Years ago and suspicions today

[Hawkdoctor]

My wife had experience with a black guy on a college visit years ago before we met in college. She visited a small college and was hosted by a black girl. There was a dance and party and her host and boyfriend went back to the dorm. The boyfriends buddy came along. She had danced several dances with his buddy and had a good time. In the dorm room her host and bf began making out. Naturally things progressed with my future wife and the guy she was with. To make a long story short the were passionately joining in. He had her bra off and his hands in her pants fingering her when she panicked and stopped him. She was a virgin and he had no condom. He stopped according to her story. I asked what would have happened if he had a condom. She smiled and said I would have stopped him.

Fast forward to to today. We are both retired and live in a university town with many black guys on campus. She often goes shopping on Saturday afternoons while I watch football. She is sometimes gone 3-4 hours and many times comes home without a purchase or a small purchase from stores on campus. My suspicion is whether she is entertaining again. Am I jumping to conclusions?

 

[franklyhorny]

Sounds like my wife. Long time shopping and very little to show for it.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I’ve never actually checked if she has “something” to show for it. I should suggest a roll in the sack and she if she balks. Might find it’s sloppy seconds.

 

[h5t6ca]

My wife had experience with a black guy on a college visit years ago before we met in college. She visited a small college and was hosted by a black girl. There was a dance and party and her host and boyfriend went back to the dorm. The boyfriends buddy came along. She had danced several dances with his buddy and had a good time. In the dorm room her host and bf began making out. Naturally things progressed with my future wife and the guy she was with. To make a long story short the were passionately joining in. He had her bra off and his hands in her pants fingering her when she panicked and stopped him. She was a virgin and he had no condom. He stopped according to her story. I asked what would have happened if he had a condom. She smiled and said I would have stopped him.

Fast forward to to today. We are both retired and live in a university town with many black guys on campus. She often goes shopping on Saturday afternoons while I watch football. She is sometimes gone 3-4 hours and many times comes home without a purchase or a small purchase from stores on campus. My suspicion is whether she is entertaining again. Am I jumping to conclusions?

Hope you are not and your conclusion is right

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Hope you are not and your conclusion is right

It satisfies a fantasy of mine if she actually is meeting black guys. She hasn't admitted it to me. It's such a turn on thinking a black guy is fucking her. She is so noisy when she orgasms so I'm guessing she is screaming with a hung black guy pounding her. We aren't getting younger so the clock is ticking. If true, I am happy for her.

 

[jayandkimberly]

Even if she isn't doing anything it's hot thinking about what could be happening. I think about my wife meeting guys behind my back like that and jerk off to it all the time.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

TThe only way you'll ever find out is to just plain ask her, tell her you wouldn't mind if she is getting fucked but you would love to know so you can enjoy it too, don't wait forever she isn't getting any younger

You’re right.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I’ve encouraged her to try other guys. I said I would join, watch, or let her go solo. I’m struggling some with ED. I do take medication but can’t last very long and I sense she has much more left in the tank when I’m done. I play golf every weekday in good weather and am gone at least 4 hours depending on the 19th hole. I suspect she is fucking other guys but doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. Not matter that I’ve encouraged her she thinks it will break us up.

 

[h5t6ca]

I’ve encouraged her to try other guys. I said I would join, watch, or let her go solo. I’m struggling some with ED. I do take medication but can’t last very long and I sense she has much more left in the tank when I’m done. I play golf every weekday in good weather and am gone at least 4 hours depending on the 19th hole. I suspect she is fucking other guys but doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. No matter that I’ve encouraged her she thinks it will break us up.

Hope she does and that she will gather to courage to share the news with you, and then you share with us

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I’m going on retreat and will be gone almost three days, two of them overnight. You’ve read what my suspicions are. What should I look for when I return? Dirty clothes hamper? Bedding sheets changed?

 

[Wildcats]

I’m going on retreat and will be gone almost three days, two of them overnight. You’ve read what my suspicions are. What should I look for when I return? Dirty clothes hamper? Bedding sheets changed?

Did you ever just ask her?

 

[samanthaNwilli]

why not just talk about it?

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Today takes the cake. My wife said she was meeting a girlfriend for coffee at 10:00 a.m. I went golfing and got home around 2:30 p.m. She is not at home. She gets home at 4:30 p.m. I ask her where she was and she said we went to lunch and then I stopped by the church. I never questioned further.

Hmmmm? I struggle with ED as I may have mentioned earlier. I told her it would be ok to try another guy but she said she wouldn't do that. She is fucking somebody, isn't she, and not wanting to hurt my feelings?

 

[h5t6ca]

Today takes the cake. My wife said she was meeting a girlfriend for coffee at 10:00 a.m. I went golfing and got home around 2:30 p.m. She is not at home. She gets home at 4:30 p.m. I ask her where she was and she said we went to lunch and then I stopped by the church. I never questioned further.

Hmmmm? I struggle with ED as I may have mentioned earlier. I told her it would be ok to try another guy but she said she wouldn't do that. She is fucking somebody, isn't she, and not wanting to hurt my feelings?

I hope she is fucking someone, You can start by smelling her panties to check for any semen odor or even better any taste of it. You can also finger her and see if she came full

 

[Hawkdoctor]

She was really acting kind of strange when I questioned her. I think the reality is her hot, mature pussy is being tapped by another guy. Even though we are retired and in our 60’s both of us try and stay fit. Her 38D’s and thick bush would be a turn on for someone. She also has excellent oral skills and can get me to cum even if I’m not the hardest!

 

[Hawkdoctor]

I check the hamper if we don’t play tonight and fill everyone in.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Tonight I'm watching the pregame for the Chiefs game and she is watching something else. I checked the clothes hamper just now and didn't see anything until I took everything out. The wash was done on Wednesday so the hamper wasn't very full. At the very bottom was her panties. Not terribly soiled but there was a stain that smelled like sex. I was grilling steaks and I'm guessing she cleaned up a little and changed underpants. I could be wrong but she loaned her pussy to another guy this afterenoon.

 

[big10incher]

Tonight I'm watching the pregame for the Chiefs game and she is watching something else. I checked the clothes hamper just now and didn't see anything until I took everything out. The wash was done on Wednesday so the hamper wasn't very full. At the very bottom was her panties. Not terribly soiled but there was a stain that smelled like sex. I was grilling steaks and I'm guessing she cleaned up a little and changed underpants. I could be wrong but she loaned her pussy to another guy this afterenoon.

Why are you beating around the bush? Literally! Confront her but tell her it’s okay. When she lies about it, don’t talk about it. Call her the slut she is. Fucking around on you is one thing if you’re ambivalent. But lying is inexcusable. Then make her pay for her infidelity. For every afternoon of black cock she owes you a blowjob. Sometimes before she goes out so the bbc can taste your cum on her tongue.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

Why are you beating around the bush? Literally! Confront her but tell her it’s okay. When she lies about it, don’t talk about it. Call her the slut she is. Fucking around on you is one thing if you’re ambivalent. But lying is inexcusable. Then make her pay for her infidelity. For every afternoon of black cock she owes you a blowjob. Sometimes before she goes out so the bbc can taste your cum on her tongue.

I did tell her it's ok with me to be with another guy before we get too old. She denies it.

 

[Hawkdoctor]

We had a good round of sex last night. Maybe she is making it up to me.