thx for the comment anna! how big is your hubby's dicky? when did you knew that you have to go black and bigger? my current gf seems to be happy with my size altough it is impsossible for me to mke her cum with my lil one... early in our relationship I allways made her cum with my tongue before we had intercourse but these days we hardly have any sex and when we have it I usually don't do oral also. maybe I am trying to get her to fuck somebody else subconsciously ;-) I guess she did not cum with/from me since 8 months... what do you think? is she compensating with internet porn and her vibe? what can I do to become more dominant? for her birthday I gave her a strapless strapon (feeldoe) but she wasn't interested... should I try with a chastity device? you know she might be in it because of the power which comes with it