Been a longtime lurker at the site and figured I'd share our story.
The wife and I have discussed her trying a black man for years now. She always had her reservations about it but the idea of it turned her on. We decided to post some online ads and joined some local online groups. Nothing much was happening and while we still discussed it, nothing was happening.
About three weeks ago she got an e-mail from a local guy. They went back and forth with e-mails and seemed to hit it off. After exchanging photos, they met for lunch and hit it off.
This past weekend, they got together and finished to deed. She was a bit disappointed, in that he wasn't too big, but he also wasn't small. Turns out he has a lot of stamina. Went for hours. She was tired and sore when she got home.
I'm having a hard time gaging how much she liked it. On the one hand, there was the disappointment over him not being really well endowed. On the other hand, I think she liked having a real manly man with that much energy. When she mentioned the disappointment aspect of it, I said she didn't have to go back, but she can't wait to get with him again. Matter of fact, her answer flew out of her mouth so fast it caught me off guard. I think it was a "hell yea I'm going back". So she obviously had a blast doing it. I think she's afraid to tell me how much she enjoyed it.
It's been an emotional roller coaster. On the one hand I'm jealous. On the other, I love seeing her happy and having fun. She has a higher sex drive than I do. In that respect I think it will work out well. My only real fear is that I'll lose her to another man. She's mentioned that he's really nice. Another part that's been tough for me is that I wasn't really involved in it. She went, had her fun and was worn out when she got home. I've had to push to get all the little details out of her. I don't know if she's embarrased to tell me or she just doesn't want to share it all.
This is a wild ride.
The wife and I have discussed her trying a black man for years now. She always had her reservations about it but the idea of it turned her on. We decided to post some online ads and joined some local online groups. Nothing much was happening and while we still discussed it, nothing was happening.
About three weeks ago she got an e-mail from a local guy. They went back and forth with e-mails and seemed to hit it off. After exchanging photos, they met for lunch and hit it off.
This past weekend, they got together and finished to deed. She was a bit disappointed, in that he wasn't too big, but he also wasn't small. Turns out he has a lot of stamina. Went for hours. She was tired and sore when she got home.
I'm having a hard time gaging how much she liked it. On the one hand, there was the disappointment over him not being really well endowed. On the other hand, I think she liked having a real manly man with that much energy. When she mentioned the disappointment aspect of it, I said she didn't have to go back, but she can't wait to get with him again. Matter of fact, her answer flew out of her mouth so fast it caught me off guard. I think it was a "hell yea I'm going back". So she obviously had a blast doing it. I think she's afraid to tell me how much she enjoyed it.
It's been an emotional roller coaster. On the one hand I'm jealous. On the other, I love seeing her happy and having fun. She has a higher sex drive than I do. In that respect I think it will work out well. My only real fear is that I'll lose her to another man. She's mentioned that he's really nice. Another part that's been tough for me is that I wasn't really involved in it. She went, had her fun and was worn out when she got home. I've had to push to get all the little details out of her. I don't know if she's embarrased to tell me or she just doesn't want to share it all.
This is a wild ride.