Hello!
I've just joined this forum in hopes of understanding the "Cuckhold / Hotwife" phenomenon more clearly. My reasons for doing so are many and varied, and among them is the fact that my own parents participated in this sort of adult "arrangement" for quite a long period during my teen years. Needless to say, I've been curious about it ever since.
Some of the most perplexing things about this phenomenon revolve around obvious dangers in terms of STD's. Also, there's the potential for marriage break-up's. Then there's the chance of some types of crime perpetrated against the couple by the chosen "Bull". And of course, there's the changes and shifts in feeling between husband and wife as they proceed into this kind of lifestyle / activity.
To better understand me and where I'm coming from, let me just say that I've already had intimate relationships with Black men specifically, and I've found these intensely exciting, stimulating, satisfying, and fulfilling. In other words, I'm not some sort of racist at all. Furthermore, the Cuckhold / Hotwife activities of my parents during my teen years did NOT traumatize me in the least, but it DID get me very curious about the dynamics and components involved in it and the dynamics and changes between the husband and the wife once they decided to move into the lifestyle.
So, here I am in this forum - poking my nose into everyone's posts and trying to get honest opinions from them about what makes this "taste" of their's "tick".
I hope to hear from all of you in any way you care to respond, but PLEASE keep in mind that although I don't mind discussion the blatantly sexual aspects of this lifestyle, I'm not here to get-off over communications concerning these.......or to get anyone else off with my responses either. This is to say that I'm prefectly willing to communicate with you about all aspects of this, but I'm hoping that you won't become crude or rude or deliberately abrasive with me while I do so.
Smooches atcha all !
Julie
I've just joined this forum in hopes of understanding the "Cuckhold / Hotwife" phenomenon more clearly. My reasons for doing so are many and varied, and among them is the fact that my own parents participated in this sort of adult "arrangement" for quite a long period during my teen years. Needless to say, I've been curious about it ever since.
Some of the most perplexing things about this phenomenon revolve around obvious dangers in terms of STD's. Also, there's the potential for marriage break-up's. Then there's the chance of some types of crime perpetrated against the couple by the chosen "Bull". And of course, there's the changes and shifts in feeling between husband and wife as they proceed into this kind of lifestyle / activity.
To better understand me and where I'm coming from, let me just say that I've already had intimate relationships with Black men specifically, and I've found these intensely exciting, stimulating, satisfying, and fulfilling. In other words, I'm not some sort of racist at all. Furthermore, the Cuckhold / Hotwife activities of my parents during my teen years did NOT traumatize me in the least, but it DID get me very curious about the dynamics and components involved in it and the dynamics and changes between the husband and the wife once they decided to move into the lifestyle.
So, here I am in this forum - poking my nose into everyone's posts and trying to get honest opinions from them about what makes this "taste" of their's "tick".
I hope to hear from all of you in any way you care to respond, but PLEASE keep in mind that although I don't mind discussion the blatantly sexual aspects of this lifestyle, I'm not here to get-off over communications concerning these.......or to get anyone else off with my responses either. This is to say that I'm prefectly willing to communicate with you about all aspects of this, but I'm hoping that you won't become crude or rude or deliberately abrasive with me while I do so.
Smooches atcha all !
Julie