For me I dated white guys, asian guys, hispanics, but never a black man until I found my husband. i was always attracted to them, but they either weren't attracted to me, or didn't look like they were very receptive towards me. Whatever the case, I had some black men approach me, but usually too old, or not of my taste. I remember I really liked a high school teacher of mine, but we all know that couldn't happen (although if I found him know I'd probably show him a thing or two, hehe). Anyway, I met my husband at work, out of all the guys (various races) that came on to me, he stood out. As was mentioned in another thread, I was raised by very traditional Chinese parents so you can imagine everything going through my head once I realized he was the one I wanted. To date he has been the biggest man I've seen (in living flesh and not in porns) and definitely keeps me very happy. He's even impressed some women we've had 3somes with, so I guess I lucked out. I love black dick, love black men, but there are still a few men of other ethnicities that I see and find attractive. I guess I just love my black men more. ;-)