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I have been working on my wife for about a year now. I'm 44 she is 43.We have been married 24 yrs now.During sex she will tease me and tell me how she would love to have a big black mans cock in her. She says she would make me watch. She teases me about my size and says she has alot more room for more. This drives me nuts...She tells me these things now without me asking but afterwards she acts like she wouldn't do it. Any advise the thought of her with another man makes my stomach turn but it's all i can think about. Thanks
 
Go seek professional help- you are mentally ill. It's okay to fantasize, but now you are becoming obsessed and it's affecting you mentally.
 
Thanks for your advice Whammer....But i was hoping for advice on how to get my wife to go the rest of the way. I appreciate your concern....
 
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I have been working on my wife for about a year now. I'm 44 she is 43.We have been married 24 yrs now.During sex she will tease me and tell me how she would love to have a big black mans cock in her. She says she would make me watch. She teases me about my size and says she has alot more room for more. This drives me nuts...She tells me these things now without me asking but afterwards she acts like she wouldn't do it. Any advise the thought of her with another man makes my stomach turn but it's all i can think about. Thanks

wife did same thing for about 3 years. Watched alot of ir porn with her. Then she got serious after time. Finally did it. Now shes addicted
 
How's your relationship with your wife now MWC4real? ... Now that she's addicted? :)
 
Hey, you say the thought of her with another man makes your stomach turn- yet you still want to persue this fantasy into reality.
You don't think you're mentally ill???
You're a very confused person and you should seek some counselling. Get a professional opinion before you push things to the point of no return.
Don't listen to the assorted nut cases and whack jobs on this board.
 
Meet a nice black guy and become good friends with him. Mention him from time-to-time to your wife, and eventually bring him home so that your wife can slowly accept him as one of your friends.

Don't imply she should go to bed with him, just provide a few minutes here and there when they are left in the same room together. If there is chemistry her imagination will cause sex to happen without you "pushing her".
 
Whammer...careful on the advice, please.

Whammer said:
Hey, you say the thought of her with another man makes your stomach turn- yet you still want to persue this fantasy into reality.
You don't think you're mentally ill???
You're a very confused person and you should seek some counselling. Get a professional opinion before you push things to the point of no return.
Don't listen to the assorted nut cases and whack jobs on this board.
Whammer, don't be in such a bitchy mood. lol :bitch:

You do make a point here...outhere hates the topic of his wife with another man, THEN gets interestedin what he hates. It can confuse many here, also.

I agree...get Professional advice BEFORE taking any advice from a forum such as this.

outhere, I would suggest WebMD.com, but fear that you'd be laughed at, or tracked down...only to be put in an asylum.

Yes, advice is good, but research other links/websites before making this one the final answer. (Google, Ask.com, etc.)
 
I love the topic of my wife with another man it just makes me feel a little funny in the stomach. A little confused i guess.But it makes my cock rock hard and my wife likes that. She knows what to say to get me that way and she knows i want to see it but she says it's a good fantasy thats all. I can live with that if thats as far as it goes. outhere.
 
When ET came out, the psychiatrists said that it should be banned because it taught children to disobey their parents.

But the children were only trying to help "ET go home", so he would not be dissected for medical research by the USA army.

Sometimes, it is the psychiatrists who are nutty instead of a few alleged people on Dark Cavern.

A few years back, 20% of low intelligence people in the USA were overnight declared to be "miraculously cured of their low intelligence" when the IQ level for low intelligence was adjusted.

Only goes to show that what is true today, can be altered at the stroke of a pen tomorrow. The goal posts keep changing position.
 
Love the question proposed, my wife is the same way and I would lvoe to take it to the next level and watch ehr fuck blk. Love to hear from other husbands or wives that went through the same thing!!
 
if you both keep your membership with Dark Cavern, you will be hoping and hoping something happens to change your wives' minds.

I let a black man take me out on a date, and within a week he moved into my home and bought his two best mates to live as well. No jealousy, and all three jointly share me to their hearts' content. Works out so amazingly well.
 
Wife needs it too

My wife and I have been talking about the idea of mfm with blk for a while also. She likes talking about it during sex, likes 3some porn and loves her blk dildo but afterwards acts like she isn't really into it as much. Any advice? Seems as if she wants it and would go for it when messing around but won't when we aren't.
 

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