I found this description of cuckoldry on the Internet and edited it a bit. It really makes the point that cuckoldry can take many forms, but it is all about domination of the cuckold by the Bull:
Cuckoldry is about power and control. The Bull takes control, and the cuckold acquiesces while the Bull has his way with the cuckold's wife. The Bull is dominant and the cuckold is submissive to the Bull. The cuckold enjoys the humiliation of his wife satisfying the Bull. The sexual details of the relationship will vary from group to group. Some cuckolds like to watch their wife have sex, while others are aroused just by the knowledge of it. In certain cases, cuckolds are allowed to participate in the sex while being totally submissive to the Bull. But surprisingly, not all cuckold relationships involve sex. In milder forms of cuckoldry, the wife only has non-sexual contact with the Bull such as flirting, kissing, petting, dancing and sensual talk. But for a cuckold, even this non-sexual relationship that the wife has with her Bull is arousing. The cuckold is aroused because his wife is under the control of another man.
Whether it is sexual or non-sexual cuckoldry, the most important relationship is between the cuckold and the Bull. The cuckold must feel submissive and inferior to the Bull. This masochistic feeling is the actual source of arousal for the cuckold. Being dominated in front of his wife by a stronger man provides sexual gratification for the cuckold. It is non-violent sado-masochism. Although there are cuckold relationships that include physical domination of the cuckold, that is not normally the case.
The wife in a cuckold relationship must be attracted to both men. She must be comfortable with being "shared" by two men. In some relationships, the wife is only permitted to have sex with the Bull. But normally, the wife must satisfy both men. Possibly the most difficult thing for a cuckold is finding a woman who is willing to be shared. In non-sexual cuckoldry, the wife will satisfy her husband's fantasies by meeting other men in bars or clubs. The wife may exchange sensual or sexual emails with other men to share with her cuckold husband.
The Bull in a cuckold relationship will normally be a strong dominant man who enjoys humiliating the weaker cuckold. He is the sadist in this non-violent sado-masochistic relationship. But in addition to dominating the cuckold, he also dominates the wife. In successful long-term cuckold relationships, the Bull will often develop both love and a sense of responsibility to both the cuckold and the wife. In non-sexual cuckoldry, the Bull may not even be aware that he is a Bull! In cases where the wife is flirting with men for the purpose of arousing her cuckold husband, the Bull may not even know that he is being used by the couple.
An important point is that cuckoldry is not cheating. Honesty and trust are very important. The wife and cuckold husband share their experiences and must agree to all arrangements. The couple must agree on the "Bull" and establish rules so that no one is hurt. Jealousy is the killer of cuckold relationships!
Cuckoldry is about power and control. The Bull takes control, and the cuckold acquiesces while the Bull has his way with the cuckold's wife. The Bull is dominant and the cuckold is submissive to the Bull. The cuckold enjoys the humiliation of his wife satisfying the Bull. The sexual details of the relationship will vary from group to group. Some cuckolds like to watch their wife have sex, while others are aroused just by the knowledge of it. In certain cases, cuckolds are allowed to participate in the sex while being totally submissive to the Bull. But surprisingly, not all cuckold relationships involve sex. In milder forms of cuckoldry, the wife only has non-sexual contact with the Bull such as flirting, kissing, petting, dancing and sensual talk. But for a cuckold, even this non-sexual relationship that the wife has with her Bull is arousing. The cuckold is aroused because his wife is under the control of another man.
Whether it is sexual or non-sexual cuckoldry, the most important relationship is between the cuckold and the Bull. The cuckold must feel submissive and inferior to the Bull. This masochistic feeling is the actual source of arousal for the cuckold. Being dominated in front of his wife by a stronger man provides sexual gratification for the cuckold. It is non-violent sado-masochism. Although there are cuckold relationships that include physical domination of the cuckold, that is not normally the case.
The wife in a cuckold relationship must be attracted to both men. She must be comfortable with being "shared" by two men. In some relationships, the wife is only permitted to have sex with the Bull. But normally, the wife must satisfy both men. Possibly the most difficult thing for a cuckold is finding a woman who is willing to be shared. In non-sexual cuckoldry, the wife will satisfy her husband's fantasies by meeting other men in bars or clubs. The wife may exchange sensual or sexual emails with other men to share with her cuckold husband.
The Bull in a cuckold relationship will normally be a strong dominant man who enjoys humiliating the weaker cuckold. He is the sadist in this non-violent sado-masochistic relationship. But in addition to dominating the cuckold, he also dominates the wife. In successful long-term cuckold relationships, the Bull will often develop both love and a sense of responsibility to both the cuckold and the wife. In non-sexual cuckoldry, the Bull may not even be aware that he is a Bull! In cases where the wife is flirting with men for the purpose of arousing her cuckold husband, the Bull may not even know that he is being used by the couple.
An important point is that cuckoldry is not cheating. Honesty and trust are very important. The wife and cuckold husband share their experiences and must agree to all arrangements. The couple must agree on the "Bull" and establish rules so that no one is hurt. Jealousy is the killer of cuckold relationships!
