Should slut wifes "mileage" matter ?

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Does it matter how many men have had a slut wife ?

My wife was a teenage slut when I met her, she's now in her mid 60's.

We have tried to calculate how many DIFFERENT men have had her, and based on a low monthly average, she was very active up until about her 40's then slowed down, we came up with a figure of between 600 - 1000 DIFFERENT guys. Of course many returned for repeat sessions, inc. my mates even recently ....so the figure for her "mileage" must be well over 2000 fucks... excluding my regular helpings of course. Google the average mans ejaculation amount in ML ....that's a lot to swallow !.. which she has over 90% of the time.

Is this excessive for a slut ?

She has never had a sexual disease and has a check up a few times a year. Blood & Gyno

Surely that's what a slut wife is for ... .. a shower and she is back to new again.

All her bits work, sore sometimes LOL ... but they still work, so where is the problem ?
 
|I don't think that it matters one bit and all I can comment is good on her and you for allowing it. If she enjoys it, not ****** into it nor damage anybody or their marriage then carry on, enjoy it to the hilt.

Is it a case of her seeking it out all the time and willingly taking all she can or her sitting back and waiting for you to provide the extra for her needs. In other words "who is the Prime Mover.

You have mentioned her Daughter, what does she think about her mothers cravings and does she agree with the set up?

Does your wife encourage her daughter to do the same and have they "played" together?

Yes, Sarah sure seems a fun girl, a nice person to know that gives and receives freely. Yep, I wish I was your neighbour and guess what, I would try and be your best friend.
 
mileage doesn't really matter, my wife has is been used around the 74 times Mark
all though getting on in the age now 56 year old, still very active, but do admit it's getting increasingly harder to find someone on a regular basis.
 
She has always been an easy lay to anyone who came onto her, that's how we met in her teens. She hung around with my mates and was great fun.

When we got together I arranged fun sessions with her agreement, it became very easy when the internet began, before that we used contact magazines. She enjoys being used and seems to like helping guys with a "my wife doesn't understand me" story. She gets a kick out of having married guys...especially if she knows the wife. Having instant sex with strangers really floats her boat, she gets bored with pre-amble chat if a session has been arranged to prefers to get straight down to it. Never has needed chatting up

We have never discussed this with her daughter but i think the "atmosphere" must have rubbed off on her. Perhaps we were not as discrete as we thought we were. A few old family friends have had my wife and i think within the family its well known shes an easy lay.

Now shes in her 60's shes lost a bit of confidence, but still has her moments. Seems to be slipping back into her easy going ways recently. Xmas / New Year parties have always been a great fun time.
 
Before she married, my wife had been with more than 300 men. It's OK with me. But every time I bring it up in an effort to get the juicy, salacious details she gets angry. No matter how many times I say it's OK, that I'm not passing judgement, she just doesn't hear me.
 
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Before she married, my wife had been with more than 300 men. It's OK with me. But every time I bring it up in an effort to get the juicy, salacious details she gets angry. No matter how many times I say it's OK, that I'm not passing judgement, she just doesn't hear me.
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Over 300 guys ..so she is able to deal with just sex and a relationship I assume.

I have a mate who was in a similar situation about 20 years ago. Try not talking about her past, perhaps she thinks it will damage what she has with you.

Try what my mate did - get her used to having spontaneous sex at different times of the day and in different places, even in the car - a quick blow job is enough - most times you end it when you have cum and she hasn't. So she knows that you have just used her.

The theory is to try and have quick sex for YOU as opposed to "Love" sex. If she says shes not in the mood pretend you are horny and need it there and then.

Save the "loving" stuff for "special" in bed sessions, perhaps the same evening you have used her.

Introduce watching some M.M.F. porn - but don't suggest that you try it for a while. Tell her that sex is getting more fun the older your getting.

Hopefully she will see that you are having two sorts of sex, loving and meaningless, and she will revert to her old habits.

After a few months get a mate to come around and share a drink and video for a giggle ...if you prime him properly he may get lucky.

Let me know how you get on in a few months.

Everyone should have a slut wife, I know its too much for most couples, but i wouldn't change mine, just thinking about her exploits gets me hard.

Good luck
 
I knew my wife had been "around" before we met! I was fine with this as I did not want a Puritan type wife with a vanilla life!! So when we dated, anything went! How little did I know! Turns out she was only "sleeping around" to get married! Once she said "I do" she said "I don't"!!! Live an learn!!
 
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I knew my wife had been "around" before we met! I was fine with this as I did not want a Puritan type wife with a vanilla life!! So when we dated, anything went! How little did I know! Turns out she was only "sleeping around" to get married! Once she said "I do" she said "I don't"!!! Live an learn!!
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Yep.... That is one hell of a twist, the sting in the tail. Are you still together and living the Vanilla Lifestyle?
 
Hey SarahSteve,

I keep saying "it's only sex, it's not love". Shes gets it. Having had sex with hundreds of guys she could probably write that book. But now things are different and it really really sucks.

I've been trying to set up something along the lines you suggest, the logistics haven't yet worked out. I haven't given up.
 
Dual Standard

I have heard guys talk about the dozens and dozens of women the have screwed, fucked, banged, and, occasionally..made love to. They brag about it as sign of their virility and skills as a lover. Male sexual prowess is thing of legend in the bible and mythology. But somehow an "experienced" woman is a slut with none of the virtues that a man gains from his promiscuity. I am not a promiscuous person and I do not seek out lovers to satisfy my cravings or ego....Sorry guys, but masturbation is sometime just much less hassle and doesn't involve changing the sheets.

As I get older "shock":eek: the pleasures I give are as important as the pleasures I receive. I am not afraid to have lovers with less experience than I do and enjoy giving them pleasure even if I do not achieve complete satisfaction. It does not make me a slut or a Milf or any other label other than just woman.
 
Hi SandyWho,

Webster defines Slut as a promiscuous woman. It is how we perceive that term as to it's derogatory meaning.

"It's just sex", but sometimes it gets complicated, for men and women.

And the double standard is just plain WRONG. It rather have an experienced any day, the more men she's been with the better. I don;t want to be a teacher, I want a woman who knows her way around a bedroom and men. if I were to place a eHarmony type of ad, I think one of my main profile statements would be "ONLY sluts need apply".

And I agree, sometimes masturbation is preferable to sex with a person, my hand never get jealous, needs cuddling or expects a phone call or flowers.

Thanks for putting your thoughts out there.
 
Hi, SandyWho. nice to see you contributing in your own section, I am sure this will please all the Members.

Reads like you don't like being called a Slut or the name of the Site. Fair enough, so what would you like us to call you?

Maybe I don't like it but what should we call the site? In our case the term Slut is mean't to be the highest form of praise and is certainly not used as an insult. Maybe we should have a competion to suggest a catchy Site Name that is not used by anyone else.

Do you follow the Bible as an example of how your life should be? Well if you read it well you will see, that yes, they do mention many an old man as super virile well into old age but many elderly women mentioned are also very promiscuous or submissive and don't seem very bothered when their husbands lend them out to gain favour... Although I do admit most of the Bible does seem to be mythology.

You advocate masturbation but does that mean self -pleasure or doing it for your partner?

If you are a sweaty or squrter, gushing out all over the bed and walls may I suggest a large towel over the sheets.

Your last paragraph about giving pleasure in old age I agree with but why wait for old age?
 
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Dear Cumbox,

Not sure how to take your comments but there are some things that deserve a reply. First, I was not consulted when they changed the name of the site to Slutwives. When I agreed to do an advice section this was still the Dark Cavern forum. But I understand that marketing and money shape any business and this is an open and free forum but someone still has to pay the bills. While I may not have liked the name change I can understand why Dig and Coco made these changes.

I think you mistook or overlooked my comment. You may consider Slut to be a high form of complement but the world views it as derogatory and that is the dual standard. There are no really derogatory term for a promiscuous man. Just looking through a list that you can find on Google:
Casanova
Don Juan
lady's man
Lothario
player
rake
salty dog
satyr
stud
womanizer

They all connote more of a macho positive than negative. Imagine two women in an arguement and one calls the other a "slut". That is not viewed a complement. But two men in argument and one calls the other a "player" or "stud", I am not sure that they feel very insulted. That is what I was saying about dual standards.

As to some of your other comments, I do advocate masterbation afterall, it is natural. And, yes I "self-pleasure" but also enjoy pleasuring my partners.

Last--laundry. Thanks for your advice but shopping for beach towels for my bed is just not on my "to do" list. When I take my lover to bed I want clean soft sheets that we can dive into and spend hours in foreplay and exploring each other. And when we get to serious lovemaking I am not going to make sure we stay on some scratchy towel. So laundry it is and I will save the towels for the pool.

Sandy
 
Fair enough, points taken. I am not sure that I agree with all you write but it is your right to hold these views and I respect you for holding them.

Forgetting about yours and mine comments it is nice to see you making comments on your own Advice Section and I am sure the members will enjoy and look forewards to reading them.

I did feel rather guilty hogging your section and handing out advice to the Members questions but the members were asking and no one was replying to them. I did step in but I was afraid of turning it into the "Cumbox Show" so I held back on a lot of the questions.

I repeat....nice to see you back.
 
Hi sandy I agree with you 100% that women should have as much fun as men without being given a bad name or thought any less off, I think no less of my wife or any women who, like most men, enjoy sex with others.

I really dont know why women have become to have a name associated with their past activies/lifestyle. But for some reason it does seem a turn on
to use the word.... BUT NOT in any dirogatory manner, perhaps it sparks some animal instinct in some men.

I,we, think its fun when she is described as a slut. She doesnt take any offence from it, in fact gets a bit turned on.

Is there a word for a "free & easy" man ?
 
"Poon hound" leaps to mind!
 
UMM ??? I am in UK that phrase does not translate ?
 
Loopy69 said:
"Poon hound" leaps to mind!
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Poon Hound describes a promiscuous or lecherous male who seeks out women for sexual favours.
 
Guilty as charged!!!!! Whats the quote about UK &US? " two peoples separated by a common language"!!
 
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I have been with at least 250+ black men. Don't know how many times I have been laid, but has to be at the very least 2000+ times & that's not including giving head or anal sex , which I do regularly. Use to do quite a bit anal when was fertile , great birth control method:)~
I am now 68 and still have a great body thru work outs and just plain genetics. Am 5'6" in heels, 38C-27-35, 145lbs and a naural blonde. Have no problem finding black men at all. though sometimes have to go to bars as scantily clad ( Ultra skimpy mini skirt, garter belt, no bra) as possible. Age has nothing to do with it. Don't do as much but when I do never have a question about my age , all they care about is if I put out! And at my age do not have to worry about getting pg so always go au natural
 
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