Really happening!!
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We have decided that she will start talking to her bull again. They already have its been a couple of days now. I'm comfortable with where it currently is, and progressing forward.Custer Laststand said:
I think she maybe holding back in her conversations with the bull. Feel like I will need to let her know that I'm okay.
Excellent. Sounds like, as you say, your wife and you are moving forward.Noob said:
Yes — encouraging your wife would be appropriate.Noob said:
Do you have a plan for ensuring that your wife, hence you as well, will remain safe from the coronavirus / Covid-19, which you definitely don't want to catch...?
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A bit of an update. Bull and wife have been talking constantly. She has decided we will meet up for drinks with him. Still figuring out dates!
I truly enjoy being a sub to my soon to be slutwife. She also is submissive in bed. Usually I have to be the dominate one. Any tips on how to get my wife more dominant and treat me more like a cuck?
I truly enjoy being a sub to my soon to be slutwife. She also is submissive in bed. Usually I have to be the dominate one. Any tips on how to get my wife more dominant and treat me more like a cuck?
Noob said:
Noob - it is positive to see an update for you and that things are progressing.
As with any partner/spouse that is exploring becoming a becoming or continuing to be a hotwife, she should always be able to do things on her own terms. As I previously mentioned, it is always good to have open honest judgement free communication exchanges with your partner, spouse, etc. and that you both do need to remember, when you speak with each other, you both also must truly listen to each other, adjust accordingly, and move forward.
Noob said:
As individuals and couples, we all have our own respective preferences inside and outside of the bedroom. I have been within some variation of the alternative lifestyle realm for some 30 years at this point, currently approaching 50 and started in my teenage years. My prior wife was as you described your wife, she was submissive in the bedroom and needed to feel dominated, which would require me to assume the more dominate role although we both come to the conclusion that we were both truly the happiest as the submissive in the bedroom. I am now married to a much more Alpha Type Woman (inside and outside of the bedroom), although as with any woman, she does enjoy a good power exchange in the bedroom at times. With that said, there is a wide range of dynamics which can be addressed with the introduction of a open minded alternative lifestyle Alpha Man, not simply a 'Bull' and before everyone jumps on me for saying that a good Alpha Man is so much more then a simple 'Bull' which can be nothing then a human dildo. A good knowledgeable Alpha Man that is lifestyle experienced will guide your wife in direct and subtle ways; this could/would also translate into how she treats you in your marriage/relationship with her. So what she is a sub, and while your a sub, you both may find that perfect Alpha Man to directly and indirectly dominate you both.
If you have any questions, messages me directly and I will share some of my own experiences in this area.
SquirmingSub said:
Thanks for the advice, I will reach out to you. We did talk a bit about it. But haven't gone fully into me being Sub.
I feel like after we meet her bull will be a good time to assess where we are.
In the past she use to control wither I can cum or not. So we have started doing that again.
Wife is going to meet her bull for the first time. Covid-19 restrictions is hard to find a neutral place. Bull invited us to his place. Both of us don't feel comfortable first meeting there. So we're thinking to meet at our hotel room.
Any advice on how to make it a comfortable situation for my soon to be slut wife & her bull? Feel like being in the hotel room to start may make wife shy and inverted.
Any advice on how to make it a comfortable situation for my soon to be slut wife & her bull? Feel like being in the hotel room to start may make wife shy and inverted.
As others have said, a more neutral place would work better for a start, i.e. meet in a park during daytime, a cafe if they're open where you live, but not a bedroom straight away. We don't do bulls but I have experience sharing my wife with women and for her first time it took 3 neutral dates to get to sex on the 4th time, and since then it's always worked better if there's at least one neutral date first.
Giving your wife control of when and whether you cum is a key to her becoming the dominant partner, and you becoming the submissive partner, in your marriage. Toward this end, you might bear in mind the words of one cuckoldress (elsewhere on the web) who said, in a word of advice to other married women: "If you keep your husband in a chastity device, cuckolding will follow like night follows day."Noob said:
Thus, you might consider beginning to wear a cock cage for your wife, and appointing her your sole key holder. Other cuckolds on this forum seem to agree that metal cock cages are superior to those made from plastic. The so-called "HolyTrainer" cock cage — while not metal — has been found comfortable and secure for long-term wear by more than one cuckold. See, for instance:
Male chastity devices:
http://www.maturemetal.com/
http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/in-the-beginning
http://tpe.serve101.org/altarboy/nt040608.htm
https://www.aliexpress.com/i/329925...VtR6tBh2Y-QWAEAAYAyAAEgJRfvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
See also:
Forum for husbands whose wives keep them in chastity devices:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/any-of-you-cuckolds-in-male-chastity-devices.7655/
Wearing a male chastity device, for which your wife is sole key holder, will give her confidence that while she is dating her lover, you will not be off pursuing other women.
If your wife does not understand this concept, and sees no need to keep you in a chastity device, I suggest purchasing your own device and being your own key holder. But, unlock yourself only when (and if) your wife gives you permission to do so. Pretty soon — after your wife takes her lover — she will see the advantages to herself of keeping you in your chastity device and being your sole key holder.
Take care to order one from a reputable manufacturer (not a knock-off made, e.g., in China), and be careful to make your measurements carefully to ensure it fits properly and is comfortable for long-term wear.
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Those are good ages for your wife to become your dominant hotwife and for you to become her submissive cuckold, in a hotwife / cuckold husband form of marriage.Noob said:
The conventional wisdom is: men attain maximum sexuality (meaning, maximum frequency of orgasms) at about 18 or 19. It's all downhill, slowly, from there. Women, by contrast, attain maximum sexuality (meaning, maximum desire to orgasm) at about age 30 and beyond. This is apparently associated with increasing testosterone in women beyond age 30, while men experience decreasing testosterone as they age.
Thus, to encourage your wife's desire to take a lover and become the dominant partner in your marriage, I suggest you proceed as I suggested in post no. 29, above.
It's official I have been cuckold. Been meaning to post have had so many mixed emotions. I will need to write full detail of events that happened.
I wasn't as into it as I always thought I would be. It might be because at work and every other place since a young age, I have been the leader. Cuckolding allows me to be my natural submissive self.
When the bull showed up I was more like really this guy. Wife kept going forward they started making out. There on the bed fucking.
I was like wow that's my slut wife and I have been cuckold. But I don't like the bull.
I'm so complexed on the situation. She found a bull she connected with and felt comfortable. Could it just be jealousy ?
I want to find someone to write the actual story.
I wasn't as into it as I always thought I would be. It might be because at work and every other place since a young age, I have been the leader. Cuckolding allows me to be my natural submissive self.
When the bull showed up I was more like really this guy. Wife kept going forward they started making out. There on the bed fucking.
I was like wow that's my slut wife and I have been cuckold. But I don't like the bull.
I'm so complexed on the situation. She found a bull she connected with and felt comfortable. Could it just be jealousy ?
I want to find someone to write the actual story.
Congratulations, cuckold Noob!Noob said:
This is not surprising. Apparently it's not unusual for men who are in charge at work (some form of boss or supervisor), and have to be responsible for pretty much everything that's going on, to want their wives to be in charge when they're at home, sometimes including cuckolding them — thereby leaving them free to spend more time working after-hours, while feeling confident their wives needs are satisfied (via their relationships with other men).Noob said:
Good for your wife. My congratulations to her, as well.Noob said:
Probably. Plus, the bull was in your territory (your house) while fucking your wife.Noob said:
That would be you. Or your wife, if she wants to set herself up with a screen name that identifies her with you (something like "MsNoob", maybe). Anyway.... you've been doing a pretty good job of describing how you and your wife have moved forward on this front. I encourage you to continue posting as you try to adapt yourself to your new situation.Noob said:
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