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We’re considering me playing alone, problems?

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Hi everyone,

My husband likes to watch and until this point, has been present every time I’ve been with another guy. We’ve gone through the arduous process of finding and meeting the other guys together. Lately, I’ve been traveling for work and he said I should start hooking up on these trips. I’m a little skeptical. Definitely not what we agreed to when we decided to enter the lifestyle. Anyone who has made the transition from husband in the room to solo play have any thoughts? How’d it go? Thank you!
 
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Carolinaxxx said:
Hi everyone,

My husband likes to watch and until this point, has been present every time I’ve been with another guy. We’ve gone through the arduous process of finding and meeting the other guys together. Lately, I’ve been traveling for work and he said I should start hooking up on these trips. I’m a little skeptical. Definitely not what we agreed to when we decided to enter the lifestyle. Anyone who has made the transition from husband in the room to solo play have any thoughts? How’d it go? Thank you!
I think it adds another level excitement. Him waiting to hear about it for one. Obviously you have to be comfortable, but I find it exciting.
 
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Carolinaxxx said:
Hi everyone,

My husband likes to watch and until this point, has been present every time I’ve been with another guy. We’ve gone through the arduous process of finding and meeting the other guys together. Lately, I’ve been traveling for work and he said I should start hooking up on these trips. I’m a little skeptical. Definitely not what we agreed to when we decided to enter the lifestyle. Anyone who has made the transition from husband in the room to solo play have any thoughts? How’d it go? Thank you!
My wife always plays alone, I am never present, this allows her to explore her desires more deeply than if I were present, her bull insists I’m not present either, so all in all I think it would work if you were with the right guy and your husband didn’t get overwhelmed by jealousy.
Your husband might try a cage , I wear one most if the time and this helps when my wife is playing.
 
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I really enjoyed the couple of times that my wife has gone to play on her own, even though it didn't go all the way.
There was definitely a time when that would have been a real problem for me, though. So it depends on the individual and where they're at with it.
 
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