So yes, women fake it. All women. And someone you've been with has probably faked it. So how do you tell?
1. If she still has a lot of energy afterward, and wants to jump up and get the load of clothes from the dryer, she didn't have an orgasm.
2. If you are inside her, and her vagina or uterus does not have wild contractions, you didn't give her an orgasm.
3. Most women have a flush around the face and neck and their nipples get hard when they orgasm. If her's didn't, she probably didn't either.
4. If she is able to talk through her orgasm, like women in the movies, "Oh God...You are so gooodd...That's soo gooodd...Yes, Oh God...That's good. Oh Godddd..." she's faking it. Real orgasms sounds more like "Oh, uh, ahhhh...eh...eh..." Real conversations are not possible.
5. If she rushes you. If you start touching her down there, and she quickly gives you the message she is ready to have intercourse, she's just trying to get it over with.
6. If you've had less than five minutes of touching her down there and then started intercourse, or if you had short foreplay and have been going at intercourse for awhile and suddenly she starts the scene from "When Harry Met Sally", chances are she's just trying to get you through your orgasm so you'll go to sleep or go home.
7. If she suddenly wants to talk right after, she didn't have one. If she wants to cuddle, have you hold her, if she cries (sometimes) or just seems very vulnerable, then she probably did.
8. Once a woman has an orgasm, she becomes very sensitive there. If you can keep on rubbing like you have been, and she's not shoving away your hand, she probably didn't have one.
So if you think your girlfriend or wife is faking it, should you ask? No. Just read a lot and learn to get better. If she tries to rush you through it, say, "I don't care about intercourse tonight. I'd rather just play and please you." She will be so surprised she just might get into it.
Now a little about female anatomy. A man named Ian Kerner once said, "I think most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than what's under the hood of a clitoris." If that describes you, then fix that. You have the internet. Stop looking up things that turn you on and start learning about what turns her own. Most women don't have orgasms through intercourse. They need clitoral stimulation. Most don't like it rubbed roughly or firmly. More like it stroked around the clitoris and not directly. Be prepared to do this for awhile. And don't rub her if she seems dry there. That hurts. If she's not sufficiently wet, use a lubricant before you begin. Add more as needed.
The more you talk to her outside the bedroom, the more she trusts you with her secrets, and her feelings, the more she feels accepted by you, the more she will be likely to discuss in the bedroom what she likes. Now stop pouting because you just figured out your girl has been faking it, and get in there and figure out how to give her a REAL one.
1. If she still has a lot of energy afterward, and wants to jump up and get the load of clothes from the dryer, she didn't have an orgasm.
2. If you are inside her, and her vagina or uterus does not have wild contractions, you didn't give her an orgasm.
3. Most women have a flush around the face and neck and their nipples get hard when they orgasm. If her's didn't, she probably didn't either.
4. If she is able to talk through her orgasm, like women in the movies, "Oh God...You are so gooodd...That's soo gooodd...Yes, Oh God...That's good. Oh Godddd..." she's faking it. Real orgasms sounds more like "Oh, uh, ahhhh...eh...eh..." Real conversations are not possible.
5. If she rushes you. If you start touching her down there, and she quickly gives you the message she is ready to have intercourse, she's just trying to get it over with.
6. If you've had less than five minutes of touching her down there and then started intercourse, or if you had short foreplay and have been going at intercourse for awhile and suddenly she starts the scene from "When Harry Met Sally", chances are she's just trying to get you through your orgasm so you'll go to sleep or go home.
7. If she suddenly wants to talk right after, she didn't have one. If she wants to cuddle, have you hold her, if she cries (sometimes) or just seems very vulnerable, then she probably did.
8. Once a woman has an orgasm, she becomes very sensitive there. If you can keep on rubbing like you have been, and she's not shoving away your hand, she probably didn't have one.
So if you think your girlfriend or wife is faking it, should you ask? No. Just read a lot and learn to get better. If she tries to rush you through it, say, "I don't care about intercourse tonight. I'd rather just play and please you." She will be so surprised she just might get into it.
Now a little about female anatomy. A man named Ian Kerner once said, "I think most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than what's under the hood of a clitoris." If that describes you, then fix that. You have the internet. Stop looking up things that turn you on and start learning about what turns her own. Most women don't have orgasms through intercourse. They need clitoral stimulation. Most don't like it rubbed roughly or firmly. More like it stroked around the clitoris and not directly. Be prepared to do this for awhile. And don't rub her if she seems dry there. That hurts. If she's not sufficiently wet, use a lubricant before you begin. Add more as needed.
The more you talk to her outside the bedroom, the more she trusts you with her secrets, and her feelings, the more she feels accepted by you, the more she will be likely to discuss in the bedroom what she likes. Now stop pouting because you just figured out your girl has been faking it, and get in there and figure out how to give her a REAL one.
