Wifes lover wants more

[danyg]

For the last two years we have had a steady boyfriend and the relationship is win win for everybody. He is one of my best friends and when my wife was younger she actually lost her cherry to him. John, was her first and although she didn't care for him all that much as we grew older she came to accept him as being my friend and he was not going anywhere. A couple years ago it became sexual between the 3 of us and have had countless encounters and threesomes with him. John is a typical player/stud type of guy and has been with countless women ranging from one night stands to short term girlfriends, to internet hookups. Now during this time he has been with my wife many times and I never get bored watching the two of them together. Although she use to despise him for their past together when they were teenagers they have actually grown and become friends. The relationship was always sexual and nothing more, or at least I thought. Last night John was over and we were talking about life and he confessed to us that he loves the two of us, and he loves Samantha very much. We thought he meant love as friends, but he made it clear he loves her more than just friends. He knows our relationship is strong and does not want to come between us, but he also wants to be more than just a lover or sex object. We found this funny because for years he has treated every woman he knew as a piece of meat, and it seems like he does not want to be alone.
Sam and I have talked about it, and where not sure exactly what he wants from us or her, or what to do. We like the guy but beyond that theres not much else we can do for him.
I have not seen anything about a bull or lover being in love and any advice or what to do would be great.

 

[SoonToBe]

To me it sounds like you are more in a poly-relationship.

My thoughts on "more" would be perhaps for him to actually move in with you on a permanent/semi-permanent basis and to have him play more of a role outside your sexual encounters.

To my way of thinking, unless Sam is denying you or preferring him in some way, that this isn't so much of a cuckold situation but rather a poly one. Still equally as hot and arousing though.

 

[Puller]

I think STB has got straight to the heart of the situation-You are not in a straight cuckold relationship-you are in troilism or a Ménage à trois. This is a very specialised relationship. Your friend feels the desire to regularize it into a full one.

To put it simply, your wife has two husbands and you live together as such.

I know one gay male ménage and it works well.