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need a womans advice or anybody's advice really

PortlandOregonblk

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so my ex girlfriend.....who has a boyfriend of 8months has recently stopped talkin to me over the last 4 or 5 months....a lil back groound im 22 shes 20 we dated not too long in high school for about 1 yr and a half im blk shes white....and pretty the only pics i cld post that wld fit for upload were the ones of her tits that she sent me yesterday....but she is a very pretty girl...brunette girl next door type....those of you who are into IR porn she very much resembles the girl "Kacy" almost to a T....anyway....she was my first serious girl and i was her first serious bf....and her first and so far only blk bf that she has had.....we had to sneak around the whole time we dated because her dad was extremely racist...and did not want her with blks..her mom knew about us tho and did cover for us but hid it from her father...before me she had sex one time....but nothing like the sex i gave her for a yr and a half....i pretty much trained and groomed her to be a naughty nasty girl in the sack. Since we broke up we have remained very close friends until recently where she has a new bf....white... i found out from a mutual friend of me and my ex (who is a white female) that the reason she has stopped talking to me is because her bf absolutely forbids her to talk to me due to the fact that one night i was ***** and sent her pics of my hard bbc which he later saw on her cell phone and became extremely jealous....she doesnt know i know the reason y she has been not talking to me the last few months. She has told me several times how much she loves him but he is very insecure.

So out of the blue she sends the attached pic to my cell phone.....and tells me shes at work extremely horny....pussy drippin yada yada yada and how she wants my dick in her...."its not cuz i dont love him.....i just need ur cock right now" thats what she said.... so we make plans to meet at her work....she works as a leasing agent for an apt complex....she tells me to meet her at any empty apt so i agree.....on the way the there im talkin to her....and all of the sudden she gets major guilt says she doesn't think she can do this....she loves him too much....doesnt know if she can face him afterwards yada yada....so she blows me off tells me not to text or call her phone again....i tried to change her mind....she doesnt answer my text or my calls so I say fuck it and fuck her....i light her up in a message on her voicemall and that was the end of it.

Now i dont care about the fact that she felt guilty and cld not go through with cheating on her bf....what I am upset about is the fact that I have lost a friend somehow and a girl that i truly care for! so what i wanna know ladies is.....1 what wld make her call me out of the blue after months of nothing.....she says it was because she was really horny...if thats the case y wldnt she call her bf that she supposedly loves so much.....and then how can she go from wanting and needing me too not talking to me or returning my calls all within about 30 min...do i have the right to be upset....or shld i respect what she wants and leave her alone....after all this is my ex gf and very close friend for almost the last 6 or 7 yrs....i think she ows me a face to face explanation ..sorry its soo long but if i can get some insight from anyone especially women i wld appreciate it!!
 

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I don't have any advice for you but she has some nice ass tits!!!
LOL! I agree! Sorry not a girl but been in similar situations. Male perspective...For what it's worth... Have a little patience. If you were as good as you say you are in the sack she'll be back for more, it may take time but she'll be back. You need to play a little offense. Find yourself another honey who will appreciate what u have to offer and make sure the x is well aware of how well you are plugging your latest conquest. A cell phone return pic of you taking care of business may move things in your direction. Also, jealousy is not a solid foundation for a relationship, maybe you can do things to make him a bit more jealous. Offense brother offense. Don't grovel like a cuck caz u are not a cuck.
Thanks for posting the pic.
 
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thanks man....wasnt groveling just irritated about the whole situation
Didn't mean to insinuate you were groveling, it is just something not to do in this situation. Sorry for the poor communication. I understand the irritation, you need to put the ball back in your hands.
 
..so she blows me off tells me not to text or call her phone again....i tried to change her mind....she doesnt answer my text or my calls so I say fuck it and fuck her....i light her up in a message on her voicemall and that was the end of it.
....what I am upset about is the fact that I have lost a friend somehow and a girl that i truly care for! !!

[B].....you're young, so its understandible that you lost your cool, and you still care/love her.....Now, here what you have to understand, NEVER lost it like that again, it only shows much power she still has over you and at the same time you lose some repect and/or lust she may still have for you. Next time she wants to meet, make her meet you at a place of your choosing or at your place otherwise you don't have time.....stay cool and don't bring up what happen the last time!!!!![/B]
 
Best advice I can offer

Best advice I can offer is what a friend said after his third divorce, and to me is very good advice for anyone 22 years old.

"NEXT!"
 

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