Having gone to all the trouble of trying to convince your wife or girlfriend to open up, try new ideas tec.. threesome, black lovers, groups.. what happends when she seems to be in denial that she enjoys it? Why would this happen? At the last meet I saw my own girlfriend respond in ways that I had only imagined - an unstoppable sexual force. Only now, it is as though she is trying to convince herself and me that she doesn't really enjoy it that much anyway, when I know she so clearly does? Is it shame, nerves, guilt, denial? Or what? Would especially like womens perspectives here...