My wife and i are in our 30s and we have been married for 12 years.
We have talked about swinging in bed and we got really excited but after cumming, she always said she couldn't go ahead with it.
She knows i would like someone else to have her but she says it is adultery.
Anyway, i've stopped asking her.
Some years ago though, i met a man while i was studying in Germany and he asked me if i could be have sex with his wife. I was shocked but also excited.
We started a relationship and when we met, i would have her first then he would proceed to penetrate her immidiately.
Now, i really enjoyed it but, while i was doing it with the wife, i started noticing him grunting and getting all really excited. I got a bit scared cos i did not know if he was really enjoying it or if the whole pleasure bothered on jealousy. I wasn't sure if it was pleasure or torture. The whole thing must have been his idea from the way things happened.
I won't really call it cuckoldary because, HE was in control.
What i would like to know is this; is swinging/cucoldary really all that fun especially for the hubby, or is it just a pandora's box?
I would please like to hear from those who are either still practicing it or who were into the lifestyle.
We have talked about swinging in bed and we got really excited but after cumming, she always said she couldn't go ahead with it.
She knows i would like someone else to have her but she says it is adultery.
Anyway, i've stopped asking her.
Some years ago though, i met a man while i was studying in Germany and he asked me if i could be have sex with his wife. I was shocked but also excited.
We started a relationship and when we met, i would have her first then he would proceed to penetrate her immidiately.
Now, i really enjoyed it but, while i was doing it with the wife, i started noticing him grunting and getting all really excited. I got a bit scared cos i did not know if he was really enjoying it or if the whole pleasure bothered on jealousy. I wasn't sure if it was pleasure or torture. The whole thing must have been his idea from the way things happened.
I won't really call it cuckoldary because, HE was in control.
What i would like to know is this; is swinging/cucoldary really all that fun especially for the hubby, or is it just a pandora's box?
I would please like to hear from those who are either still practicing it or who were into the lifestyle.