In this forum its meaning is more
"a man whose wife has sex with other men" . I've said many times that
I don't consider my wife unfaithful, or myself a cuckold, IF she has sex with other men where I've condoned or encouraged her to do so. But, that's splitting hairs and causes confusion. [/FONT]
Cuckolding also is often used with defining WIVES of cheating husbands, and SINGLES (both male & female) in supposedly committed relationships. So, I'm personally willing to accept these definitional changes as long as everyone is on the same page during conversations. We've had this discussion many many times over the 7 years I've been in this forum, and everyone seems to have their own opinion as to how this word applies. [/QUOTE]
Mac, in my opinion there are some contradictions in your argumentation.
You state the genuine cuckold is a man cheated INVOLUNTARILY by his wife
or his GF. To feel the cuckold experience he must of course discover his wife/GF has cheated him. Now all is upon his reaction:
A) he shoot her dead
B) he makes a dispute and leaves her or she leaves him
C) he forgives her and they continue their marriage under condition to remain faithful to each other
D) the wife/GF wants to keep both the husband and the lover and the
husband consents for practical reasons as economical consequences of a
divorce, the emotional health of the children, institution of an open
marriage etc., ED of husband. He desapprove to be cuckolded but
consents for objective reasons
E) the husband gets pleasure in been cuckolded with all emotions connected
(jealousy, impotence, humiliation, breeding, angst feelings).
I think it is point E) what the forum members are craving. Some try stimulation through porn others incite their wifes/GFs to cheat on them.
In the terminology these husbands/BFs are "wittols".
The main topic of the forums and porn is the husband/BF has to convince his wife/GF to take a lover. The two have intercourse and the husband is involved in different degrees, mostly he is in some way humiliated.
The porn industry has set the content and the naming, a cuckold is a man
who is ****** by his wife or the bull to surrender the wifes pussy or he agrees to it to experience sexual pleasure.
I conclude that cuckold has now two significations, the general one in the dictionary proposed by Mac and the new one established by the porn industry and the cuckold communities.
To the cuck-want-to-be:they should find surrogates to satisfy their desires.
This is quite possible as voyeur, swinger, orgies etc. There are surely prostitutes who satisfy the darkest desires. But I still think, that cuckolding is not so widespread at it may appear. Brazil is a very inventive country for pay sex and as I now cuckolding is not offered through common channels, but maybe once it will happen.
Sometimes it happens to me to be surrounded by young and very beautiful sexy women who sometimes are taken by other man, which is the course of the world but sometimes I get jealous and excited....