1st time
1st time I had a dick in my mouth I was about 12. Another kid from the neighborhood, Charlie, and we started ti play with each others dicks on a regular basis, we used to call it "fooling around", it was natural for me to take his dick in mouth.
Then there was a 40+ year hiatus.
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1st time after hiatus
I lived in NY. I had read a news story about a teacher who 'got caught' after responding to an ad on Manhunt. I was about 55 I had not touched another cock since teenage experimentation. Wife had cut me off due to some stupid unknown bullshit. I was horny as hell, tired of continual masturbation and finding other women isn't an easy task. They proect their pussy like the universe will collapse in on itself should they give it up.
I logged on and responded, turned out to be an experienced guy who made it very comfortable AND very enjoyable for me. I wondered why I waited so long - as my late used to say "so many men-so little time".
In NY there were always available men. One CL ad would get literally hundreds of responses.
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1st time with wife present
For years I had been encouraging my wife to take a lover, a sex partner. A person or persons to satisfy her sexual needs and desires. She has absolutely refused. Early on this quest I setup an AFF profile for her, gave her CL links, got her condoms and her favorite lube and an extra (for travel) dildo. Even setup a private massage for her hoping she would accept his 'extra'.
After years and a lot of discussion she has finally agreed to an MMF. But she is definitely giving me the slow roll. Each time I say let's look at ads for a candidate she says OK but then begs off for various reasons. Only once have I been able to get her to the computer. We started looking at 'men seeking a couple' then she said let's look at 'men seeking a female'. Candidly my plan is to let her and him have at it and try to move out of the action.
She does understands that I MUST be present, she doesn't want to be watched that's why the MMF. As an aside one of her fantasy's and her turns on's has always been being to be watched. OK so things change, I got it.
Each ad we looked at had an issue; too young, too old, too big, too small. Then she threw me off by saying why don't we look at 'men seeking men'. WTF. She said she would be interested in watching me with another man. I think she did this as a tit-for-tat expecting me to resist thereby justifying her past resistance. BUT 2 can play that game. I asked her is she was sure, by asking her how she'd feel about me after watching me on my hands and knees sucking another cock. She mirrored what I always have told her 'it's only sex'.
I agreed. At that computer session, with us both at the computer I set up a 'play date' 2 days hence with a guy visiting a nearby tourist area. I think she was a little surprised, that I would actually do it and so soon. I told her, why wait?
I did follow through with the M2M thing.
So I found a guy on CL. We went to his motel. He & I stripped as she sat in the chair fully clothed. He laid on the bed and I got between his legs on my knees and took him in my mouth. Within moments he was hard. Surprisingly she got up and rubbed my dick. He was about to cum but wanted to wait so I let up for a moment. Then went back to his cock. He asked her to rub his cock. She complied. She was jerking the shaft while the head was in my mouth. Then he announced his was gonna cum, she didn't let up, neither did I. She jerked him to completion into my mouth and I took his entire load. When done I tried to kiss her with some cum on my lips, she turned away.
He quickly got up and dressed. I followed suit and we left.
On the way home I asked her if she liked it, she said not really. She didn't ask if I did, so I told her to ask me, she did and I told her it was great, I loved it, it was fun, that cum wasn't so bad.