Hello all,this is my first post.I have a question that some of you mainly the WF's that I hope my help me.My GF and I in the past talked about swinging and had a few encounters with a friend that she enjoyed.One night I mentioned my fantasy of her and a black guy.She would say that it wouldnt happen,it is against her upbringing,chocolate isnt mixing with this vanilla and things like that.Then another night we were at a restaraunt we would frequent and there was a black waiter there that we were both friendly with.This night she told me she would like to f$%k him.She didnt say anything else about it after that.Whenever I would try to bring the subject up again I would hear the same things over again.What gives? Any help you can offer will be appreciated.