Do You Think She Would Cuck Me?

[okdeacon]

I am a 24 year old male and my girlfriend is 22. I have always fantasized about cuckhold and whatnot but never felt like approaching it with my girlfriend. My girl and I have been together for almost 3 years and we have always had amazing sex. Here over the past few months she has been opening up about dreams and fantasies. It started when she told me of a dream about an older man sucking on her nipples and she woke up so turned on she can't stand it. The second instance was a few weeks ago when she told me she had a fantasy of doing a man with an accent not of our own. I.e. British. I kinda poked around at the idea of her going for it and she said although it's very hot to her she couldn't do it because she loved me and it wouldn't feel right to her. The next was a few nights ago when she told me that she had a dream about having sex with one of my best friends in our shower. She again played it down and said it was only a dream. She was very slutty in high school and we broke up once and she slept with 3 guys in a 2 week time all while still sleeping with me. I guess what I'm asking is the cuckhold thing a no go or is it a possibility. If it is how do I approach it. I'm at a loss

GUY , YOUR SITUATION IS A NO BRAINER. Just look her in the eyes and tell her you have thought what she has told you and that you like it. Don't just tell her to go do it, instead tell her you wish for her to do it for the BOTH of you. Also if you have the courage to admit it, tell her it turned you on when she was fucking other men before you two got together full time. You cant expect her to go through life with just your cock. It is not fair and a mistake a lot of insecure men make. She will take you to places that you will enjoy very much going to. She is doing her very best to tell you that she loves only you but that she wants several different kinds of sex with other types of men. I think you are a lot luckier that you realize. Guy let her have some fun and you will reap many rewards. okdeacon

 

[ThatGuy_17]

GUY , YOUR SITUATION IS A NO BRAINER. Just look her in the eyes and tell her you have thought what she has told you and that you like it. Don't just tell her to go do it, instead tell her you wish for her to do it for the BOTH of you. Also if you have the courage to admit it, tell her it turned you on when she was fucking other men before you two got together full time. You cant expect her to go through life with just your cock. It is not fair and a mistake a lot of insecure men make. She will take you to places that you will enjoy very much going to. She is doing her very best to tell you that she loves only you but that she wants several different kinds of sex with other types of men. I think you are a lot luckier that you realize. Guy let her have some fun and you will reap many rewards. okdeacon

Ok thanks!

 

[ThatGuy_17]

I suggest proceeding along the lines of the 8-part article I cited above, "Turning a Wife into a Hotwife."

If you don't like that approach, an alternative would be to propose a game in which your woman pretends to be your cuckoldress, and you pretend to be her cuckold. At first, make it a "just in bed" game, in which your woman seductively teases you about fucking a lover that day (she should give him a name, then expand until she has a stable of pretend lovers with different names), who was VERY satisfying.... his cock is MUCH larger than yours. Then, if you find that makes your time in bed together hotter, expand to her teasing you about her superior (pretend) lovers whenever the two of you are alone together, not necessarily in bed. That could gradually lead to her realizing that you are, in fact, turned on by thoughts of her fucking other men, which could lead to a specific agreement that it is totally OK for her to date, seduce, and fuck other men, while you will remain faithful as her cuckold (in reality).

Alright I'll try it

 

[okdeacon]

Alright I'll try it

Get it done. You will love it. Yes she will eventually fuck some else with or with out your consent, and she SHOULD. She is going to do it for you, even though she wants it, it is going to be for you. okdeacon

 

[PussyFlavoredKisses]

So what happened? Your girl sounds like a total SLUT (which I say with the greatest of respect for you & her both) & I was expecting this thread to end in some serious infidelity. : ) Did it backfire or are you making tender LOVE to her sweet cream pies that she made for you with the help of "some well hung guy?"

 

[Custer Laststand]

Alright I'll try it.

How's it going, ThatGuy_17...? Any updates...? It's been over 6 months since your last post, above. Did your (apparently) hot and horny woman move forward and take a lover, or did she dig in her heels and refuse....?

Or, did you initiate a "cuckold game" with her but you're still pretending, hoping to gradually guide her toward seducing and fucking another man, in reality...?

If your woman has dug in her heels and is refusing (insisting that "she loves you" and "she only needs one man, and that's you," etc.), that might be because she has an underlying goal in mind — marriage — and she doesn't want to do anything that might endanger her relationship with you. I.e., she may fear if she takes a lover, you might use that as an excuse to pursue other women (which, almost certainly, she doesn't want).

In any case, you might keep in mind that to become a for-real cuckold, you will need to marry your woman — since the definition is, "cuckold: a man with an unfaithful wife."

 

[ThatGuy_17]

Hey guys! Sorry it's been a while. She has dug her heals in pretty hard against it. So I've kinda backed off till recently. She actually told me if I brought it up again she would leave me over it. Within the last couple weeks it's been brought up a few times and it's been by her every time. Mostly just basic questions and her wanting to know that if I am only wanting this to justify me having another woman which I don't and have no desire to. I've told her that repeatedly. I told her it still turns me on and that I'm not pressing her into anything but I would like to be able to at least talk about it and she agreed. She says she's been reading a lot on it and has actually watched some cuck/hotwife porn. We had sex the other day and role played a little with her dildos and she got extremely horny and we had the best sex we've had in a long time. She actually told me to masterbait to my fantasy the other day and tell her about it which was really hot. I think she is thinking some on it but is pretty unsure. I asked her a couple days ago if she was any more at ease with it and she said no and has dropped it since so I have too. It's definitely better looking than it was.

 

[PussyFlavoredKisses]

Hey guys! Sorry it's been a while. She has dug her heals in pretty hard against it. So I've kinda backed off till recently. She actually told me if I brought it up again she would leave me over it. Within the last couple weeks it's been brought up a few times and it's been by her every time. Mostly just basic questions and her wanting to know that if I am only wanting this to justify me having another woman which I don't and have no desire to. I've told her that repeatedly. I told her it still turns me on and that I'm not pressing her into anything but I would like to be able to at least talk about it and she agreed. She says she's been reading a lot on it and has actually watched some cuck/hotwife porn. We had sex the other day and role played a little with her dildos and she got extremely horny and we had the best sex we've had in a long time. She actually told me to masterbait to my fantasy the other day and tell her about it which was really hot. I think she is thinking some on it but is pretty unsure. I asked her a couple days ago if she was any more at ease with it and she said no and has dropped it since so I have too. It's definitely better looking than it was.

My Lady was worried I was using Cuckoldry as a dirty trick to get her into an Open Marriage. You've got to convince her that is NOT at all the case. You know she is NOT a ***** & that is EXACTLY what makes her infidelity so precious to you. If she ever cheats on you it will be completely against her nature & you know she would ONLY do it out of the desire to be a good wife to you & make you happy. Tell her that her infidelity is more precious to you than her virginity ever could have been & there's NO WAY you'd ever cheapen it by cheating on her.

For me, staying loyal to my Ladies cheating pussy is a HUGE turn on. The more my lady cheats on me, the stronger my resolve to stay faithful to her. I love it when attractive women flirt with me at a bar or something, the thought that I might be able to get in her panties makes me very PROUD of the fact that I've sworn myself to my ladies slippery little cream pies & it actually turns me on thinking about how I'm NOT going to fuck this random hottie that I might actually have a chance with.

Once your Lady goes against her nature & cheats on you it will be a kick in her teeth if you cheat on her. It's far worse to get her to Cuckold you & then you cheat than if she never cheated on you & you cheat. If she cuckolds you & then you cheat, you've literally made a God Damn Fool out of her because you didn't just cheat on her but, actually made a ***** of her in order to justify your own cheating. A Cuckold Marriage can be very Beautiful, Romantic & Loving but, it depends on YOU actually Loving & Respecting her. Once she's begins giving her pussy away like a cheap party favor, your MILITANT LOYALTY is owed to her without question & it's very important that you make your lady understand that is how you feel. For me, my Ladies infidelity is only half of the Cuckold experience. Staying faithful to her slutty pussy is just as important as it is for her not to be faithful with me.

 

[ThatGuy_17]

Yea I have no desire whatsoever to pursue other women and I've told her that 100 times. I've told her I'd do whatever it took to prove that to her. It's genuinely not what I want out of it.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Yea I have no desire whatsoever to pursue other women and I've told her that 100 times. I've told her I'd do whatever it took to prove that to her. It's genuinely not what I want out of it.

You might convince your woman of your good intentions by ordering a male chastity device for yourself — see, for instance

Male chastity device*s:
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IN THE BEGINNING - Steelwerks Extreme
Chastity Device Chastity Tubes
Male chastity cage - HolyTrainer : Size and specifications, pictures & videos

then asking her to be your sole keyholder. If she doesn't understand this concept and refuses, I suggest locking yourself in your device, then telling her you will unlock yourself only when she makes it clear she wants sex with you. This would, in effect, make your woman the owner of your penis. After a while she would probably see the advantages to herself in this arrangement, and would be willing to take on the role of being your keyholder, thus making herself, in reality, the owner of your penis. (For instructions, books can be purchased with titles like, "A key-holder's guide to male chastity.")

As one cuckoldress put it (elsewhere on the web), in a word of advice to married women: "If you keep your husband in a male chastity device, cuckolding will follow like night follows day."

* There seems to be some agreement among the cuckolds on this forum whose wives keep them in chastity device that metal devices are superior to plastic. At least a couple of cuckolds have found that "HolyTrainer" devices are secure and comfortable to wear.

 

[ThatGuy_17]

I hadn't even thought of that. I might have to suggest that to her the next time it comes up to see what she says.

 

[ThatGuy_17]

So a little update here. We had a really long conversation a few nights ago about this subject. She asked a few questions like are you sure you aren't gay and are you sure you haven't cheated to which I answered honestly. I think she still thinks I want to cheat but that's not what I am after. The conversation then turned and she admitted how she hadn't ever really been faithful to her boyfriends in the past. I am the only one that she has been faithful to. I asked why do it to them and not to me since I am asking you to. It's not cheating at this point. The conversation went on with me asking several questions about who and and what had she done and she ended up getting really turned on and we had some phenomenal sex. We looked at some cuck porn and talked different scenarios out while I fucked her. She came really hard. Since then I've found out that she is regularly talking to several guys and a couple of them she has had sex with. A couple of them are very hung in her opinion. I asked her if she was warming up to the idea and she said she wasn't sure. You guys have any thoughts?

 

[Custer Laststand]

So a little update here. ..... I've found out she is regularly talking to several guys and a couple of them she has had sex with. A couple of them are very hung in her opinion. I asked her if she was warming up to the idea and she said she wasn't sure. You guys have any thoughts?

Sounds like your woman is en route to transforming you to her "cuckold boyfriend." (I use quotes because of the definition: cuckold — a man with an unfaithful wife.) It might help her move forward if you introduce her to these two articles.

The Science of Cuckoldry,
by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
The Science of Cuckoldry

The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena,
by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.:
The Cuckold Phenomena

 

[ThatGuy_17]

I think it's baby steps in the right direction or at least I hope.

 

[Nazareth]

Do you mean to say she has had physical sex with some other guys, or has she had online sex with them, or am I not reading that correctly?

Likewise her talking to guys. If I assume she admitted to you she had recently began doing this, I'd also assume she has 'taken the lead' and is exploring her options.

 

[PussyFlavoredKisses]

So a little update here. We had a really long conversation a few nights ago about this subject. She asked a few questions like are you sure you aren't gay and are you sure you haven't cheated to which I answered honestly. I think she still thinks I want to cheat but that's not what I am after. The conversation then turned and she admitted how she hadn't ever really been faithful to her boyfriends in the past. I am the only one that she has been faithful to. I asked why do it to them and not to me since I am asking you to. It's not cheating at this point. The conversation went on with me asking several questions about who and and what had she done and she ended up getting really turned on and we had some phenomenal sex. We looked at some cuck porn and talked different scenarios out while I fucked her. She came really hard. Since then I've found out that she is regularly talking to several guys and a couple of them she has had sex with. A couple of them are very hung in her opinion. I asked her if she was warming up to the idea and she said she wasn't sure. You guys have any thoughts?

I think you just need to be patient & keep playing your cards the way you've been playing them. Assure her that you love her & that staying faithful to her cheating pussy is an incredible turn on for you. Getting pushy could turn her off & set you back. It's going to be fun seeing which one of us becomes an Official Cuckold first out of you , myself & smallpenisguy because each of us are working on a timid wife who's getting close to spreading her legs for well hung stallions. Good luck.

 

[ThatGuy_17]

Do you mean to say she has had physical sex with some other guys, or has she had online sex with them, or am I not reading that correctly?

Likewise her talking to guys. If I assume she admitted to you she had recently began doing this, I'd also assume she has 'taken the lead' and is exploring her options.

She told me that she mostly just sexted and with a couple had met up and fooled around.

 

[ThatGuy_17]

I think you just need to be patient & keep playing your cards the way you've been playing them. Assure her that you love her & that staying faithful to her cheating pussy is an incredible turn on for you. Getting pushy could turn her off & set you back. It's going to be fun seeing which one of us becomes an Official Cuckold first out of you , myself & smallpenisguy because each of us are working on a timid wife who's getting close to spreading her legs for well hung stallions. Good luck.

She definitely seems more at ease with it than she did at first. And I have continued to just tell her that I love her and only her and I'm not interested in chasing other woman. Its hard to say which one of us will luck up first.

 

[Lamont]

Get it done. You will love it. Yes she will eventually fuck some else with or with out your consent, and she SHOULD. She is going to do it for you, even though she wants it, it is going to be for you. okdeacon

I love this sentiment. Yes, she should. If she loves sex, and it's hher body with which to make decisions, then our role is entirely to assist in making that happen regardless of what it takes. I know with my partner, I cum super fast. And while she says she likes that, let's be honest, that's being polite. She deserves waaaaay better and my problem shouldn't be hers to bear.

 

[Lamont]

You have to encourage her to do so. Because if she cheats behind your back then it will go in the wrong direction. In my opinion you are on the right track but you have to talk with your girlfriend in a very honest and open way about your feelings.

Ciao
fred

Bingo. No communication, bad outcome. Nearly 100% of the time. That's a giant MUST. Actual honesty. Core level honesty. If you can't, don't proceed. It's asking for trouble.