We are Dave (45) married for twenty years to Kay (38) and included in the relationship is John (54). We are not a couple with an extra man, we are a TRIPLE! Three persons with equal rights to sexual fulfilment, and no one of us is of lesser value.
Yes, it is possible for all three persons to share equally and have equal pleasure. It is not necessary to make any one of them feel inadequate or ridiculous. In the case of myself as husband, which has always been my role, I take joy from watching another man give my wife sexual pleasure. I am not jealous of resentful of the other man. Instead, I am appreciative and I love my wife enough to want her to have sexual pleasure, even if it is another man providing it for her. I would also add that John and Kay have a deep and loving bond one with the other and that the sexual side of their relationship is extremely happy and open with Kay giving herself to both of us eagerly and without reserve.
Sharing one's wife with another man is a completely positive experience in which the husband is a full participant and is not shamed or ridiculed and, as John and I have found, there is just something about having fucked the same woman which creates a bond between two men.
I have posted this item for two reasons. The first reason is to hopefully reignite discussion on this aspect of sexuality, and secondly in the hope that it will be read by a husband in the UK who is in the same situation and who would like to exchange emails or instant messages with me in which we can share our various experiences. So if you live in the same time zone (i.e., in the UK) and wish to share/exchange experiences of this wonderful type of lifestyle then please email me at daveandk@yahoo.co.uk
Yes, it is possible for all three persons to share equally and have equal pleasure. It is not necessary to make any one of them feel inadequate or ridiculous. In the case of myself as husband, which has always been my role, I take joy from watching another man give my wife sexual pleasure. I am not jealous of resentful of the other man. Instead, I am appreciative and I love my wife enough to want her to have sexual pleasure, even if it is another man providing it for her. I would also add that John and Kay have a deep and loving bond one with the other and that the sexual side of their relationship is extremely happy and open with Kay giving herself to both of us eagerly and without reserve.
Sharing one's wife with another man is a completely positive experience in which the husband is a full participant and is not shamed or ridiculed and, as John and I have found, there is just something about having fucked the same woman which creates a bond between two men.
I have posted this item for two reasons. The first reason is to hopefully reignite discussion on this aspect of sexuality, and secondly in the hope that it will be read by a husband in the UK who is in the same situation and who would like to exchange emails or instant messages with me in which we can share our various experiences. So if you live in the same time zone (i.e., in the UK) and wish to share/exchange experiences of this wonderful type of lifestyle then please email me at daveandk@yahoo.co.uk