Hello, my name is Karen and I'm relatively new to the site. I love how active the forums are an how much people contribute their own thoughts and experiences. I suppose the question I have is more directed towards the women but if any of the men have something to contribute I'd love to hear what they have to say as well.
My question is fairly simple and is just out of curiosity, but when did the women in here realize that IR was a turn on for them. I feels as though I'm a bit of a late bloomer, although happy to have found out now than not at all. I'm 47 now but had really only noticed black men in a more sexual way just a few years ago. I wish I could say there was some amazing story which started it all for me but it was pretty simple and admittedly a little cliche. I had an attractive black man at a gym I run/swim at befriend me and become a little flirtatious. It was all very playful, nothing over the line, and never really developed into anything more. That simple gesture on his part was enough to open my eyes to the world of IR.
Thanks again for all that contribute here to making this site wonderful.
Karen
My question is fairly simple and is just out of curiosity, but when did the women in here realize that IR was a turn on for them. I feels as though I'm a bit of a late bloomer, although happy to have found out now than not at all. I'm 47 now but had really only noticed black men in a more sexual way just a few years ago. I wish I could say there was some amazing story which started it all for me but it was pretty simple and admittedly a little cliche. I had an attractive black man at a gym I run/swim at befriend me and become a little flirtatious. It was all very playful, nothing over the line, and never really developed into anything more. That simple gesture on his part was enough to open my eyes to the world of IR.
Thanks again for all that contribute here to making this site wonderful.
Karen
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