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Confused MWM

  • Thread starterdaveyw32
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may i suggest you PM Will & Eve he had posted a very detailed HOW TO post...i cant seem to find it...he can tell you where it is. that should help you and give you ideas.

i would start by using a black dildo and black rubbers with her as part of ur fantasy role play and let it develope from there. good luck
 
Men are basically voyeuristic in their makeup, we input things by sight. Men are usually more into porn than women, unless it has a good storyline or something to grab her attention. So seeing a white female having sex with a black male stimulates lots of triggers. It doesn't have a thing to do about superior black male or anything like that. It's the sight of it. I can't speak for the ones that are into cleaning up or sucking cock. Maybe something else hits their triggers.
 
AK i think you meant to say we are visual thats big difference to voyeuristic.
I'd much rather participate/do, than watch.

Pinned to top of this room? what does that mean in english Will I cant find youre "how to" post. I obvioulsy need to take a refresher course on cyber speak and internet tools and such. I assume (yea ass out of you and me) im not the only internet "dumbass" out there.
 
ok i found it here in dear dark cavern didnt know this was the forum we were in...my 08 resolution not to be such a dumbass. happy new year
 
Pooch said:
AK i think you meant to say we are visual thats big difference to voyeuristic.
I'd much rather participate/do, than watch.

Pinned to top of this room? what does that mean in english Will I cant find youre "how to" post. I obvioulsy need to take a refresher course on cyber speak and internet tools and such. I assume (yea ass out of you and me) im not the only internet "dumbass" out there.

I tend to think they overlap at times. But you are correct on the visual, which makes up the voyeuristic aspect of it. Be it the roman coliseum, a sporting event or anything of this nature, and sex is visual as well as physical.
 
She wants it

Davey, hats off to you for having the balls to talk to her about it. I find that many white husbands dont even have a level of communication to even talk about this with their wives, so all they do is come to this site to play with themselves.

You wife is going to have a black lover, dont worry. The key is that she has your approval now. and your approval will start the mental images she will now have of having a black man between her legs.

However, dont drop the ball. Get busy finding the right big stud for her, so you can be sure to turn her out on her first black fuck. Take control of the issue, and get her in the same room with him.
 
It finally happened but not at all the way I expected or wanted it to go. My wife started letting a black guy where she works start flirting with her and didn't tell me about it at first. She did tell him about my fantasy and he told her it wasn't unusual for white husbands to think about their wife with a horny, well hung black stud. He told her that he would make my fantasy come true but she wasn't supposed to tell me about it at first. He then started telling her things that I supposedly would like to get her to do. Apparently he and a friend have both been doing her and letting her think thats I wanted that. I was only thinking about one guy and her doing it once, or maybe twice. They told her that I would want her to have sex without condoms and fuck both of them on a regular basis and shes doing it. When I found out, I told her that she should stop. She told me that it was to late and that she was really enjoying it and that I should shut up and deal with it. I told her she was a slut and then she kicked me out of the apt. I want to have my wife back to normal now but she's went wild and is treating me bad like she doesn't care about us anymore. What can I do to get her back?
 
AND all WM's are in Awe of Black cock. Whether they act on it in any way or not---remember the conversations after seeing the blk boys in shower in high school and college. And the largest blackest ones entered conversations among white boys and men all the time.
luv ya, good luck
 
Omg

:jerry:

I do hope this is only a fantasy for you Davey, but your last story is kinda dead funny ... I would say you got more than you bargained for :D
 
Reality

Will, thanks for the advice. I painfully agree about not being able to control this but my mistake was in thinking she would want to do this together like we do most things. She's not the same and maybe the black men are influencing her behavior now and that is the reason...I dont know.
 
daveyw32 said:
Will, thanks for the advice. I painfully agree about not being able to control this but my mistake was in thinking she would want to do this together like we do most things. She's not the same and maybe the black men are influencing her behavior now and that is the reason...I dont know.

Well I may not be as harsh about the whole thing as Will and Eve but you did create the situation and now you have to adjust your thinking as to what you wanted out of it. I wouldn't blame the men she is seeing as influencing her as much as your behavior. If she knew she was hurting you, I think she would adjust. If not, then time to move on.
 
SandyWho

Thank you for your caring but acurate advice. I really haven't had time to know what to do and how I feel about things but none the less I will have to make decisions when I can. I took the time to go to you web site to learn a little about you and know who the person was that was advising me. Your art seems like a great way to express your emotions and to my eyes, it's quite good. Thanks again.
 
Davey-

As you can tell, I have not led a perfect life, in fact, I am glad I have not. I have not been the faithful wife that I should have been and I hurt some of the people I love the most but I never did purposely. I joke to my girl friends that I fall in love too easily, but there is some truth to it. Maybe it is not love but really infatuation but you can get lost in an affair and not really see how it affects others.
 
I am not sure I believe this story. SHE is so stupid that believes these two guys about what HER HUSBAND is going to like when any moron could see that they just want some bareback pussy and HE is so stupid that he lets her throw him out of the apt? Most guys would throw HER the fuck out of the apt assuming he did not hit her just beat the shit out of her.

Assuming all this is legit maybe HE should get some pussy on the side and not bother to tell her since once a woman goes wild like this she is not going to back to the way she was just like that. Of course he should get some pix or video of wifey in action in case she decides to complain later on.
 
Rhino said:
I am not sure I believe this story. SHE is so stupid that believes these two guys about what HER HUSBAND is going to like when any moron could see that they just want some bareback pussy and HE is so stupid that he lets her throw him out of the apt? Most guys would throw HER the fuck out of the apt assuming he did not hit her just beat the shit out of her.

Assuming all this is legit maybe HE should get some pussy on the side and not bother to tell her since once a woman goes wild like this she is not going to back to the way she was just like that. Of course he should get some pix or video of wifey in action in case she decides to complain later on.

What I love about you Rhino is that you don't hold back. OK, maybe a bit too blunt but I can't disagree with what you are saying.
 
Wife and I have thought about this for some time and the nip tuck show is bringing it closer to happening if we can find a like party.
 
It's over

Last night I was talking to my wife about what she was doing to me (us). She then told me that she really likes her lovers and was sorry to tell me that it's the best sex she has had. Then she said that she was going to not stop and told me she was probably going to divorce me. That killed me to know everything is gone.
 
Davey-

I am so sorry that things did not work for you and I know you are hurting. It may not be fair they way things turned out but you need to move on. She will have a lot more respect for you if you decide to make a clean break and you will have a lot more respect for yourself if you do too.

I know it will be hard, but do not be angry. Life goes on and you will find that in many ways you will be much better off. Living in a bad relationship is destructive, moving on is healthy.
 
daveyw32 said:
Last night I was talking to my wife about what she was doing to me (us). She then told me that she really likes her lovers and was sorry to tell me that it's the best sex she has had. Then she said that she was going to not stop and told me she was probably going to divorce me. That killed me to know everything is gone.

Goddam bitch.

Hire a private detective to get proof she is a slut and take her for as much money as u can get.

Assuming this is all legit. Big coincidence this is all wrapping up when i call bullshit.
 
SandyWho said:
What I love about you Rhino is that you don't hold back. OK, maybe a bit too blunt but I can't disagree with what you are saying.

Lots to love about me. U know i want to own u right?
 

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