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Female punishment ideas

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This isn't quite normal here, but I have the majority of control over my hotwife and who her lovers are when, and where.

Recently, she broke a rule. I got upset but let it slide. Then it happened again, and again, now is the fourth time.

In case it matters, the rule broken was "u can play without me there if it's on camera"

She says "but it was an accident". But it has happened the past four times, and I have given her plenty of warning.

The question here is what kind of erotic punishments can you guys/gals think of? They can be mild, or severe, or anywhere in between. I'm thinking of making a 3teir punishment list. Mild, moderate, severe. For future reference I can just tell her "pick a punishment out of the mild section" or whichever.
 
Hmmm she is cheating without your "permission"? LmAo! Welcome Home CUCKOLD! LOL I think the next time you warn her ... YOU should be punished! LOL Enjoy!
 
I expected a similar response. This is not something she does without my permission. Didn't think that would be up everyone's alley here, but I thought I might get a few suggestions.
O well
 
Punishing female subs that forget their place? I have experience with that. Of course, exactly which of these is a punishment is dependent on the sub. And you have to always be careful that a punishment remains a punishment, the danger of topping from the bottom. But, on to ideas.

There are the traditional punishments: spanking, expressing how disappointing you in your sub, edge play i.e. taking something she likes and pushing her to the limit i.e. turning something enjoyable into something not enjoyable, some form of extended bondage i.e. tied up for some time and told to think about why this is happening, make her write a letter to you explaining her failure and how it will not happen again, sleeping on the floor, removal of privileges i.e. no clothes to be worn in the house, no speaking unless addressed first etc.

Other things I have used in the past: cold shower followed by allowing herself to drip dry while she contemplates her failure, orgasm denial i.e. make her play with herself but refuse to allow her to cum, not being allowed to refer to herself in the first person, make her beg to do something she does not like but will do if you ask i.e. extra humiliation etc.

But a punishments are dependent on the woman. What is punishment for one is pleasure for another. Of course, you should know better than anyone how to punish her--you know her the most.
 
So yeah, you need to do something to reverse this dynamic, or you're going to wind up as her bitch. Any erotic punishment will serve to bring her sexuality back into line - it hardly matters which one you choose. However you have a bigger problem to address first. Women are eager to accept dominant behaviour, including punishment, from men they view as alpha, as it validates both his alphaness and their desirability to an alpha. They are highly resistant to accepting this from men they view as beta. It's not going to be as easy as saying "You broke this rule and now I'm spanking you." because she is likely to say "Whatever, cuckboy, go jerk off to porn." Now what do you do? If you back down, you're cuckboy. If you escalate you're going to generate a fight. Alphas don't fight with women, so now you're cuckboy-out-of-control, which is worse. If she saw you as alpha you could just pull her over your lap and she'd accept it with maybe a token struggle, but you're beta and so she'll fight back seriously. If you win you're cuckboy-physically-abusive. If you give up before winning because you realize she really doesn't want it, you're cuckboy-too-wimpy-to-take-a-girl. These are all potentially relationship-ending outcomes - unless the relationship you want is her fucking whoever she wants whenever she wants, while you beg to lick the sperm from her cunt afterwards.

Now the details of how this plays out will depend sensitively on her personality and the dynamics of your relationship. You will have to judge for yourself what course to take. However I strongly reccomend that before you do anything you figure out...

1) How do I want this relationship to look?
2) What does she need to be able to participate fully and reciprocally in this relationship?
3) What actions must I take to ensure she's getting what she needs?

Once you know these things, you can develop a gameplan which will eventually lead to her accepting that erotic punishment. In fact, with a good gameplan you can even dispense with the erotic punishment, since it only serves to underline the alpha status she's already awarded you by allowing you to carry it out - and assuming alpha status is what you are really after, since so often with cuckolds it's actually the reverse.

Best of luck!

Stirling
 
The best one is that she can no longer see the same guy again. That will end that problem and she can meet other men.

Spanking is always nice as well. . . .
 
Wayne is right, she shouldn't be allowed to see that guy again. However you're going to have to recover your position before you impose that rule, or she'll just break it the way she's already breaking your rules, and you'll be an even more whipped cuck than you were before.
 
Dirty489 said:
This isn't quite normal here, but I have the majority of control over my hotwife and who her lovers are when, and where.

Recently, she broke a rule. I got upset but let it slide. Then it happened again, and again, now is the fourth time.

In case it matters, the rule broken was "u can play without me there if it's on camera"

She says "but it was an accident". But it has happened the past four times, and I have given her plenty of warning.

The question here is what kind of erotic punishments can you guys/gals think of? They can be mild, or severe, or anywhere in between. I'm thinking of making a 3teir punishment list. Mild, moderate, severe. For future reference I can just tell her "pick a punishment out of the mild section" or whichever.
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chastity belt. put her in chastity then make her suck a lot of cock...have her in it for at least a couple of weeks. She can still see other men but they won't be fucking her. After that she's only allowed to have it off under your supervision (you, of course, would have the key). She will have to do a lot of begging to be let out too...amongst other things it might amuse you to have her do. She can slowly earn her way out of chastity without your supervision over a month or two.

:)
 
She accepts punishment. She knows she did wrong. I believe she still sees me as alpha, she didn't argue a bit, just accepted and apologized for messing up. Like I said, I control it mostly still. %95
 
Good job! Make no mistake, she was testing you, and four is a lot of tests to miss - but it looks like you've got it back no problem. Just make sure you give her a good solid fucking to remind her cervix who's in charge. I also support slaved's suggestion of a chastity belt. My read is she needs to be kept on a very short leash until you're confident you're not at 95% but 110% with her. While you've got her locked you might also consider making her go out and find another woman for you. Always a nice bonus, and she definitely owes you one!

Congratulations and well done again.

S
 
How about if you find the next guy to fuck her, maybe a guy that she would not want to fuck otherwise? You could have her strip-off and give the guy a show, then ask if he wants to fuck her.
 
Thanks for the replies. I haven't decided what exactly her punishment is still. We just got back from a small vacation this morning. But I will be deciding in the next day or two. Will let you know what I decided, and how it goes.
 
Understand

It is not her punishment but yours. You allowed her to have others! There can only be one, and she is now in controll.
 

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interesting thread
 
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VERY interesting son :D
 
I'm not getting very many suggested punishments though. Which is what I was after. Not that I would use all of them, but it's nice to get some outside ideas sometimes. :)
 
As I said, almost any sexually oriented punishment will do. What matters is that she be brought back into line.

My thought - which is really just an elaboration of what I've already said - spank her, fuck her hard both vaginally and anally, but her in a chastity belt and let her spend a lot of time on her knees making it up to you. Of course she isn't allowed to see that particular man again.

Credit slaved for the chastity belt idea.

S
 
The punishment should have something to make it fit the rule that was broken, so she shod be punished on camera, and then you two should watch it together so she can see how her actions have affected her punishment
 
Well, part of the punishment was for her to choose it from a list I made. She chose to masturbate while smoking (3cigs in a row) while I watched and operated the camera. She chose pretty quickly when I showed her the list, and was ready to get the punishment out of the way immediately. The next day, her guy helped me move something with his truck, I told him she was off the hook. When we went inside, he went straight to the bedroom (where she was sitting on the bed) and said "I can do this now" before giving her a big wet kiss while groping her breast and crotch.
An hour later, I had to take the kids to an appointment. He stayed here with her so they could make up a little time. ;)
 
THAT was her punishment? And then she got to fuck the same guy again?

It's your relationship, so do what you feel is right, but I see a vast disconnect between your stated goal and the actions you're taking to achieve it.
 
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