If by "him" you mean your wife's lover: married women who take lovers are often strongly sexual and unrestrained when they are with their lover(s), in part, at least, because they don't want to acquire a reputation for being sexually uptight — which would reduce their access to desirable men. With their cuckold husbands (you, in this case), however, they are often much more sexually restrained, because... well, you know... they feel they need to maintain their cuckold's view of them as the respectable woman of their household.JoeMac said:So we often throw out terms like "she is a slut," but is she? Mine is when she is with him, but not otherwise.
Good work, JTee. Sounds like you have done your part to expand the lifestyle.JTee said:Mine only became a slut after we got married and with my encouragement.
JTee said:Mine only became a slut after we got married and with my encouragement.
Love to talk to herjohnmasters said:Mine wouldn't consider herself a slut but telling me over the phone while I'm away on business that she loves me and then sneaking out to a hotel and fucking a younger guy with a big cock at least 4 times in one session that's how a slut behaves right. Must say I wish I had his staying power, perhaps she wouldn't have cheated if I did.
Your wife is right. She is a woman with a healthy sex drive.willshe2 said:My wife Natasha hates the term slut and won't accept that she is one.
Your wife's point is a good one.willshe2 said:Certainly she was hardly an innocent when we met and although she had not had many lovers they included one night stands and married guys (including a friend of her father), but she justified all this by saying she was free and unattached, so why not?
Very good. Your response has been appropriate, and it's been appropriate for you to encourage your wife's strong sexuality.willshe2 said:Her past adventures always excited me, so I have certainly encouraged her naughtiness (as she calls it) since we've been together.
No (as noted above). An appropriate description of your sexy wife would be "hotwife."willshe2 said:So is she a slut? Probably in some eyes.
Words matter — especially words that have derogatory implications.willshe2 said:But, who cares if we're both having fun!
Just send some pics ..tell me how raunchy she isJTee said:Mine only became a slut after we got married and with my encouragement.
Sounds like my wife, I’m just happy that she told me of her past experiencescuckycouple said:As far as the wife is concerned its just sex with with no emotional involvement. She told me she was a wild child growing up with single and married as she liked their experience.
Not a nice wordJoeMac said:So we often throw out terms like she is a slut, but is she?
Mine is when she is with him, but not other wise.
Was your wife a slut when you met her? Did you make her a slut once married? Or is she like mine, only a slut when she is with him?
It just happens to usCuster Laststand said:If by "him" you mean your wife's lover: married women who take lovers are often strongly sexual and unrestrained when they are with their lover(s), in part, at least, because they don't want to acquire a reputation for being sexually uptight — which would reduce their access to desirable men. With their cuckold husbands (you, in this case), however, they are often much more sexually restrained, because... well, you know... they feel they need to maintain their cuckold's view of them as the respectable woman of their household.