I'm curious if there are others like me who knew but were to naive to realise the first obvious time.
My wife admitted to me when we were very young and without kids yet, that while I was out of town, She went to a freinds halloween party at hotel bar.
Her freind worked there as a barmaid at the time. A lot of our mutual freinds were there. About 10 p.m. She left the bar with a man and joined him in his room there. She claimed she was not having much fun at the bar with our freinds, felt out of place, and this guy was just nice and the talked quite a while and had a good chat then she went home.
I bought it at the time (what a moron). I realised years later, She always had a great time with these friends and only told me to cover for the fact one of them may have noticed her with the guy and told me. None of my friends ever said anything directly, but I caught a few remarks that just didn't register for years. All my friends raved about how much fun that party was and to bad my wife had left so early.
So, she left a great party at least 4 hours before anyone else(she was always quite the partier) and just went and had a nice talk with a guy from out of town in his hotel room.
God I was an idiot!
My wife admitted to me when we were very young and without kids yet, that while I was out of town, She went to a freinds halloween party at hotel bar.
Her freind worked there as a barmaid at the time. A lot of our mutual freinds were there. About 10 p.m. She left the bar with a man and joined him in his room there. She claimed she was not having much fun at the bar with our freinds, felt out of place, and this guy was just nice and the talked quite a while and had a good chat then she went home.
I bought it at the time (what a moron). I realised years later, She always had a great time with these friends and only told me to cover for the fact one of them may have noticed her with the guy and told me. None of my friends ever said anything directly, but I caught a few remarks that just didn't register for years. All my friends raved about how much fun that party was and to bad my wife had left so early.
So, she left a great party at least 4 hours before anyone else(she was always quite the partier) and just went and had a nice talk with a guy from out of town in his hotel room.
God I was an idiot!