What a cuck wants Vs what a cuck gets

[CalCuck]

Hi all. It's been a while since the last update - truth is, there's not much going on in our lives on the cuckolding front. I've seen a specialist about my erectile problems, but (touch wood) I've been going from strength to strength in that department anyway. For the background on my gf's entrance into cuckolding, see my previous thread: My girlfriend is seeing a male friend this weekend... - Cuckolds.com Forums

So anyway...

Suzy is seeing Nathan in a couple of weeks for an extended period. Even the reticent Suzy has admitted that she'll be expecting to have handholding walks with him, nights out, long sensual kisses, etc, and of course plenty of sex.

What made the experience for me last time is when she came home with his come still inside her, which I licked out. This time, however, I've worked out that she'll be going somewhere else for a couple of days BEFORE I next see her. This means there will be no repeat performance of that incident.

This has set up a bit of a conflict in me. She has said that she doesn't mind telling me about the sex she has with him, although I've noticed she is definitely holding back on the details, unlike the time she had a one night stand with another guy a couple of months back. I understand the reason for this: "we weren't just fucking like on my one night stand, we were making love and some things need to remain private".

I obviously still want her to see Nathan, but I will not "get" anything out of the encounter. On one hand, I am a bit frustrated by this, but on the other hand, surely this is what cuckolding is all about and I should just accept it and wank myself to sleep every night .

What are your thoughts?

 

[horngylatina]

I fall into the same boat sometimes. I feel like there should always be something for me too. But it doesn't always work out that way. I think you nailed it , it just comes with the territory. She's going to do her own thing sometimes. It's tricky jealousy will pop out sometimes...especially with things like this.

I've been there, and I expect to be there again soon.

Goodluck man!

 

[CalCuck]

Thanks guys!

CalCuck
I'm sure she simply feels uncomfortable with the emotional attachment & feelings she has with this Nathan. Maybe he's not giving her the in-depth emotional attention back, or she is finding herself wanting to be more with him than you.

You should talk this out with her, however, and not allow it to stay bottled up inside you ... she needs to know how important your needs are as well. Possibly she can invite her lovers to your home, allow you to stay in a separate room, and thus try to provide those needs you have. Good luck! Mac

This is interesting, and definitely something we've talked about. I think, somewhere down the line, it may very well happen.

She's talked briefly tonight about staying with Nathan later this month. She's staying for two or three nights. My first reaction was, "Wow, that's a lot of fucking". She's then staying for one or two nights with another male friend, who she HAS slept with but is unlikely to again. I never mentioned it on here, but she brought up the subject of them possibly having sex together and that I'm fine with the idea, but he apparently reacted quite negatively about it. So that's how I know there won't be a repeat performance of me licking his cum out of her. Anyway, getting off topic a bit...

Although I'm not going to get anything directly from Suzy sleeping with Nathan this time, I'm loath to put the dampener on it in case it hampers future straying from Suzy. Plus, it has to be said that Suzy knows how to push my buttons on this subject, and will probably think of something. I wouldn't be surprised if I get a pair of panties in the post stained with their juices. That would be nice.

As an aside, we're going to a burlesque show tomorrow and she's going to be dressed sexily. We've talked in the past about going to events as "friends" and inviting advances from male strangers. I will definitely suggest this tomorrow night. I doubt it will lead to a full on sexual encounter between her and another man, but it could still be tittilating.

 

[CalCuck]

Well, latest update: not many sexy guys at the burlesque, so that was a bust.

Suzy has been having cold feet about going down to London the weekend after next. She's not heard from Nathan saying she can stay at his for a couple of nights.

Thing is, although I've never met him, I know exactly what he's thinking from the previous encounter. In his mind, it's a done deal and he would love to have her over (and have her in general), but because he's not said that to Suzy, Suzy is thinking he doesn't want her. It basically boils down to he's crap at texting her to confirm things (see my previous thread for more confirmation of this).

I'm now torn - last time, I encouraged her to go anyway and she had a great sexy time with him and came back full of his jizz and smelling of him. This time, because she's then going on to see another friend directly after him, I won't get that. So I find myself not encouraging her to go. But I think ANY kind of sex with another man is a step in the right direction, and I don't know what to do.

I think Suzy should find a more local lover (or one that will just text her occasionally to calm her mind). We've talked about this, and she has brought up the idea of going on dating sites plenty of times, but she always puts it off.

 

[CalCuck]

Well, the trip to see Nathan is officially off. Typical me, I'm now disappointed .

She has said, and these were her exact words while we in bed kissing, "I would like to turn another man on soon", so I know she's into it now. Thing is, I know she'd hate being set up by me with some random guy - she'd think it was a bit seedy. So how do I get her out there meeting local men?

More to the point, how do I persuade her to join a dating site for the purpose of no strings attached sex? I know she wants to, but always shies away from it when I bring it up, but as I've said, SHE often brings the subject up in an indirect way.

 

[dargirl]

Where there's a will, there's...ways...

What made the experience for me last time is when she came home with his come still inside her, which I licked out. This time, however, I've worked out that she'll be going somewhere else for a couple of days BEFORE I next see her. This means there will be no repeat performance of that incident.

Oh, you silly little man/boy.

There are a thousand ways to make sure that the first moments back with you are filled with that special "something" that you get out of it - or more specifically out of her.

1- Have her fill a baby bottle while she is gone with whatever cum she feels she can spare. Keep it in the hotel mini fridge and have her add when she thinks you deserve a bit. She can freeze it for the trip home, hold it between her thighs to warm it up on the flight home (for example) and greet you with (semi) fresh favors from the trip. (Can't get that souvenir at WalMart...)

2- Fill a condom and follow the same type of procedure as above to maintain "freshness".... though I personally find the latex overtones ruin the bouquet of the finished product.

3- FedEx....a sample to you and have you hold it for her so she doesn't have to bother with details while she's off gallivanting and being ravished. Then upon her return you re-fill her sweet cunt as she details the events that led to your treat for you.

It only takes a little imagination and care to make sure cucky gets his rewards for being so patient and sweet. Whatever would we do without you little ones?

 

[CalCuck]

Thank you. Excellent suggestions .

 

[CalCuck]

More to the point, how do I persuade her to join a dating site for the purpose of no strings attached sex? I know she wants to, but always shies away from it when I bring it up, but as I've said, SHE often brings the subject up in an indirect way.

Well, well. We were in bed this morning having a kiss and a cuddle and what does Suzy say, completely out of the blue? "I've been thinking of looking on dating sites, you know, to find someone. I know men do go on there looking for couples and that".

My reply: "I heartily approve" . I know I've got to be a bit tricky and not push it, but as this has now come up so many times I think she wants a bit of gentle persuasion before finally going for it.

She also showed me today a sex position she and Nathan enjoy. That was a bit of a mind-fuck as I have never done that position before. I couldn't have sex at that time because I hadn't taken a Viagra, but I'm keen to try it out...

 

[SouthernCuck]

OMG a baby bottle full of cum is like the sexiest thing ever. I want to do that so bad now.