Custer Laststand said:Mincercuck,
Hm. That looks more than a little uncomfortable. You appear, definitely, to be a candidate for a male chastity device (for which your wife, of course, should be sole key holder). See, for example:
Welcome to CB-2000.com
—Custer
MacNfries said:well, mincercuck, you don't have a clue about pain until gangrene sets in and you have to have your tesicles (maybe even your penis) totally removed, pal! Look it up and read about it. If you're into this kind of crap, I'd insist SIR purchase you a CB-2000, or set his ass on the curb. And the first time he started lashing me with his whip is when I'd whip out my stungun and hit him with 2,000 volts. He's not a bull ... he's a BULLY ... and there's a difference!
Dominant.Goddess said:I find this thread quite depressing for a number of reasons. Firstly, macnfires, just because someone engages in "CONSENTING" BDSM play, it does not make them either a bully or a danger! Most BDSM players, serious well informed ones that is, know EXACTLY how to bind someone without causing dangerous potentially lethal consequences! Ignorance however is another matter...if ill informed or voilent, well that's just what is is, ignorant and violent. Let people make their own choices without calling it bullshit hey?
His first post came off as judgmental, sure, but to assume that a bull knows what he is doing, well...The guy mentioned being tied for two days. You know, when driving, there is no such thing as technique on ice. Cutting off blood supply for days at a time is dangerous- no matter how you do it. Which doesn't mean that someone won't naturally try it anyway- and that leads to your second point. It's only partly about this guy pretending his fantasies are real. It's about possibly misleading others. You calling them stupid if they believe him, well I think that's judgmental. Did you ever consider that minors look at this stuff too? (It's only common sense until you've done it once.)
Secondly, sure there is a healthy measure of fantasy involved in these sites, but there are also real people sharing real fantasies and real experiences too.. My own bullshit detector will alow me to make those judgement calls, and shoot me I'm human but sometimes I get it wrong!
So your saying it's OK for everyone to play with the rules and post fantasy-as-reality because you mostly know the difference? Again, not everyone is as savvy as you.
There is such a thing as safe consensual play whether it be in bondage and domination, cuckolding, swinging or whatever the hell your bag is don't you think?
Dominant.Goddess said:hello ytrewq, thank you for your response. Well first off, I assert that it is not my job to teach anyone how to play safely! I learn for myself and others are more than capable of doing the same. I don't visit this site to lecture on safe sex, whether that's via BDSM or simple plain good ole safe sex as in condoms, pregnancy and STD's etc. Nor do I visit to teach anyone else about fantasy and reality and the grey areas in between. My point is this, mincercuck (if I may use your response as an example mincer) may well invest heavily in certain fantasies, and who knows how far into reality this goes, none of us know that in here, but that doesn't invalidate many of his posts or experiences or desires.
Absolutely NOWHERE did I state that a bull knows what he is doing! I said clearly that most INFORMED BDSM players know what they are doing...there's a world of difference in those two statements. Secondly, if you re-read my post and stop inserting your own interpetations, you will note that in no part of my post did I call anyone stupid...I asserted my own right to make intelligent discerning decisions about the validity or whatever in someone's posts, and the importance (to me) of taking PERSONAL RESPONSIBILTY for that. Everyone here has the capacity to do the same.
Your point about minors is valid on some levels of course, but hey if minors are looking at ANY of this stuff about cuckolding, cream pies and unsafe sex then we may as well follow that argument to it's illogical conclusion and shut down the site n'est pas? Why is it okay for minors to read all the rest of this stuff but not to read about someone's balls being tied?!!!!!!
Finally, I was not saying it is okay for everyone to play with the "rules" but if you sir, think that the "rules" mean that people on here are all pure as the driven snow in following them, then you are, quite frankly naive! It is a shock to discover that someone is not whom they say they are, or that they don't live as they purport to in any walk of life, but how does one decide where the boundaries are between fantasy and reality? Many of us ARE living in these roles to some degree or other, but naturally there are some who are perhaps less fortunate in finding open-minded, well-informed, non-judgemental partners, and are perhaps less able to find real outlets for the healthy expression of inner desire.
I'm no more savvy than the next person, however I object most strongly to the assumption that playing with bondage is (necessarily) dangerous or any more dangerous than having and endless stream of bulls pump their cum bareback into a pussy all eager to lap it up without question, and I suspect most people give that some thought too when making their own adult decisions about what is safe or not in their sexual and personal lives.
~DG~
MacNfries said:mincercuck, so basically you're now saying your thread is all bullshit fantasy for opportunity of conversation, and the pics you posted are some you copped off the internet. That's cool, but it might be more appropriate to put it in "stories". Some people take what they read as the "gospel of advice" just because some fool says it's so and they find it intriguing.
Sometime back I got onto a snuff site and spent an hour looking at real vids and pics of murders and mutilations (mainly innocent animals), but people as well. It left me with nightmares for weeks, and occasionally I still visualize some of the vids I saw ... the ones with the kittens and puppies were horrifying and sad. So we never know when someone on here is stupid enough to do some of the mutilations and stuff mentioned, or wreck a perfectly good 10 year marriage because someone "suggested" something they do to get their wife fucked by another man.
Play your silly games, if you wish with your nuts, and when the doctor slices them off and you have to take testosterone shots the rest of your life, you'll say "well shit, they did it on the internet ... what happened?".