Hello, I'm 23M and she is 22F. We're together for 2 years now and I really want my fantasy became true, but I just don't know how to start it or how to tell her about my fantasy. Some info that might help to understand our situation, firstly list of things that I consider as a "green" flags:
Here goes "red" flags:
My current plans:
And whatever your opinion is - please share it, thanks!
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- 2 years ago: when we were not dating and just had sex she told me that she wants MMF
- 1.5 year ago: once we started dating she asked me if I want FFM with her F friend. I consider it was a joke, isn't is ahah?
- 1.5 year ago: we have lived in different country for 6 months and have found that there was something like swing club/bar, she asked me a few times if I want to go there and fuck with her while other couples are having sex around us. She underlined that she wants sex only with me there.
- 7-8 month ago: she asked me how I feel about threesome sex, I answered "it's okay" and then she asked "and if that's threesome with man" and again I answered "it's okay". After that she just changed topic lol
- 7-8 month ago: she frequently jokes about her lover with name "Peter", something like "Peter is under the bed, don't bother him sleeping" and etc. I think that's just jokes without any hints.
- For last 3-4 months: she frequently jokes about size of my penis, something like "smallest I've ever had" and etc. But that's just jokes and when talking without jokes she tells that my dick is ok because her pussy is quite tight.
- Last 30 days: Each time she watches porn it's amateur anal/amateur threesome or both together. Sometimes she watches videos titled as "record for husband - wife with lover". She watched porn where man was jerking off while his wife have sex with lover and then he joins. But I again think that it was just random video under threesome category and not a measured pick.
- Feb 25: we were thinking about booking a hotel for a trip and invited our friends (they are couple, we usually travel together). She mentioned that it’s strange that we always travel together with them and someone might think that we are swinging (she said it as a joke). After that she added “but we could try” - but again as a joke.
- She likes when I fuck her and using another toy on anal. At the same time she is not permitting to fuck her in anal.
- She is quite open in sex, she don't mind to use toy or anal plug on me. She walked with vibro toy inside on streets/cinema/shops, I even remember how she jerked off my dick in cinema.
- She likes when I'm slapping her butt, bondage things and overall when I'm dominating her in sex.
- She told me that she wants to tie me and dominate with toys, slap bolls and things like that.
Here goes "red" flags:
- Jokes about dick size and lover are just jokes, she loves black humor and similar things.
- She has complexes about her appearance, tomorrow we will start visiting gym. I guess it's a big game changer, I can wakeup her sexuality. She have sent only 3 nude pic for all 2 years of relationship and 1 year of friendship.
- One night we started talking about penises and sizes, I told that I have a giant (it was a joke lol), she laughed and told that it's the smallest she ever had but she loves it. Then she decided to change topic with words "Okay enough otherwise I can rise a cuckold fantasies in your mind".
- When we were not dating I told her that I like to dress in woman clothes and jerk off, she just told me she is not into it. And in past it was a thing that was stopping us from starting dating, I'm afraid that cuckold fantasy might be similar problem. I don't have sissy fantasies anymore. almost.
- For last 1-2 month: amount of sex decreased dramatically, it was 2-3/week and now it's 1/week. I guess it might be due health issues she is fixing right now.
My current plans:
- I bought a realistic dildo and it should be delivered tomorrow, it's bigger than my dick. Will use and post here her opinion lol.
- We're going on vacation once lockdown will go. It will be that country with swing clubs [it's permitted in my own country
], and I don't know how to propose her to visit club? What are your thoughts? My idea is to print a fake advertise on paper and drop it somewhere in hotel room so she could find it.
And whatever your opinion is - please share it, thanks!
I'll be editing this post or adding new posts in tread in future to track results.
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