Question on SPH - Small Penis Humiliation
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angk0rwat
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As you have probably already learned, some cuckies have small penises. Some more of them have come to accept the fact that their little dicklettes are much too small to do anything useful. They know and understand that they can never satisfy a woman; they need another man, a "real man," if you will, to do that job. They know that no one will want the little thing between their legs. They accept that they should be reminded, and be made to think about, how pathetic their dicklettes and worthless and useless that makes them. Preferably, this should be done while their wife is being fucked.
They are humiliation subs--they like it. As for why wives or bulls like it as well, some of us are humiliation doms. We like to humiliate people.
They are humiliation subs--they like it. As for why wives or bulls like it as well, some of us are humiliation doms. We like to humiliate people.
The debate about penis size will never end. My x-wife said that without a doubt that a thicker cock is much better than a thin cock. Length did not matter to her. My wife now also says thicker is better and length does not matter to her either although she does like the way a long thick hard cock looks on a man.
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Pinkyrod said:Now I understand that why so many people like to have SM in sex. i.e they just like to be humilated...
Except it's not really SM, more D/s. There is no pain involved, so there isn't any sadism or masochism. On the other hand, it is very submissive to accept something like that. And very dominate to use someone in that way.
But, to people who don't understand, who aren't a dom or a sub or a switch, this must all seems strange.
Thank you all for you replies, especially MacNfries and angk0rwat for you thorough explanations.
Cuckolding has been a huge fetish of mine for two decades (or even more...)
But for some reason, Humiliation (or D/s) has not, although I understand that the two fetishes often go together.
Strangely, my cuckold fetish has neither to do with any concern of mine on my sexual performances, which I believe are average (if not above).
Just last night, Linda and me had sex, and I came only when she told me that she actually gave a handjob to doctor
http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/gene...ognize-cock-finger-post206882.html#post206882
Agree !!!
Please list me among those who prefer smaller breasts
However, there must be a majority of us, guys, who like big tits - otherwise it wouldn't explain why porn business is largely based on large breasts (pardon me the play on words)
100% agree, but that is not quite what I asked
As I was surprised that there are guys out there who are aroused by having their penises humiliated, and as I am a sick ol' pervert, I wanted to know more about that fetish... just curiosity - nothing to do with penis size
It does look strange to me !
However, when I think of my other big fetish - female mannequins - who represent just plastic to most guys, while they are a extremely arousing to me... then I understand how much the human nature and personal tastes can vary, which is good
MacNfries said:
Cuckolding has been a huge fetish of mine for two decades (or even more...)
But for some reason, Humiliation (or D/s) has not, although I understand that the two fetishes often go together.
Strangely, my cuckold fetish has neither to do with any concern of mine on my sexual performances, which I believe are average (if not above).
Just last night, Linda and me had sex, and I came only when she told me that she actually gave a handjob to doctor
http://www.cuckolds.com/forums/gene...ognize-cock-finger-post206882.html#post206882
MacNfries said:
Agree !!!
MacNfries said:
Please list me among those who prefer smaller breasts
However, there must be a majority of us, guys, who like big tits - otherwise it wouldn't explain why porn business is largely based on large breasts (pardon me the play on words)
cuck4life said:
100% agree, but that is not quite what I asked
As I was surprised that there are guys out there who are aroused by having their penises humiliated, and as I am a sick ol' pervert, I wanted to know more about that fetish... just curiosity - nothing to do with penis size
angk0rwat said:
It does look strange to me !
However, when I think of my other big fetish - female mannequins - who represent just plastic to most guys, while they are a extremely arousing to me... then I understand how much the human nature and personal tastes can vary, which is good
The Issue That Just Won't Go Away ...
And That's Rather Telling!
This may be one of the more effective means by which knowing wives tease, cajole and wheedle their underdeveloped husbands' consent for them to try bigger and better things...
Were size a non-issue, that wouldn't be the case.
Would it.
And That's Rather Telling!
This may be one of the more effective means by which knowing wives tease, cajole and wheedle their underdeveloped husbands' consent for them to try bigger and better things...
Were size a non-issue, that wouldn't be the case.
Would it.
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duke9555
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Gay Men's Penis Size | National Institutes Of Health Study | The Daily Caller
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ifya got a small one ya gotta be a "woman"
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ifya got a small one ya gotta be a "woman"
like sph
i'm also small sized and like sph. it's the only way i can get off by thinking about how unlucky it really is for us guys born so small, and how much i secretly envy big sized alpha males. and knowing it will never change is painful/pleasure torment. maybe thats why i'm sorta shy, something the ladies hate, a shy guy with no confidence, but i've accepted my fate by now, being i'm middle aged, and by sheer luck still married.
i'm also small sized and like sph. it's the only way i can get off by thinking about how unlucky it really is for us guys born so small, and how much i secretly envy big sized alpha males. and knowing it will never change is painful/pleasure torment. maybe thats why i'm sorta shy, something the ladies hate, a shy guy with no confidence, but i've accepted my fate by now, being i'm middle aged, and by sheer luck still married.
Yesterday.......
Hi,
ysterday we had a nice situation fitting perfectly in this post.
Now we have been living this lifestyle for 8 ?? years and we both enjoy it. After long discussions we decided not to include our games in our privat or social life. Later on my wife found out that it turned me on in an extreme way when she spread some hints about parts of our game but in a way that the people do not know if it is real or only a joke.
Yesterday we got a visit of the 2 female best friends from my wife, one a divorcee and the other a widow. I was outside the living room. After some glases of red wine I heard a discussion about the missing sex and the 2 ladies claimed that my wife is in a compareable better situation because she has not to deal with that.
Then I came into the living room.
My wife looked me in my eyes and answered: "Maybe if you mean the quantity point of view. But if you speak about quality, them I am in the same boat and also in a compareable weak situation."
I went beet red, the ladies laughed. The 2 friends did not know if it was meant serious or a joke.
The topic was changed and discussion was continued, Before going to bed my wife asked me if I enjoyed it because she saw sparks in my eyes. I told her that I enjoy such situations as long as nobody can say if it is serious. She had her knowing smile on her lips and went to bed.
fred
Hi,
ysterday we had a nice situation fitting perfectly in this post.
Now we have been living this lifestyle for 8 ?? years and we both enjoy it. After long discussions we decided not to include our games in our privat or social life. Later on my wife found out that it turned me on in an extreme way when she spread some hints about parts of our game but in a way that the people do not know if it is real or only a joke.
Yesterday we got a visit of the 2 female best friends from my wife, one a divorcee and the other a widow. I was outside the living room. After some glases of red wine I heard a discussion about the missing sex and the 2 ladies claimed that my wife is in a compareable better situation because she has not to deal with that.
Then I came into the living room.
My wife looked me in my eyes and answered: "Maybe if you mean the quantity point of view. But if you speak about quality, them I am in the same boat and also in a compareable weak situation."
I went beet red, the ladies laughed. The 2 friends did not know if it was meant serious or a joke.
The topic was changed and discussion was continued, Before going to bed my wife asked me if I enjoyed it because she saw sparks in my eyes. I told her that I enjoy such situations as long as nobody can say if it is serious. She had her knowing smile on her lips and went to bed.
fred
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For the first time since coming to this forum, I find myself in respectful disagreement with Mac.
Without going in to a thesis-like Custer extended expression, let me say, unequivocally, to all who read this .. behind closed doors where the deepest truths matter in the most crucial circumstances, a small .. or even a regular sized .. penis cannot be compensated for. No matter the money or the muscles or the societal standing or even the stratosphere scraping, over the top importance of a full head of hair on a man .. there is no still way to express the subtle, subliminal, unsaid but deeply felt crushing ballistic importance of a large penis.
Even with evidence that the heterosexual female is one of the most cruelest, vindictive, hateful creatures that can be identified on this Earth during a divorce, or impending divorce, they still will not admit in front of other people, most especially spouses, that a man's penis is too small for them. But the blatant facts emerge if they are asked to express importance of fidelity to a marriage when in a one-on-one session. Most always prefaced with an obligatory, "This is all confidential, right?".
And men feel this. They know it. They know it in the back of their minds even if they profess to not care. Every man cares about this to the very core of their soul. In the keystone building block "A" "1" of the pyramid of their ego and psyche.
Men that are aroused by Small Penis Humiliation, of course, have a predilection towards masochism .. but .. I believe that many more simply surrender. Surrender to being who they are. To not lying anymore. To simply embracing the facts of the real matter, to finally, exhaustively, acknowledging a irrefutable fact of nature and upon embracing it, feeling the comfort of laying down the funhouse mirror that reflects in a bizarre and untruthful societal fashion. A real pleasure is derived from stopping all the rationalizations and squirming out from under the self deceit they have engaged in and finally allowing the kernel that had been in their deepest knowledge to explode in to the true size it actually is.
No cuckold I have ever treated had a massive penis.
And no ex-husband or ex-boyfriend with a regular sized penis or smaller could ever find himself between the legs of his ex-wife or ex-girlfriend ten years after the fact.
The women that lie like a rug that they love bald heads and that their men's penis size is just like a key also can finally .. FINALLY .. express out loud in full voice what was always a running dialogue in their minds in whispered tones.
Here's a piece of advice, though, as all is not lost: Ugly Women are the exception to the rule and the last measure of true hope for those that were dealt Deuces and Eights at conception of the DNA dice roll. Women who have a very poor self image will stay with a man with a regular sized or smaller penis because they have the nagging feeling that they are simply lucky to have any penis, any penis at all, in their lives. Notice I said ugly .. this is in stark contrast to overweight. Women who are even just slightly overweight are the ones whose subconscious are most flagrant and panting in their craving for a large penis.
Now, here's the amusing part: Please read the responses below to reveal the volume and tenacity of a bruised ego against all manners of logic ..
Doc
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MacNfries said:
... many more women will say that a LARGE PENIS isn't a necessity at all ...
Men are just too boneheaded to believe that is true ...
Mac
For the first time since coming to this forum, I find myself in respectful disagreement with Mac.
Without going in to a thesis-like Custer extended expression, let me say, unequivocally, to all who read this .. behind closed doors where the deepest truths matter in the most crucial circumstances, a small .. or even a regular sized .. penis cannot be compensated for. No matter the money or the muscles or the societal standing or even the stratosphere scraping, over the top importance of a full head of hair on a man .. there is no still way to express the subtle, subliminal, unsaid but deeply felt crushing ballistic importance of a large penis.
Even with evidence that the heterosexual female is one of the most cruelest, vindictive, hateful creatures that can be identified on this Earth during a divorce, or impending divorce, they still will not admit in front of other people, most especially spouses, that a man's penis is too small for them. But the blatant facts emerge if they are asked to express importance of fidelity to a marriage when in a one-on-one session. Most always prefaced with an obligatory, "This is all confidential, right?".
And men feel this. They know it. They know it in the back of their minds even if they profess to not care. Every man cares about this to the very core of their soul. In the keystone building block "A" "1" of the pyramid of their ego and psyche.
Men that are aroused by Small Penis Humiliation, of course, have a predilection towards masochism .. but .. I believe that many more simply surrender. Surrender to being who they are. To not lying anymore. To simply embracing the facts of the real matter, to finally, exhaustively, acknowledging a irrefutable fact of nature and upon embracing it, feeling the comfort of laying down the funhouse mirror that reflects in a bizarre and untruthful societal fashion. A real pleasure is derived from stopping all the rationalizations and squirming out from under the self deceit they have engaged in and finally allowing the kernel that had been in their deepest knowledge to explode in to the true size it actually is.
No cuckold I have ever treated had a massive penis.
And no ex-husband or ex-boyfriend with a regular sized penis or smaller could ever find himself between the legs of his ex-wife or ex-girlfriend ten years after the fact.
The women that lie like a rug that they love bald heads and that their men's penis size is just like a key also can finally .. FINALLY .. express out loud in full voice what was always a running dialogue in their minds in whispered tones.
Here's a piece of advice, though, as all is not lost: Ugly Women are the exception to the rule and the last measure of true hope for those that were dealt Deuces and Eights at conception of the DNA dice roll. Women who have a very poor self image will stay with a man with a regular sized or smaller penis because they have the nagging feeling that they are simply lucky to have any penis, any penis at all, in their lives. Notice I said ugly .. this is in stark contrast to overweight. Women who are even just slightly overweight are the ones whose subconscious are most flagrant and panting in their craving for a large penis.
Now, here's the amusing part: Please read the responses below to reveal the volume and tenacity of a bruised ego against all manners of logic ..
Doc
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I don't have a big dick, fits in the toilet paper roll and sticks out just a very little. I know the wife has had much bigger than mine but aside from out sex play she never made a comment about it being enough for her.
Sometimes in our play she will make me wear panties and jerk off for her. She always tells me how little it is when we do this. She knows how much it turns me on.
Sometimes in our play she will make me wear panties and jerk off for her. She always tells me how little it is when we do this. She knows how much it turns me on.
For me its all about ass. A woman has to have a big, round ass for me to be attracted to her. I can forgive a lot for a large, protruding ass and large, wide hips. There's nothing like feeling and seeing a big soft ass like that rubbing and bunching up against me as I'm fucking her, lying on her back...damn. But honesty, I like a big pair of tits too. But it's more about their shape than their size. Size is just a bonus.GordonPym said:Please list me among those who prefer smaller breasts
However, there must be a majority of us, guys, who like big tits - otherwise it wouldn't explain why porn business is largely based on large breasts (pardon me the play on words)
Oh and I have to agree with the doc, logically, I don't see how a smaller penis is ever going to feel as good to a woman as a larger one. But I have to disagree with the whole secrecy thing. No woman has ever tried to tell me that the size of a man's cock doesn't matter to her. Although I have heard women say that they like bald guys
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duke9555
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MacNfries said:That's not a bad record, now, is it Doc? I'm glad to see you back on-line and contributing to these fun forums.
I hope, however, before anyone takes a position on my statement, as fragmented from your comment, that they'll take the time to read my entire post that you refer too. Anyone can take "selective words" from anyone's sentences and take a opposite position on it. Politicians do it all the time, as we well know.
Women & men take a different position when it comes to penis SIZE ... men refer to length (or as they call it, hang"), whereas most women look at penis size from the girth (thickness) position. Length reference, as most women look at penis size, usually only becomes an issue when its very short (like under 5 inches) or very long (over 8 inches) ... which the number of guys with lengths over 8 inches is much rarer than it appears by viewing selective porn pics on the internet. Mac
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very true Mac n Cheese
but let's cum clean here we two have been humiliating
each other's dicks 4 yrs .........4 the record we're both about 5"
long BUT Mac faaar exceeds me in the all important girth area
as i'm a pencil dick & he's a beer can cock ..........he wins hands down
he's also younger better lookin and obviously smarter & richer
and in a fair fight could easily kick the shit outta me
the only reason i'm as sassy as i am towards him is b/c this
is a msg board NOT r/l
