuckold or interracial movies out that might get her excited then try stimulating her and when shes really turned on try to roleplay with it ,say to her wouldent it be hot if that guy in the movie was her fucking u like that ,try some things like that and see how she reacts

 

[CoffeeGuy]

hugothecuck,

The latest Dan Savage column deals with a wife dealing with her husband's cuckold fetishism, and not being sure what it means. Perhaps your wife would find it interesting.

This is true for your case because she might not understand your reasoning. I think your reasoning might fall under

Savage Love by Dan Savage - Columns - Savage Love - Dan Savage - The Stranger, Seattle's Only Newspaper


Dan also plugs the new book Sex at Dawn, which explores why monogamy doesn't work for so many people.

Overall, a very interesting read.

 

[CuckJock]

These are really good suggestions. My cock isn't huge but I'm well-built and have good equipment that my wife likes. It's funny how I secretly envy uglier or less-endowed guys cause I want a wife who will fuck other guys while humiliating me. Maybe I'll try to rent a movie that has a cuck scene in it and see if she comments.

 

[jmexpat]

You are on the wrong forum my man... I would not enter into this life style if all you want is to see your wife with other guys. Find a swapping website or better yet, hit the internet and find some guys who YOU feel comfortable with and set somthing up.

Otherwise you will for sure screw up what seems to be a good marriage and look back upon this as a mistake.

 

[CuckJock]

You are on the wrong forum my man... I would not enter into this life style if all you want is to see your wife with other guys. Find a swapping website or better yet, hit the internet and find some guys who YOU feel comfortable with and set somthing up.

Otherwise you will for sure screw up what seems to be a good marriage and look back upon this as a mistake.

Dude, who is this directed to? I don't think anyone said they were just lookin for other guys to fuck their wives. If you're talking to me, check out my other post in this forum. It's about my realization I'm a cuck and what I'm into.

peace

 

[bibottomhubby2bbwslut]

I'm average at best in the cock size department but my wife and a number of women who I've slept with in the past have told me I'm an awesome lover. While there are some couples who enter into the cuckold lifestyle due to the male partner being sub-par in the bedroom, I think more often it is due to one or both of the partners having a fantasy that they want to act on. My suggestion to you is presenting a scenario to your wife as a fantasy and seeing what about it would work as a turn-on for her. Your wife may enjoy the idea of a new lover or lovers, even if they're not quite as endowed or as skilled as you. The idea of another man kissing, licking, and fucking her could be a turn on just because it's something different. In the realm of fantasy you can create whatever kind of scenarios you both want. Share your ideas with her and see what she adds to it. Then once you've built a basis in fantasy maybe you can explore making it a reality. I'm sure it would be more difficult to find, but there must be men hung as well or even better than you. Or imagine finding a guy less endowed who nonetheless can make her orgasm just as hard or even harder than you can...

Good luck. If it helps at all, I wish I had your problem...

 

[CoffeeGuy]

You are on the wrong forum my man... I would not enter into this life style if all you want is to see your wife with other guys.

Someone who derives pleasure from his wife screwing other guys is the precise definition of cuckold fetishism.


There are various flavours of the fetish, so I think he's in the right place.

 

[CoffeeGuy]

CoffeeGuy, show us where you obtained that definition; possibly a link would be nice. Thanks ... Mac

Sure thing, Mac.

Well, we could consult "the oracle" (ie. Wikipedia), which states:

The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge (it is usually with the male's knowledge and sometimes consent, to be a true "fetish"). A cuckold fetishist is aware of his partner's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it...
Cuckold - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

But my favourite is this one

Cuckoldry is, by definition, a husband (or in some cases, a boyfriend) who is into his wife/girlfriend participating in sex with another man. It is not a threesome by the traditional meaning, but rather an exciting and adventurous fetish for the husband who wishes to hear stories of his sexy wife's sexual escapades, or wishes to watch the sexual acts take place. The "cuck", or the husband being cuckolded, is usually monogamous to only the wife, and the wife cuckolds her husband, or has sex with other men - she is also known as a "hot wife".

Are You a Cuckold? - Brought to you by LDW Group

So I personally feel it's more fair to take a more broad definition, which encompasses most of the people on this forum.


Some people like humiliation and some don't -- which is fine.

Some want to be sissified -- also fine.

Some people also want their wives to screw other men because increases their interest in their wife, thereby making their sexual experiences with their wive's stronger. The term for this is "sperm competition."

Generally, whatever floats your boat.

I don't like people playing cuckold-ier than thou

 

[hugothecuck]

I think I fit into the "sperm competition" section. I would find any humilation/sissy stuff a huge turn off, I just like the sharing aspect of it all and watching her be a slut.

 

[drackas]

you should mention swinging to her and see what she says .my wife has had some big men but still enjoys the small ones as well

 

[CuckJock]

Hey man,

Just cause you have a big dick and make her cum, that doesn't mean that you're the only thing she's into or what she prefers. It could be that she has a thing for young men or black guys or day laborers or old men or whatever. If you can figure it out, you might be able to get her to keep you in chastity while picking up these guys. I guess like people always warn, once you go down that path, you can't go back. So you've gotta be sure you're gonna be cool with her bringing home (or making you find and bring home) some dude you may not like and having to help him have hot sex with her and you possibly having to be sub to him too. If you're cool with that, I say go for it.

 

[CoffeeGuy]

www. bing.com/Dictionary/search?q=define+cuckolds&FORM=DTPDIA
cuckold: Definition from Answers.com
cuckold - Definition of cuckold at YourDictionary.com
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/cuckold-2
Cuckold - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary

I guess my point is, NOTHING is mentioned about a man who derives pleasure from watching his wife have sex with other men. Possibly wittol would be a better word for your use, don't you think?

I didn't define cuckold. I defined cuckold fetishism.
If I may quote myself

Someone who derives pleasure from his wife screwing other guys is the precise definition of cuckold fetishism.

That is as good as any definition of it. Some cuckold fetishists love to watch, some prefer to be told later. Some prefer to be humiliated and feel inferior to the bull, some don't.

 

[CoffeeGuy]

Just cause you have a big dick and make her cum, that doesn't mean that you're the only thing she's into or what she prefers.

Indeed. In other words, no one can be everything sexually to one person. Absolutely everyone at one point or another gets urges, and when they do they might feel like a terrible person. After all, society has conditioned them to think that when you find "the right person", monogamy is easy. That's not true at all.

 

[IndyHubby]

Mac is still right

I didn't define cuckold. I defined cuckold fetishism.
If I may quote myself


That is as good as any definition of it. Some cuckold fetishists love to watch, some prefer to be told later. Some prefer to be humiliated and feel inferior to the bull, some don't.

Fetishism has to do with deriving sexual excitement or pleasure from non-sexual items or body parts. Therefore, given that "cuckold" is a direct reference to a sexual act, it would be impossible to have a "cuckold fetish".

You could have a foot fetish or a hair fetish because neither of them are considered sexual body parts. But you can not have an oral sex fetish or a cock fetish as both are sexual acts or body parts. You could have an oral sex or cock fixation, but not a fetish. (That is, of course, only if you correctly communicate in English.)