It depends entirely on the girl. I was with one married girl named Carissa. No matter how gentle I was with her, she would angrily accuse me of trying to hurt her.
By contrast, Christine would contemptuously say all guys are the same. In out, in out. “I tell them harder and they don’t fucking even know how!”
I was in the gym six days a week back then and the only way she was happy was if I slammed into her cervix as hard as I could until I was drenched in sweat. I could feel my cock slam up against the back of her cervix. It would send her into waves of orgasms that would squeeze my cock.
If I ever did that to Carissa, she would have ********** from the pain.
Women are just different.
Carissa hated anal.
Christine would beg for anal for an hour and she’d do this thing where she’d involuntarily reach back around to pull me in. She’d finally beg me to switch to her vagina and smash her cervix. “I love to have my ass fucked more than anything- except I can’t quite cum like that,” she’d say.