Shocked, I will apologize to the other posters ahead of time. This a very interesting fantasy you have about your wife. But like a few other threads here that were presented as true, they have run out of gas once the excitement level cannot be maintained, and the facts ring so untrue that it is outed as fiction.
There are two main types of story telling done here: Fiction and Non-Fiction. In Fiction, facts can be changed routinely to fit the moment and characters killed off only to be brought back at a later time. The joy of fiction is, no one has any real expectations of the facts making any sense at the end.
In Non-Fiction, facts and characters don't change for the ease of writer to tell the story. Events and actions remain constant throughout.
According to your first post, sometime just before or on 12/3/2013, you discovered pictures and e-mails on your wife's work computer containing pictures of her having sex with multiple strange men and e-mails between her and strange men. There was at least some effort to hide these pictures and e-mails in folders to hide their existence. You state that some of these e-mails and pics date back 2 years!
Now she has never mentioned anything about liking big cocks, multiple men, gang bangs or even big black cocks to me. Needless to say I was pretty pissed off and was going to go ape shit on her last week. After calming down for a few days I realized that she is the bread winner with her great paying pharmaceutical rep job and I didn't want to open my mouth and screw us up. With her job and my job we want nothing and live very comfortably. We have been married for 9 years and things are great at home.
On 12/11/2013, there was a change from the paragraph above in that you suddenly remember you have mentioned the idea of her blowing others and fucking multiple strange men to her. Naturally this was only remembered once the questions from other posters came up. You wisely checked up on your righteous anger once you determined your money train might be derailed if you didn't handle this better. Money talks and morals walk, eh?
And now in your post dated 12/30/13, you state you now know your wife really did intend for you to find pictures and e-mails. She wanted you to see them so she would know you were ok with the surprise she has planned for you this New year's Eve. You expect us to believe it took her two years to plan all this out with countless men? It took her turning her hotel rooms into live sex shows and your own home into a sex club while you were gone to guage your reaction to a planned surprise? And you buy this? Total strangers to you now know where you live and that is peachy keen with you?
This story is either fabricated bullshit derived from a vivid imagination, or you are allowing your pride, dignity, and testicles
to be purchased at clearance prices. Which is it?