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  1. M

    New Direction For 2017?

    Classic signs of addiction with Steve. He probably realizes it as this point but is unable or unwilling to find a center of balance. Now is Sue fully realizing and playing that card? To date actions would say yes. Typical emotional troubled waters ahead outlook.Very sad
  2. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Burn out is one thing and normal.. If you have been encouraged by Sue not to post, something that has seemed to work well for you Steve after all this time my question is why does one change unless something is broken? Would beg why change unless you are burned out....
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    New Year, New Thread

  4. M

    New Year, New Thread

    In years past either illness of Steve or work has caused such interruptions, besides a vacation from posting is always healthy from time to time....
  5. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Time and patience are the only true things which brings healing and closure.During such sadness we can look for small positive lights which I see two of.1. Reading your words from the beginning, this tragic event suddenly occurred and his passing was relatively short. How many of us , deep...
  6. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Deception is any form is generally not a good thing. As most all outcomes are negative.A question does comes to mind regarding Sue..... If she so willingly lies to Paul what does that potentially say regarding Steve?Does beg the question........ and a point to ponder perhaps...
  7. M

    New Year, New Thread

    SteveWhere did the part of Sue not wanting to ever hurt you go?Is this an act of love for you on her part? Are an act of selfishness?Is this a combined journey or a one way ticket?This shows total lack of respect for you and your marriage. Plain and simple.Now Sue is getting close to...
  8. M

    New Year, New Thread

    The fact that Sue is pushing for resolution this week is not a good indicator folks of where her heart really is.Clearly Steve is hurt beyond the sexual realms here. I would say he is half way responsible here so not putting all on Sue. However, Sue has agreed many times and given many...
  9. M

    New Year, New Thread

    And that more with "Paul" part ?
  10. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Steve,Do you feel closer with Sue and do you feel she is closer to you? If the marriage comes first and is what you both each want, each other, then why continue to do something which harms it and more separates you two?Don't see how you two are any closer from your last posting here.Your...
  11. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Steve,Why not keep it as a game? You have gone months before without bare intercourse. What more sacrifices do ,you, need to make here?It is human nature to push boundaries so my question is what is the next boundary down the road. Exclusive living with Paul for days on end? Probably...
  12. M

    New Year, New Thread

    As graphite rods are used to control a nuclear reaction from becoming super critical at times so is Steve serving to somewhat control the emotional state from over flowing.Steve is doing a much better job this time around, requesting his wife to have more balance and realizing the freedoms he...
  13. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Very wise to place that little nugget here just in case it gets back..............,In my opinion much, much better that your doing a much better job as this should be a "shared"journey.7 weeks ! Great thinking Steve.Your success rate outlook for the long term and avoiding a "repeat" issue...
  14. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Steve has previously communicated he was posting less because of the tone. If one were to read the past few pages from a neutral zone it is quite evident to most...........,Probably a combination of several things at the same time.........
  15. M

    new to this she says shes ready but nervous

    Good to hear!This will greatly help with balance and keeping this new life style in place as something which should enhance not detract from your marriage.Jumping from the start of this places the proper balance instead of letting the runaway train happen as well so great job.
  16. M

    new to this she says shes ready but nervous

    It is always wise to keep a balance of say twice weekly. This is your first time doing this so let time and actions not words be your guide.Already your getting cutoff and this is a "shared" journey not a one way ticket. If you do not intervene then this journey is run by her and not you...
  17. M

    New Year, New Thread

    It has only been only three days since Steve has last posted and he has over 1.5 pages of our collective input to catch-up on. It could be work/realization/others factors, such as talking with Sue or a collaboration of such weighing in on him.Advisable we all chill some at this time-frame to...
  18. M

    New Year, New Thread

    I will only say that most people change gradually overtime which seems the case here. This change in life which affects us all as we age sometimes grows couples closer and other times they slowly grow apart until realization hits with often it being too late.From a logical view it does indeed...
  19. M

    New Year, New Thread

    Steve,I have previously suggested balance like exclusive only access with Sue one full week every few weeks.Balance is nature as balance in everything greatly helps keep all parts in check and probably would have greatly prevented what you are going thru now and what may manifest in the...
  20. M

    What do you guys think?

    Lets see, March 2010, since this op poster last posted so it would appear this ship has sailed!
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