Cuckold without humiliation????????

[bill12000]

First off, hello. New to forums.
Here's my question.....being cuckolded has been a fantasy of mine as far back as I can remember. Whether my wife has sex with another man with me there or not, is not important. What I would like to know, from real cucks, is if anyone has had a long term cuck marriage that doesn't involve humiliation. No offense intended whatsoever to those who enjoy that, it's just not for us. We have been together for a very long time. We have a vigorous sex life and equally vigorous fantasy life which we share with each other. We have been getting closer to this for almost a year now. My wife has been struggling with her upbringing of traditional concepts of marriage and her own personal moral code. She has agreed to give it a try and has actually gone out to a couple of local restaurant/bars, with condoms in her purse (even that turns me on) Has been hit on but just didn't feel the "chemistry" yet.
So, I know this very possibly is going to happen for real, and looking for info from people who live the lifestyle and can provide no nonsense advice.
Also, I don't consider myself small or big, very average. 6" x 5.5 when hard. Would like to hear from cucks that don't consider themselves to have a small penis, but enjoy being cucked.
Cheers,Bill

 

[will2112001]

Been in this lifestyle for a number of years. I am the other Man. I hate the word Bull. But to answer Your question. Yes it is. There is No right or wrong way to do this.

 

[bill12000]

Thanks Will, I assumed there was a "spectrum" of cuck relationships, just don't see much posted from this end of the spectrum

 

[txwifebreeder]

I also hate the term "bull," and I prefer cuckolds who are just regular guys into voyeurism. Sissy cucks creep me out. This is the couple I play with. Wife is 22 y/o webcam model and hubby is 39 y/o switch.

 

[adam8642]

No humiliation in our relationship.

 

[Tanboat05]

Might consider a road trip.
Stays private and at home nobody is wiser.

It's possible and normal.

 

[vladdy]

There are plenty of guys who like being sissy cucks and those who just want to watch their lady get some extra cock.

Also humiliation could be considered in a broad spectrum also. Anything from one cuck being a sissy and wearing womens under garments and watching while his girl gets pounded by many muscular men. To another guy who is quite muscular, normal sized cock, but his lady is getting it from a dorky dude with a huge hog.

Personally I find some of the sissy cuck stuff a little strange sometimes. I perfer to lean to the side of guys who want to let their lady have anything they want if it makes them happy and excited. That excitment can of course come back to you later like a well made investment. when you want something.

 

[Custer Laststand]

First off, hello. I'm new to the forums.

Welcome!

Whether my wife has sex with another man with me there or not, is not important.

There's nothing wrong with that view.

What I would like to know, from real cucks, is if anyone has had a long term cuck marriage that doesn't involve humiliation.

Sure, there are lots of them. Keep in mind the definition of a cuckold ("a man with an unfaithful wife") does not require a cuckold to be aware his wife fucks other men. Traditionally, many cuckolds haven't known that and have gone about their daily lives like anyone else. Or, they have known it but, to minimize conflict and keep their families together, they've ignored it and gone about their daily lives like anyone else.

A simple way to view it would be: if your wife fucks other men, that's the "cake." You are a cuckold. Anything beyond that — for example, if you're turned on by your wife and her lover(s) humiliating you about being a cuckold and they do so — can be viewed as "icing and decorations" on the cake.

[My wife] has agreed to give it a try and has actually gone out to a couple of local restaurant/bars with condoms in her purse.

Good for your wife...

Even that turns me on.

So far, so good...

She has been hit on but just hasn't felt the "chemistry" yet.

It may take a while for your wife to find a man she feels sufficient "chemistry" with to go to bed with him despite her culturally-instilled reservations about extra-marital fucking.

Not incidentally: if your wife is going out to bars by herself you and she might work out a mutually-agreed-on-in-advance plan for protecting her if it should turn out someone she leaves the bar with turns out to fall somewhere short of being a "nice guy." I mean, not all men who try and sometimes succeed at picking up women in bars are among the world's nicest guys.

As your wife's cuckold-in-waiting, I suggest you view protecting her as your highest priority. (Maybe you and your wife have thought about this... if so, you didn't mention it.)

So, I know this very possibly is going to happen for real.

It sounds like it. Hang in there, and don't worry about whether the size of your cock makes you a "natural cuckold." Most men have more-or-less average-size cocks (by definition), including men who wish their wives would make them their cuckolds, men whose wives have actually done so, and men who are cuckolds but don't know it.

 

[Cabron]

As I've said from the beginning here, I'm more into voyeurism than anything else. The humilation aspect is not something that interests me.

I'm comfortable with open relationships where both sides can explore their sexuality and induldge their desires without jealousy.

Trust also has to be a big part of it all as well as acceptance that if the lady doesn't really want to be with me, then I just have to move on.

I derived a lot of pleasure out of disucssing her upcoming affairs with her and then seeing the photographs she'd bring me at the end of the trip.

We enjoyed this arrangement for about 6 months before she decided she'd found something better. So at least beware that that's a risk in the lifestyle.

 

[Custer Laststand]

I just like knowing my wife is actively fucking other men, I have no problem with that, I'm not jealous in any way, encourage her to take as many cocks up her pussy as possible, have no problem with other men cumming in her, or her being felt up and groped in clubs, I enjoy the feeling I get when I know she's either with another man, or comes home with their cum in her. Since we started I've encouraged her a lot, she loves fucking anyway, and we have sex every day. For me it's all about her sexuality and enjoyment.

This sounds like a very sane and mutually-rewarding marriage.

BTW, your wife has very voluptuous, sensuous and succulent-looking tits...

 

[SubmissiveHubby]

I also consider myself more of a voyeur, even if I hardly every watch my wife have sex since she prefers going solo, but have also had these "cheating" fantasies since even before I got married or actually had a girlfriend. I remember when I first discovered internet back in -95, I was single then and had never had a real girlfriend, just some ONSs and I discovered some site with sex novels and I sat all night reading sex stories about women cheating on their husbands and them getting excited about it. I had these fantasies for many years before my wife actually became a cheating wife and me a cuckold.
The only humiliation I have been excited about is the psychological one, that my wife likes to have sex with other men, and that she doesn't care enough about my feelings to stop. She says that no man, including me should tell her who she will have sex with, and that is incredible hot but at the same time a little scaring.
I have recently (the last 2 years) become interested in being punished more physically but my wife isn't into that. She has spanked me a few times with her hand during sex and pinched my nipples hard but thats it. I know she really isn't into it.
I take bigger steps in fantasy every day regarding this, maybe one day I will be spanked by both her and her lover and then tied up and ****** to listen to them having sex in the same room. But that is just a fantasy, I am not prepared to take that step in real life. At least not now. Who knows in a few years?

 

[Son of John]

I have said this in many posts, but I should say it as often as I can: Most of us, including me, are "Wife-Sharers", and not full cuckolds. We do not suffer when other men fuck our wives. We are not humiliated. We thoroughly enjoy the whole experience.

I know that there are others who may need to feel that they are being taken advantage of, and I would not try to talk them out of it. But if you are one of those guys who likes to share his wife's naked body with other men, then enjoy it as much as you can and don't wonder whether you are meeting the full criteria to be a cuckold.

 

[bill12000]

Thanks to all.
I didn't mention it, but yes we are very safety concious. I will be close by

 

[BangMyOlivia]

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[robandkate]

I have had the good fortune to have been in two hotwife marriages. One for 9 years and this one for over 20 years. I have never had any interest in the 'cuky', 'sissyboy', 'caged', 'deprived' aspect of this lifestyle, not that there is anything wrong with any of those, they just do not interest me personally.

The term cuckold is so often associated with those behaviors that people sometimes make assumptions that all such relationships include those aspects. I prefer to think of myself as the husband of a hotwife, although I realize that by definition, I am a cuckold.

I am a successful business executive with an MBA and by all observations, a regular guy. I have an average size cock and I love pussy. Kate nor I allow any type of physical or verbal degradation.

All of that being said, there is certainly some inherent humiliation, however subtle, in 'letting' other men fuck your wife. I do enjoy the 'subtle' humiliation of jacking off while I watch another guy fuck my wife, eating and fucking her used pussy, whether or not I was there when she got fucked. I like being around guys who fuck my wife and I like for certain people to know that her pussy is available to other men.

Email me at robandkate@hotmail.com if you would like to discuss in more detail.

Rob

 

[cuckhub05]

First off, hello. New to forums.
Here's my question.....being cuckolded has been a fantasy of mine as far back as I can remember. Whether my wife has sex with another man with me there or not, is not important. What I would like to know, from real cucks, is if anyone has had a long term cuck marriage that doesn't involve humiliation. No offense intended whatsoever to those who enjoy that, it's just not for us. We have been together for a very long time. We have a vigorous sex life and equally vigorous fantasy life which we share with each other. We have been getting closer to this for almost a year now. My wife has been struggling with her upbringing of traditional concepts of marriage and her own personal moral code. She has agreed to give it a try and has actually gone out to a couple of local restaurant/bars, with condoms in her purse (even that turns me on) Has been hit on but just didn't feel the "chemistry" yet.
So, I know this very possibly is going to happen for real, and looking for info from people who live the lifestyle and can provide no nonsense advice.
Also, I don't consider myself small or big, very average. 6" x 5.5 when hard. Would like to hear from cucks that don't consider themselves to have a small penis, but enjoy being cucked.
Cheers,Bill

It is definitely possible to have a long term cuckold marriage that doesn't involve humiliation, as my wife and I have had for 10+ years, gong back to before we got married and she was having sex with other men while we were engaged. I do have a very small cock , which was the reason my wife began cuckolding me ,but it was at my suggestion initially and because I loved her so much and wanted her to be as satisfied sexually as I knew I could make her feel emotionally. She was reluctant to have sex with someone else at first too, becasue she was concerned with my feelings and had no desire to hurt or humiliate me and was very gratified to know I was extremely happy whenever she did have sex with her lover(s)
and see how much I enjoyed being intimate with her..cuddling , snuggling and going down on her cum filled pussy after she had been fucked by a well hung guy who had given her the pleasure and satisfaction my small dick couldn't give her. I agree with Rob (robandkate) that there is a subtle humiliation in knowing other men are fucking your wife, and I too enjoy that, but would not enjoy my wife verbally humiliating me by making fun of my size, or lack thereof, or tellingme she needs a "real man" to fuck her and she has neevr done that.,in fact she has always told me how loved it makes her feel to know I get so much satisfaction from being her cuckold and watching her enjoy another man's cock, or hearing about it afterward if I'm not there when she has sex.. She'll tell me how good her lover's cock feels , or felt , in her and I do enjoy having her lovers tell me how much they enjoy fucking my wife and as Rob said, being around guys,and n many cases even becoming friends wth the guys who are fucking her as well as having certain guys I know be aware that she is available to be fucked although we are discreet when it comes to family and our vanillla friends... I also am a "regular guy" though..I have a construction business and am not a sissy ,nor do I wear panties..which I agree there is nothing wrong with if one is into that, but my wife is , if anything, more onthe submissive side herself, so she would not like me being a sissy,but rather she likes that I am a normal, manly guy who is also a cuckold , but only in the sense that she does in fact have sex with other men , not the other behaviors that are often associated with cuckolding, but really are more a part of a D/s relationship.,which can and often does include cuckolding. I am in chastity and have been since a few months before we got married, and while I know that is defintley not for eeveryone and not necessary for being a cuckold, it is something we both enjoy and which works well for us given the fact that i am too small to satisfy her and we both realized it would be frustrtaing for both of us for me to even try once she was getting fucked and satisfied by other more well hung men.

Hope it works out for you and your wife finds osmeone with whom she does have chemisrty and enjoys having sex.

 

[bill12000]

Wow, thanks guys....we have been married 40 years.....I got a penile prothesis a year ago. we have a great sex life and i really believe (at least i hope) this will only enrich it.
At least, part of her reluctance is all the stuff associated with the cuckold life style on the internet really catering to or focusing on the sissification/humiliation of the husband.
I know for certain the sex intriques her, gets her crazy wet talking about it. And while I have no illusion that by anyones standards allowing your wife to fuck other men and enjoying it carries a degree of humiliation, it is all a matter of degrees i quess.....
thanks, great site, best I've found so far.

 

[JimmyHCO]

I don't think humiliation like you see in cuckold porn ever happens with real cuckold couples. Some men, including myself, desire to be humiliated but women do not under any circumstances would want to humiliate their husband. No woman wants a sissy. None.

With that being said however, all women have different sex drives, and some of them are open to all kinds of kinky things in sex. Some women love having two or more sexual partners at the same time, and even find it sexy when there is some man on man action. If you find a woman like that, you're a lucky man.

Most women however find gay sex disgusting.

 

[txwifebreeder]

I don't think humiliation like you see in cuckold porn ever happens with real cuckold couples.

It did with the hotwife in the attached pics. Her hubby wore panties and bra and started crying when she was begging me to knock her up. I couldn't fucking take it. I threw a boot at him and told him to get out.

 

[JimmyHCO]

It did with the hotwife in the attached pics. Her hubby wore panties and bra and started crying when she was begging me to knock her up. I couldn't fucking take it. I threw a boot at him and told him to get out.

LOL, poor cucky. I wonder why she even stays with him?