This is a facinating thread, so many facets at play!
" know I probably sound weird to most of you but now that a few people know that I am a cuckold or want to be one at least.. I want to be outed to my best friend's mom."
You may be young in years Harloon, but you are mature in your thinking and seem to know what you want, which puts you way ahead. I am glad you told your friends mother and it will be much easier to communicate now. Someone said they did not think you should tell your mother, I beg to differ, I bet she already knows in her heart, and will want the best for you, and it will be much better coming from you, than one of her catty friends. If you have told your friend, I missed it, but if not, and his mother has not told him, it would be a good idea, because a person who is upfront, honest, and bold are respected by almost everyone. Many persons who like both men an women prefer sex with another male, and since you know you want to have sex with other men, but want/need a woman for social/business reasons and if like me could care less who she has sex with as long as they are clean, and know how to act and dress in any situation. The selected persons you tell, will become your support/referral base, your sister-in-law, friends mother, etc now can look for and refer/set you up with suitable wife material. Men have long married for position, and took lovers for sex, today women do the same
Once you told the first person, you were out, because it is no longer a secret and others will be told. So be it, living a double life is not worth it. Your friends mother has the position and demenor to be an excellent Domintrix/Mistress.