Thanks....
.....wifeownsme for your feedback(and blaquehorse too)! Part of sharing my journey(our journey) on here is to help and be helped by like-minded people who understand something of what we are going through. Yes, there is some emotional pain, almost overwhelming at times, But, there are incredible highs that go with this as well. Kissing my wife, as she tells me how much she loves me, while she is getting fucked by her lover. Seeing how content she is when we have all finished fucking or making love. The pain of seeing the intimate little things she does with her lovers, particularly the gentle guy - hand-holding, deep long kissing, touching him at the restaurant table. For both of us, it is those little things that are intimate, not so much the actual fucking.
We had a great night last night with the gentle lover. Dressed to the nines, hot, but classy, lingerie. Great dinner together, long foreplay(again in front of an open motel window with a stunning view over one of the world's great cities), hot fucking, cum swallowing, more foreplay, more fucking, ending with me cumming in her pussy. (Lots of talking, as well) My wife has fallen for this guy, and, that's OK by me. We are in this together - nothing behind anyone's back - and it has done amazing things for our marriage. All counter-intuitive, I know, but completely true.