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???Help hooking up with a fkbuddy???

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Txblueyes2k

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:hitit:Ok, I have a serious question for the group. As I posted in an earlier post, I am fortyish, blondeish slim MWF with a very high sex drive. Hubby is a couple of years older and has high blood pressure and an associated ED problem, so I get little to no action with him, tho he has a fabulous tongue. So, he shares me with BBC guys so I can get my cookies off, then of course he cleans up. This has been our gig for several years, he watches and photos, then works his magic with his tongue on my sore kitty.

Our routine has always been to travel to Houston to play, because of the small town atmosphere we live in, we can not risk anyone knowing what we do. Now after several setbacks in our Houston hookups, I am considering a regular fuckbuddy here in town. I know it is not a good idea, but DAMN I AM HORNY!!! Hubby luvs me the best he can with his tongue, but I want to be fucked, ridden hard and put up wet for awhile.

There is one prospective victim :hitit:that I am considering, soooo how do I set itup? I am very shy in person, though not on the internet. He is a recent friend of ours and I feel like there is some sexual tension there (ok, I admit, he makes me horny, just thinking about playing with him!). He is always very attentive towards me, always hugs me with that lingering touch afterwards and flirts with me like crazy. I of course flirt back. Just last month I found out he had gotten a divorce and now my interest is really kicked up a notch. I want him for a fuckbuddy, if he wants me. Hubby is okay with this, so where do I go from here? I am too nervous to just pick up the phone and tell him, sooooo???
 
Just ask him over while your husband is there and lay the cards on the table so he knows it is OK all the way around without issues from either of you. By the way you said he acts as if he wants youy anyway so just be honest and let it take the coarse.
 
muleman said:
Just ask him over while your husband is there
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Thanks, but as I said, I am waaaay too shy for that approach. This will take some thought and some whiskey!
 
OK plan two Miss Shy let your husband ask him to help out with the chores around the house and see what happens or write it out send him a letter and if he comes over and say lets get this job done go for it and say you would like seconds.
 
Does he have a computer? If so, get him on msn or yahoo or soemthing then "accidentally" copy and past the url for this site to him while chatting...
 
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Going down the accident route.

Is he the type of guy who comes to your home by himself or only with a group. If by himself he could come to your home some time and while with hubby he could accidently turn on the telly and see an interracial porn film (amateur if better). Probably better if your not around.

Hubby could get very embarrased he saw a bit of it, but joke that its a great film and offer him a loan of the film (its a guy thing). If he takes it he has an interest in white women.

If he takes it, a week down the line hubby could ask for it back as its where about have been asked about. That should get his mind spinning

Maybe a little more discreet than going for the jugular but guiding him down a path he may be interested in. Just an option to see where things lead.

If things don't happen he has no proof of what you want other than a porn tape which he saw.
 
Txblueyes2k,
It is really not a big deal to invite someone to your home on the pretnese of just being friendly. I mean... I think you're reading too much into the cordial invitation to become platonic friends with him because you know what you really want. So just say you and your husband would love to have him over to dinner or drinks or BBQ one evening cause you obviously get along. Then just let nature take it's course. On the surface, it's no different than asking some other person that you have no sexual linterest in at all. So just pretend that you're just being friendly, just like you would anyone else, then turn on the charm when he shows up and the drinks are flowing. Good luck! We're in the same situation as you. Hubby is diabetic, has ED and lets me get the good fun with black men and we are both happy because of it. Take care!
 
You are an experienced and seductive woman. Just invite him over for a coffee and chat. Be open with him. Tell him about your husbands problem and your needs. I suggest you try him first and then decide if you want him for a steady lover. Maybe you won't find what you 're looking for in him. So, do a... test drive and see how it goes. Then you can tell him what you want from him (a steady lover) and the deal with your hub. If he's not experienced with the lifestyle he's gonna need time to adjust to fuck another man's wife while the hub watches and cleans.

GOOD LUCK!
 
Hey, Blue eye's

Quit asking us, You need to make sure he SHOWS!!! That being said, We can't do that....CHAT WITH HIM!!! Tell us after!!Please!!

You are a BEUTIFUL WOMAN!!!!!

Hope to hear from you soon!
 
Black man in Katy, Texas wana meet...Let me know ur email
 
Still working on this, but any invite over to the house will look wierd and it will be a give away. I wish there was some way to find an email for him I could do that. Anything that requires me to be face to face with him and ME make the first move is out. I am thinking about letting hubby take him for drinks and offer me as a FB to him.
 
Txblueyes2k said:
Still working on this...
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I'm wondering what has happened all these months. You are very quiet...
 
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