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Fantasy vs Reality

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Im my last post I described how I was not able to wtiness my wife Kris and her lover having sex in our bedroom because the guy could not perform with me there. Well Tom has finally gotten comfortable with having me watch their lovemaking, and for the most part, it has been an incredible thrill for me.

Tom has been coming over our place two or three nights a week lately, and I really love watching him lick my wife's pussy, suck on her big tits, and of course, drive his hard cock into her. But as most cucks surely can understand, the fantasy of watching your wife getting laid never plays out exactly as you expected once it actually happens.

For example, in my fantasy the main focus was always on the sexual pleasure Kris would be experiencing while being serviced by some hung stud. For some reason I didn't really think about how some other guy would be having so much fun playing with my wife's incredible body. I also didn't realize that it would not be so easy to watch and listen as this guy is groaning in ecstasy while shooting his come into my wife (thankfully he wears a rubber). I guess it was unrealistic of me to assume that some stud would fuck my wife and make her climax and then just get up and leave. I should have realized that the man who is giving my wife the sexual satisfaction she needs also deserves to experience some release as well. But it is still hard to watch at times. Sometimes I will quietly leave the room after Kris has reached orgasm, but hearing her lover achieve his climax is just as unsettling as seeing it. Especially since Kris really seems to enjoy making him come, while encouraging him so eagerly.

One of the other things I didn't expect is the amount of passion displayed by my wife and her lover. They seem to spend a lot of time kissing and caressing each other during lovemaking. In my fantasy, the sex was more mechanical, with less kissing and touching. I figured that Kris would be shy about doing certain things with another man, and would just quietly enjoy the feeling of his cock inside her without showing so much emotion.

And lastly, I guess I didn't expect my wife to be so enthusiastic about getting her lover's dick hard and giving him pleasure. Just the other night I was watching from the hallway as she licked his balls and stroked his cock to get him hard again after they had made love. She was planting kisses on his stomach and rubbing his chest and whispering to him, and they were giggling and having a great time together. I went downstairs and ten minutes later heard them moaning loudly as they fucked like crazy.

I don't know why I didn't realize how making my fantasy come true would lead to so many different emotions. But I surely found out that the realities of such things can be very different from the imagination.

I just want to end by saying I am not complaining, and that I don't regret having my wife take a lover. Has anyone experienced similar feelings as I've described here ?
 
Yes, the fucking is OK. The making love is hard to take and can be shattering.
 
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MacNfries said:
Many times it is the lack of passion within the marriage that drives the wife to pursue other men ... not cock size.

Married men lose interest after the conquest and repetitive vanilla sex.

Women love and desire the passion and foreplay; unfortunately, some men just get bored or lazy. They either go after other women or encourage the wife to take lovers just to spice up the sexual excitement again.

There are lots of avenues cuckolding can take. When it starts to get routine for you again, andrew1, have him remove the glove and enjoy some sloppy seconds. Mac
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Mac is on the nail here with his comments.

It is unreasonable to expect a wife to have good quality sex without the the fun of kissing, cuddling, giggling and laughing to prepare the body for orgasmic explosions.
 
Saraha said:
Mac is on the nail here with his comments.

It is unreasonable to expect a wife to have good quality sex without the the fun of kissing, cuddling, giggling and laughing to prepare the body for orgasmic explosions.

Saraha is correct and so is mac. fucking is not fun at all, but watching my wife make love to someone else is a delight
 
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Saraha said:
Mac is on the nail here with his comments.

It is unreasonable to expect a wife to have good quality sex without the the fun of kissing, cuddling, giggling and laughing to prepare the body for orgasmic explosions.

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all true Sara _except_ the giggling part
i shan't abide giggling :mad:
 
Andrew--- I have had the exact same experience and feelings. When I have watched my wife and her primary BF "make-love" it is always rather shocking to see them kiss, caress, whisper to one another, etc. She always goes down on him without being asked, and rides his cock over and over moaning out her orgasms between passionate kisses and breathless embraces. I agree--- Mac is right on...

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andrew1 said:
Im my last post I described how I was not able to wtiness my wife Kris and her lover having sex in our bedroom because the guy could not perform with me there. Well Tom has finally gotten comfortable with having me watch their lovemaking, and for the most part, it has been an incredible thrill for me.

Tom has been coming over our place two or three nights a week lately, and I really love watching him lick my wife's pussy, suck on her big tits, and of course, drive his hard cock into her. But as most cucks surely can understand, the fantasy of watching your wife getting laid never plays out exactly as you expected once it actually happens.

For example, in my fantasy the main focus was always on the sexual pleasure Kris would be experiencing while being serviced by some hung stud. For some reason I didn't really think about how some other guy would be having so much fun playing with my wife's incredible body. I also didn't realize that it would not be so easy to watch and listen as this guy is groaning in ecstasy while shooting his come into my wife (thankfully he wears a rubber). I guess it was unrealistic of me to assume that some stud would fuck my wife and make her climax and then just get up and leave. I should have realized that the man who is giving my wife the sexual satisfaction she needs also deserves to experience some release as well. But it is still hard to watch at times. Sometimes I will quietly leave the room after Kris has reached orgasm, but hearing her lover achieve his climax is just as unsettling as seeing it. Especially since Kris really seems to enjoy making him come, while encouraging him so eagerly.

One of the other things I didn't expect is the amount of passion displayed by my wife and her lover. They seem to spend a lot of time kissing and caressing each other during lovemaking. In my fantasy, the sex was more mechanical, with less kissing and touching. I figured that Kris would be shy about doing certain things with another man, and would just quietly enjoy the feeling of his cock inside her without showing so much emotion.

And lastly, I guess I didn't expect my wife to be so enthusiastic about getting her lover's dick hard and giving him pleasure. Just the other night I was watching from the hallway as she licked his balls and stroked his cock to get him hard again after they had made love. She was planting kisses on his stomach and rubbing his chest and whispering to him, and they were giggling and having a great time together. I went downstairs and ten minutes later heard them moaning loudly as they fucked like crazy.

I don't know why I didn't realize how making my fantasy come true would lead to so many different emotions. But I surely found out that the realities of such things can be very different from the imagination.

I just want to end by saying I am not complaining, and that I don't regret having my wife take a lover. Has anyone experienced similar feelings as I've described here ?

Something I would like to see with my very own eyes and hear with my every own ears.

Yes, foreplay is very, very important. It's the warming up session that gets the emotion and momentum building.

Its not like porn which is scripted.
 
Foreplay timing

Saraha said:
Foreplay can include texting and flirting, building desire over several hours.

The BEST foreplay starts as the last sex is ending. The kisses and cuddles and telling her how great it was is the end of one set of love-making and starting the next!

Telling her how much you wanted and needed her and want her again SOON keeps those sexy juices flowing for her, the longer you can keep her building up the better, then just ravish her!
 
Agree, the foreplay is the most important aspect of all.

Its not like porn where everything is scripted. The kissing, touching, sweet pillow talk, touching and teasing will build up momentum for the couples to enjoy.

And not to mention the noises the couples make when they fuck.
 

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