When my wife and I were heavily into the life I would often spend the night at a gay sauna in town. Many of the men there were bi or even straight but curious. The advantage was I could check out the size of the cock before I made approaches to them about coming for drinks one night. There's nothing worse than someone met in a personal turning up and he's got no more cock than yourself, what a disapointment for us both, especially the wife. Needless to say, watching these cocks parade about, some already hard, and some huge, it wasn't long before my little fellow was on display, it just added to my humiliation.