Cuckold book

[Cyclop]

First hi to all!
Ive been reading this forum for quite a while, but only today i register cause i need your help.
So in short i wont to be a cuckold. I am married, 32 year old, and have really good looking wife. She is hot and sexy and have huge sexual apatite, and so do I. We fuck 2 times per day, sometimes even more. The thing is i wont her to feel another cock/cocks. Its hard to explain but i know her for 6 years and i always felt like natural thing for her to fuck with more then one guy, cause she has that sort of energy, and i think its natural for her. I had many woman in bed but i never wonted to see them fucked by other guys and it was not turn on for me. But with her its different....
So i wont her to fuck another man. The problem is she is loving wife who thinks that this kind of lifestyle is cheating and that i am only doing it cause i think i am not good enough for her or something like that. As I already sed I am reading this forum for long time but i was never in humiliation, chastity and sissy thing. I dont wont to be humiliated and i dont think that i am bed lover. I have 7 inch cock, and my wife is very satisfied with our sex life and so am I. I am also not into cleaning her pussy after and all the other similar things. I just wont to see her fucked really good but by another man: I wont to see her in orgasm, and i wont to see someones big cock inside her, stretching her pussy....and she enjoying it like never before......
So, the thing is when i mention her my fantasy she didnt like it at first but i saw she was turned on and interested just woldnt admit it, cause deep inside she knows she wonts it and needs it. Also, she loves me too much and doesnt wont to loose me. So I was thinking to buy her a present.... Because she reads a lot I was thinking to buy her a book from woman perspective on cuckold/hotwife theme. It has to be erotic, but similar to our relationship. For example a story of a couple who is going step by step into lifestyle of cuckold and hotwife..... I was looking on the internet and there are many books on the subject but all include humiliation, chastity or domination..... Is there any book that starts similar to relation that we have and its going into direction that wife is starting relationship with another guy/guys and husband like it. Also it is very important that while she fucks other guys they still make love together also. They are just enjoying her having sex with other guys, and they relationship is getting even stronger. O, and there is no chastity, humiliation....
I think when she reads book like that, she will love it, and in time she will start the lifestyle i know we both wont.
Thank you all in advance.

 

[BobMichaels]

book suggestion

It's not from the female perspective, but the POV of the cuckold, slowly being psychologically sucked into cuckolding. The book is called "reluctant cuckold" and on smashwords you can sample the first 100 pages. There is cheating, or one episode of one, which the narrator obsesses about, but it's tame on humiliation etc. It should probably have been called "how to become a cuckold in ten weeks".

 

[Custer Laststand]

"Cuckold husband / hotwife marriage" books and articles...

Cyclop,

Welcome to the forum!

I've been reading this forum for quite a while, but today i registered because i need your help.

OK...

In short, i want to be a cuckold.

Nothing wrong with that...

I am married, 32 years old, and have a really good-looking wife. She is hot and sexy and has a huge sexual appetite. So do I. We fuck twice a day, sometimes more.

Awright... congratulations for persuading an attractive woman with such a high sex drive to marry you, and for having a complementary high sex drive yourself. It sounds like you're well-matched in that regard.

.... The problem is, she is a loving wife who thinks this kind of lifestyle is cheating and I only want it because i think i am not good enough for her, or something like that.

A lot of men would consider it a plus (not a minus) to have a loving, highly-sexual wife whom they are actually able to satisfy in bed — but, your wife's skepticism re. you encouraging her to take lovers is fairly typical.

I have been reading this forum for a long time; I am not into being humiliated, locked in a chastity device by my wife, or becoming a sissy.

Hey... no problem. Lots of men aren't enthusiastic about stuff like that.

I just want to see her fucked really good by another man. I want to see her in orgasm, and i wont to see another man's big cock inside her, stretching her pussy, and her enjoying it like never before.

OK...

When i mentioned my fantasy to my wife, she didn't like it at first — but i saw she was turned on and interested; she just wouldn't admit it. Deep inside, she knows she wants it and needs it.

Sounds like your wife, as well as you, are going to find she's a natural...

Also, she loves me and doesn't want to lose me.

That's definitely a plus. Fearing that taking lovers will result in losing their husbands inhibits lots of married women who secretly want to fuck other men... maybe lots of other men. But, if both of you are convinced you have a good marriage you don't want to destroy that will tend to be a strong stabilizing influence.

So, I want to buy my wife a present. She reads a lot, so I want to buy her a book written from a woman's perspective on the "cuckold husband/hotwife" marriage theme. It has to be erotic... but when I looked on the internet, I found the many books on this subject all seem to include humiliation, chastity or domination (which I don't want). Are there good books available that don't?

Briefly, yes. First, two online articles by women on this subject that might appeal to your wife are:

Susan Gower on natural cuckolding of husbands by married women:
The Science of Cuckoldry Cuckold Couple

Dr. Cherry Lee on the cuckold husband / hotwife phenomenon:
The Cuckold Phenomena Cuckold Couple

A hardcover book-for-the-lay-person by a clinical psychologist that's interesting, readable, and is not oriented toward humiliation etc. of cuckold husbands is:

Ley, David J., 2009, Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them (Roman and Littlefield Publishers, Inc., 291 pp. [hardcover]).

An online e-zine your wife might want to peruse, oriented toward progressive married women who cuckold their husbands or LTR partners as well as toward sexually-active single women, is:

“Scandalous Women:"
Scandalouswomen - the cuckolding lifestyle for the scandalous woman

If you and/or your wife have a "Kindle reader" or are willing to buy one (the current price seems to be about $70), a two-part Kindle-edition e-book on this subject that's apparently recent, authored by a woman, is:

Carter, Melisa, How to Cuckold Your Husband, Vol. 1 (Kindle edition e-book):
Amazon.com: How to Cuckold Your Husband - Volume 01 eBook: Melisa Carter: Kindle Store

Carter, Melisa, How to Cuckold Your Husband, Vol. 2 (Kindle edition, e-book):
Amazon.com: How to Cuckold Your Husband - Volume 02 eBook: Melisa Carter: Kindle Store

I haven't read it, however, so I can't comment on whether it meets your criteria. The 3 introductory paragraphs, quoted from Amazon, are:

“Turning your husband into a cuckold can be one of the most rewarding things you ever do. A successfully cuckolded husband will be completely submissive. He will satisfy all your sexual cravings, manage all the mundane chores of your life, allow you to sleep with whomever you wish, subject himself to any amount of humiliation you desire, and of course, love you unconditionally.”

“But be warned, cuckolding can also be one of the most challenging things you ever do. The process is long, complicated, energy consuming, and by no means sure of success. The strain on your marriage will be unbelievable, and it may be weeks or months before you succeed. In the end though, it will be worth it.”

“Hopefully this will help educate women on how to begin the wonderful journey of female domination and to hopefully relieve some of the apprehension that might prevent a woman from ever trying. After reading this it will be clearer that cuckolding your husband is not as hard as it seems, and that accomplishing this feat is more possible than you thought.”

An additional apparently-recent e-book on this subject, authored by a woman, is:

Perry, Jasmine, The Art of Cuckolding:
The Art of Cuckolding (e-Book) by Jasmine Perry in Sex & Relationships

but I haven't read this one either, so I can't comment on whether it meets your criteria.

Finally, I'll note that if your wife makes you her cuckold she will need additional support from you at home so she will have sufficient time and energy to date, seduce and fuck other men. An online strategy she may find useful for guiding you in this direction is:

Lady Misato: Real Women Don’t Do Housework:
Real Women Don't Do Housework

I hope you and your wife find this helpful.

—Custer

 

[saket_salmon]

Susan Gower articles is bullshit. It's one sided and appeals probably to a very tiny minority men (in terms of its intellect).
Don't have the link, it's somewhere on the net. At least don't take these links as 'proofs' or education material.

 

[Hank jones]

Lol to funny my wife just bought this collection of books on amizon. Told me she almost bought me a Kendal cause a lot of the cuckold books were digital only. I'm not allowed to read any of it without her permission.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Susan Gower's article is bullshit. It's one-sided and appeals probably to a very tiny minority of men (in terms of intellect).

The title of this article is, "The Science of Cuckolding." It was originally published, apparently, in "Latex Magazine" (which I was unable to find online a while back). In any case, it doesn't exactly have the sound of a peer reviewed journal about it, and in fact, it isn't. That means, by definition, it should not be considered the outcome of serious research. As with many (perhaps most) material one finds online, judging whether this article has it right, partially right, or is completely wrong is up to the reader.

Re. whether it appeals to a "tiny minority" or "massive majority" of men: that wasn't Cyclop's request. Rather, his request was for material written from the point of view of a woman that does not include humiliation, etc., of cuckolded husbands. The author is a woman, and it satisfies that criterion.

Don't have the link, it's somewhere on the net. ....

I provided a link to it, above. It's also been reproduced by "Scandalous Women" e-zine (which does not make it any more or less respectable, in terms of content).

 

[Custer Laststand]

Lol, too funny. My wife just bought this collection of books from Amazon. She told me she almost bought me a Kindle-reader because a lot of the cuckold books are digital only.

Ah... so your wife reads, and has an interest in keeping herself informed of the "cuckold husband / hotwife" literature. That's positive . Maybe you should consider buying her a Kindle-reader as a present, for some "special occasion" or other...

I'm not allowed to read any of it without her permission.

Hm... I see your wife keeps you on a tight leash with respect to your online activities. Obviously, she's a wise woman ...

Do you make a list of online material you'd like to read each week, and present it to your wife (say, each Saturday) for her approval or disapproval of each item...? I hope so. It would be unfortunate if you were to interpret your wife's leash as precluding you from reading anything...

 

[Saraha]

It is more enjoyable if a wife has a long term lover who she can develop loving feelings for - this helps her keep away from health risks and the frustration of always looking for new guys if hubby does not want her to go out with a guy more than three times (to avoid her falling in love with him).

As long as hubby gives her the freedom to choose how much time she wishes to spend with her other "husband", there is usually no problem. Both husbands have different needs, and she does not want to feel a tug-a-war between the two men she fucks.

There is no point in a wife having sex with other men simply to please her husband. She needs to develop a good friendship with any man who sees her naked, otherwise it can feel embarrassing for her to put on a "sex show" for her husband that is just physical.

Sex is much better if love is wrapped around the act. A wife will text her lover quite regularly as she develops her friendship with him - and hubby is better not to read all her text.

There wll be times in a marriage when a wife needs a lot of extra loving, then periods when her husband is enough for her. As long as she knows that it is okay for her to pick up guys to her own agenda, then she will only select men with the right chemistry for her. She has to feel safe with men, so she needs time to decide who will be right for her to be involved with.

 

[Cyclop]

Thank you all for the answers and different approaches on the subject.

Custer, i did read review on all of materials that you mentioned but they are more like scientific approach on the subject.

What i wont is a story, erotic story fiction or not, where husband and wife are revealing the whole new world of cuckold style, and step by step they are starting to like it. For example, wife meets some new guy and she is starting to feel interest in him, mostly erotic but she doesnt wont to do anything cause she doesnt wont to ruin her marriage and hurt the husband she loves. But, later she found out that her husband also like the idea her having sex with other guy and they decide to go on the journey together, and step by step she or they discover that that is the lifestyle they wont to have and live.
It has to be erotic not porn, also as i already mentioned several times no humiliation, cause i am not into it, and neither is she.

Thanks.

 

[Saraha]

Both hubby and his wife should read a lot of the Literotica free stories to see which you enjoy the most.

You could write an erotic story yourself and give it to your wife to read - and ask her if you have enough talent to become a writer and earn money. By the time she has finished reading it, she will be ready to give you hints about whether she could ever do the things in the story.

 

[saket_salmon]

The title of this article is, "The Science of Cuckolding." It was originally published, apparently, in "Latex Magazine" (which I was unable to find online a while back). In any case, it doesn't exactly have the sound of a peer reviewed journal about it, and in fact, it isn't. That means, by definition, it should not be considered the outcome of serious research. As with many (perhaps most) material one finds online, judging whether this article has it right, partially right, or is completely wrong is up to the reader.

Re. whether it appeals to a "tiny minority" or "massive majority" of men: that wasn't Cyclop's request. Rather, his request was for material written from the point of view of a woman that does not include humiliation, etc., of cuckolded husbands. The author is a woman, and it satisfies that criterion.



I provided a link to it, above. It's also been reproduced by "Scandalous Women" e-zine (which does not make it any more or less respectable, in terms of content).

No dear... wait. I admire that you don't lose patience. But that article is simply wrong. Hence humiliating to both men and women. By link, I meant that of a scientific rejoinder. However, there are probably worse, which works in Cyclop's favour.

 

[Custer Laststand]

But that article [by Susan Gower] is simply wrong.

I'm open to being convinced by your arguments, but you haven't presented any. That is, your assertion would be more convincing if you were to inform us what aspects of Gower's article are "simply wrong," and tell us why.

Ley (2009)... although he does not reference or discuss Gower's article... seems to suggest, indirectly, that she's right. For instance, somewhere in his book (I'll leave it to you to read it) he comments that to compare the orgasmic potential of a typical woman to that of a man is like comparing the racing capabilities of a Ferrari to those of a second-hand [Chevy, Ford, or whatever].

This, of course, is not to suggest I think Gower's article should be assumed to apply equally to "all women" (or "all men"), since there is great variability among individuals.

 

[Harry2614]

Book

I recommend "the Klone & I" by Daniele Steel http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=the+klone+%26+I&x=17&y=17
A very funny book where a man gives his 'girl friend' a clone of himself when he goes 'out of town' for business. The book never refers to "cuckolding" but she realizes that two lovers is a "real turn on". My wife read it first, She was laughing so hard, I had to read it too. Sure brought out discussion's that could easily lead to discussing the lifestyle.
Cheers Harry