Newbie: Wife danced with another guy

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Hey everyone,

I found my way to this site recently after an incident that happened about two weeks ago when my wife and I (we're 27 and 28 years old, by the way) were attending a friend's wedding. I don't like to dance (and I'm awful at it) so during the reception I was just sitting at a table chilling, while my wife danced with some of her friends. Eventually she came back to the table and sat down, but shortly thereafter a man, who neither of us knew, approached her and asked her to dance. To my surprise she said yes and he took her by the hand and led her out to the dance floor where she danced with him for about 25 minutes. He even pulled her in close during the slow songs. I watched amazed, thinking that I should be upset about what was going on, but I mostly just felt excited watching it. She was clearly enjoying herself. When she got back to the table she was gushing and in a fantastic mood. I didn't really say anything about it, but since then I haven't been able to get this out of my head. I'm not sure that I'd actually want her to cuckold me at this point, but this certainly planted the idea in my head.

I am wondering how other people got into cuckolding. Is this a typical way for people to become interested in this?
 
It is one way - seeing your wife enjoying herself around other men..
If you want it then go for it and encourage your wife to cuckold you. How about posting a pic of your wife?
 
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cam, you could probably go to dance classes with your wife, and this would give her more opportunities to dance with other men - and as time goes on, dancing with other men will become part of her comfort zone - and flirting will other men will be a natural progression when she is enjoying herself.

You will also dance with other women, which should also be enjoyable for you - even if you are not intending to fuck them. This tends to stop your wife from feeling guilty about you sitting down waiting for her to return to your table.

Dancing breaks down barriers by letting other men hold her hand, put their arms around her, and be inside her space close to her body. She does not feel threatened because dancing with someone else is what happens at dances.

Dancing also causes a surge of blood around her body and her vagina can prepare for sex if she is in a very good mood from the "feel good endorphins being released". She can't stop her pussy wetting up if she is doing a physical exercise like dancing.

It is possible that your wife may like to go dancing with her girlfriends for a girl's night out, and this would let her meet guys even though her intentions are just to have a fun night. If she enjoys her nights out, it can lead to her bringing you home creampies.

A creampie is the proof that your wife has accepted your gift of "permission to date other men without any fear of divorce".

By eating the creampie straight from her pussy by a strong licking action, a hubby proves that he likes his wife choosing her own boyfriends.

After you have eaten the creampie her boyfriend made for you, you can stick your cock into her pussy and stir the remaining porridge (sperm) by your in/out thrusting - and then you ejaculate so she falls asleep with sperm inside her from both her hubby and her lover.
 
Thanks for the responses everyone. I'm not really sure that I'm ready to see her sleep with another guy at this point, but I kind of would like to see her flirt/dance with others some more.
 
Some want to jump too quickly

Cam, welcome to the group, MacNfries has a lot of good advise and if at this point you're just enjoying watching her dance with other men, and she is also enjoying the closeness of being with other men to the point that it get's her motor running, enjoy the upside for you and keep the conversation open about her and other men, and how much you enjoy watching her and would consider watching her do other things. Take your time and keep the lines of discussion open. GTR
 
cam said:
My wife and I (we're 27 and 28) were attending a friend's wedding.
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Cool... weddings involve lots of dancing.

cam said:
I don't like to dance (I'm awful at it), so during the reception I was just sitting at a table chilling while my wife danced with some of her friends.
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Hey... nothing wrong with your wife enjoying herself on a dance floor...

cam said:
Eventually she came back to the table and sat down, but shortly thereafter a man, whom neither of us knew, approached her and asked her to dance. To my surprise, she said "yes."
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Sounds like he sensed your wife's situation... an attractive woman who likes to dance, with a husband who's basically a wallflower...

cam said:
He took her by the hand and led her out to the dance floor, where she danced with him for about 25 minutes.
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Whew! That's quite a while...

cam said:
He even pulled her in close during the slow songs.
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Good for him... and good for your wife...

cam said:
I watched, amazed, thinking I should be upset about what was going on, but I mostly just felt excited watching it.
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Very good. That was the right response...

cam said:
She was clearly enjoying herself. When she got back to the table she was gushing and in a fantastic mood.
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As she should have been. That was entirely appropriate. You took your wife to an event that involved dancing (so she was properly escorted, so to speak), then refrained from getting in the way while she enjoyed herself dancing with other men — including "the stranger," who made her feel like a desirable woman and whom she obviously likes.

cam said:
I didn't really say anything about it, but since then I haven't been able to get this out of my head. I'm not sure I'd actually want her to cuckold me at this point, but this certainly planted the idea in my head.
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That's good. You sound like a progressive husband, ready to move in the right direction when you and your wife decide the time is right.

Meanwhile, don't worry about whether you should encourage your wife to "cuckold" you. Rather, I suggest looking for opportunities to take her dancing from time to time at places with live music. You might then dance with her once or twice, so it will be obvious you're rather awkward while she enjoys it and demonstrates her dancing abilities. Then, relax at a table with a beer and enjoy yourself watching your wife enjoy herself on the dance floor other men.

A way to encourage that, if others don't ask your wife to dance spontaneously, may be to maneuver her on the floor so she brushes "inadvertently" against a man she thinks she would like as a dance partner. She can then turn briefly, smile at him and make eye contact as she says, "excuse me..." (or something to that effect).
 
Hi,

I fully agree with Mac that there are many ways how cuckolding can evolve.

I always was a kind of jaleous type. We married at a young age and I could not watch another man putting his hand around my wife during dancing. My friends knew it and everybody had fun with me. Then the time came when jaleousy was switched by another feeling, like excitement. I planned to bring my wife into situations where exactly this should happen.

So you can imagine that my wife was more than surprised in my new behaviour. And finally there came cuckolding without knowing that there was a term for defining it.

That was our way in short terms.

Ciao
fred
 
Cam,

I'm in the exact situation as you, but a bit further along. Send me an email if you'd like to discuss.
 
Thanks for the responses, everyone. I am thinking about maybe taking her out somewhere where there is dancing and seeing if she has any interest in flirting/dancing with other guys on her own now that she has gotten a taste of it, so to speak.
 
My wife and I started testing the waters the way you did. Since I didn't want to just come out and ask/tell her, I'd drop hints every so often, like telling her that I just saw some guy checking her out. We really started when I would ask her questions about dancing while we were fucking.

So, for example, I'd progress as follows.

Did you like dancing with that guy?
He was pressing very close to you, wasn't he?
Do you think you got him hard?
It looked like he was about to start feeling you up...Did you think he was going to?
Did you want him to?

My wife would start moaning and screaming as we fucked, which was a pretty good indicator of what she thought. It eventually progressed to where we are now, which is a very nontraditional relationship. And even if you don't want to see her fuck other guys, dirty talk about it could get both of you off, and if you do want her to, one day you can just ask - do you want to try it for real?

Good luck.
 
Sorry to bring back an old post, but some new developments have occurred.

About three weeks ago my wife and I started taking a local ballroom dance class (as some here suggested). It is a class that is open to both singles and couples. If you do not come with a partner you can pair up with another single there. We attended the first two classes together, but the last class yesterday evening I couldn't go because I had to go to an event for work. Well, I didn't HAVE to - I could have easily gotten out of it, but I wanted to see if she would still attend the class without me and dance with another guy. So yesterday morning I told her I couldn't go and she said she said something to the effect of "that's too bad, there's always next week" but I then suggested that she shouldn't miss it on my account and should still go. She quickly agreed and that was that. Now when we had gone the last two weeks she had just worn worn her jeans and whatever shirt she wore to work that day. However, yesterday, when she was going by herself, she actually changed into a dress before heading out! Anyways after we both got home, she was excited and energized and talked excitedly about Ryan, the guy she was paired with.
 
thats a great development and it will be very interesting to see where this leads... it is a good sign that she dressed up a bit more for when she was going on her own... does she know that you enjoy the thought of her dancing and flirting with others? have you encouraged her and talked openly about it at all? are you going to be "unavailable" for the class next week again?
 
Hi MystTiger,

I've been thinking about this nonstop all weekend and have been becoming increasingly excited about the situation. I was especially taken aback by the fact that she got dressed up to go by herself but not to go with me. Next week the class is going to be doing the Tango and I think I have decided that I will make myself unavailable to go again. I have a convenient excuse I can pretty much use any night - I've been waiting tables part time at night for supplemental income ever since my job at the university (I work as a technician a pharmacology lab) got reduced to half time. I don't normally work on Friday evenings but I can easily volunteer to do so. I'd like to see where this can go. I may also take nyccouple's advice and gradually start bringing this up in bed.
 
When wannabe's ask me for advice to get their wives out there, I always suggest dancing. It is a safe first step that gets her in the arms of another man touching and hugging
 
Wow Cam! I think it's a great step that she dressed up for the dancing lesson!

I could imagine the feeling of excitement. I hope she dresses up for the next lesson too, and answers 'Yes' to going alone quicker again.

Good luck!
 
So, she is set to go by herself again, tomorrow. When I told her I'd have to work at the restaurant she said something, like, "ooh, that's too bad" and then indicated that she still planned to go. Honestly, she did not sound disappointed at all.
 
So, a lot of exciting new developments. I had to go to work at around 4 so I didn't get a chance to see her get ready to go to dance class, but when I got home later that night she had her red dress draped over the back of the chair in our bedroom. I asked her if she wore that to class and she said yes. That isn't what she wore to work, so she once again went out of her way to dress up to dance with strange men! Apparently this time she started off with the same guy as last time and rotated partners half way through to be with a new guy. She said he was an "amazing" dancer.

Later that night when we were in bed and started making love I began talking about it asking her the kind of questions nyccouple suggested. We started getting into a little bit and I asked her if she could feel them get hard when she danced with them and she began moaning and said yes! I told her that was hot. We haven't talked about it while not having sex, yet. Not sure how she would feel about in under more normal conditions.
 
cam said:
Thanks for the responses everyone. I'm not really sure that I'm ready to see her sleep with another guy at this point, but I kind of would like to see her flirt/dance with others some more.
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If you encourage flirting and dancing with other guys, you build up her expectations of proper dates occuring as she finds that she is becoming addicted to the attention of other men. It is a natural progression from there to cuckolding.

What you start off snowballs, and your wife could start off innocently, but her mind takes over and puts her into bed with new cock.

Dancing is a form of touching and hugging inside her comfort space - talking, laughing, sharing feelings and learning about her new stranger until he becomes a friend then a lover.

Inside her space = inside her heart and panties (in fullness of time).
 
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