Here is a link to an academic paper that analyses, among other things, the reason why cuckolding is a turn on.
http://www.toddkshackelford.com/downloads/Shackelford-Goetz-CD.pdf
http://www.toddkshackelford.com/downloads/Shackelford-Goetz-CD.pdf
Why cuckolding is a turn on
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I think it explains our desires perfectly
It is a turn on because when we see "our" woman with another man, or even just know or SUSPECT that she MAY be with or interested in other men, our deep seeded instincts to pass on our genetic material kick into hyperdrive!
We produce significantly more sperm...and our sexual desire for our partner goes off the charts!
This article also explains the "confused" feeling that many men describe around the topic. On one hand, you feel hurt and jealous...but...somehow...at the same time...EXTREMELY aroused!
on one hand...we do not WANT competition for our woman...but when it is there...it produces a surge in sexual desire for our woman like nothing else can produce. The human female is hard-wired to look for various sexual partners, but society tells her it is wrong. As men, we instinctively know they want to fuck around...and so our instincts tell us to screw the living hell out of her when there is a good risk she may have just fucked some other guy.
In that way...we have the best chance of actually fathering the child and winning the sperm war.
You know the whole thing makes me feel much less like a freak.
Instinctively...i just KNOW my wife wants to fuck other men. and even THINKING about her fucking other men makes me just crazy with lust for her.
It is a turn on because when we see "our" woman with another man, or even just know or SUSPECT that she MAY be with or interested in other men, our deep seeded instincts to pass on our genetic material kick into hyperdrive!
We produce significantly more sperm...and our sexual desire for our partner goes off the charts!
This article also explains the "confused" feeling that many men describe around the topic. On one hand, you feel hurt and jealous...but...somehow...at the same time...EXTREMELY aroused!
on one hand...we do not WANT competition for our woman...but when it is there...it produces a surge in sexual desire for our woman like nothing else can produce. The human female is hard-wired to look for various sexual partners, but society tells her it is wrong. As men, we instinctively know they want to fuck around...and so our instincts tell us to screw the living hell out of her when there is a good risk she may have just fucked some other guy.
In that way...we have the best chance of actually fathering the child and winning the sperm war.
You know the whole thing makes me feel much less like a freak.
Instinctively...i just KNOW my wife wants to fuck other men. and even THINKING about her fucking other men makes me just crazy with lust for her.
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Loving a slut wife
I can only speak for myself when I say that I'm just a disgusting pervert . When I'm out and about and see other women I love to look at their asses , undress them with my eyes . Just wondering what their panties look like , and just think of what their like in bed . Do they do anal , do they love to suck cock and swallow . So of cause for me just thinking of a woman being a total slut is the turn on . When I see another man looking at my wife I believe he is thinking the same thing .
Now I said that to say this , when its your own wife that you think of this way its so exciting and much easier . When your in bed with your wife , You can think of yourself as that stranger who would love to see your wife naked and fuck her like a slut . Because you know what every bit of her naked body looks like and feels like , her ass , her pussy , her tits and what kind of panties she may be wearing underneath her jeans . So Just thinking of your wife being a total slut in bed , and some other guy getting his pleasure from her naked body . It doesn't get any better then that .
I just think we LOVE thinking of our wives / gf spreading their legs and being total sluts and filled with alot of cocks and cum . Just like some cucks think of fucking other guys wifes .
I can only speak for myself when I say that I'm just a disgusting pervert . When I'm out and about and see other women I love to look at their asses , undress them with my eyes . Just wondering what their panties look like , and just think of what their like in bed . Do they do anal , do they love to suck cock and swallow . So of cause for me just thinking of a woman being a total slut is the turn on . When I see another man looking at my wife I believe he is thinking the same thing .
Now I said that to say this , when its your own wife that you think of this way its so exciting and much easier . When your in bed with your wife , You can think of yourself as that stranger who would love to see your wife naked and fuck her like a slut . Because you know what every bit of her naked body looks like and feels like , her ass , her pussy , her tits and what kind of panties she may be wearing underneath her jeans . So Just thinking of your wife being a total slut in bed , and some other guy getting his pleasure from her naked body . It doesn't get any better then that .
I just think we LOVE thinking of our wives / gf spreading their legs and being total sluts and filled with alot of cocks and cum . Just like some cucks think of fucking other guys wifes .
Psychology
It's compelling scientifically (the instinct and drive with sperm competition). It seems like for some though, there is significant arousal simply from the sheer humiliation of a wife or female partner cuckolding him, and submitting to her as the dominant sexual power in the relationship.
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It's compelling scientifically (the instinct and drive with sperm competition). It seems like for some though, there is significant arousal simply from the sheer humiliation of a wife or female partner cuckolding him, and submitting to her as the dominant sexual power in the relationship.
Sorry to bore you further, but it's relevant. Here's a study paper, cited by the OP's paper, that compiles "non-paternity rates".
http://www.anth.uconn.edu/degree_programs/ecolevo/kermyt.pdf
The authors compiled data from studies that show where men are unwittingly raising children they didn't (genetically) father.
Summarizing it, fathers who are highly confident that they fathered their children were wrong only about 2% of the time. Those who have low confidence, still have a 60% chance that their children share their dna. There's wild swings due to geography, culture, and race. Something for everyone!
No matter what, unconditionally love, treasure, and protect the children in your life!
http://www.anth.uconn.edu/degree_programs/ecolevo/kermyt.pdf
The authors compiled data from studies that show where men are unwittingly raising children they didn't (genetically) father.
Summarizing it, fathers who are highly confident that they fathered their children were wrong only about 2% of the time. Those who have low confidence, still have a 60% chance that their children share their dna. There's wild swings due to geography, culture, and race. Something for everyone!
No matter what, unconditionally love, treasure, and protect the children in your life!
