when does "average" become small?

[Sowrong]

I'm 5inches when rock hard and while I've always tried hard my wife has stopped lettingme cum in her pussy for the last few months.

Mainly I have to stop, lick her to climax then finish myself off. Only recent change to that wad after she had been chatted up by a stranger.

So is 5 inches acceptable? I've seen some very small dicks on here so think I'm ok?

 

[Capt. Ron]

I think the whole issue of size and the debate about it will rage forever. However, if you and your partner are happy then there is no reason to feel worried.

If you're having wood trouble at 30, I encourage you to have your Testosterone checked. There are very good treatments for low T as well as ED.

What do you want out of your sex life? Will you be happy to be the stud for your wife again or do you honestly desire for her to become a full fledged slut? Does she also feel the same? If you in any way feel you may regret this later on, I highly suggest you reconsider entering into a situation where you have little say or recourse. Once your wife thinks it's okay for her to fulfill her desires without consideration of yours, as long as there is no consequence she will do just that and you may not be so happy about it.

I recently had sex with a couple and the BF was intimidated by my size. I'm 7 inches hard, not huge I think by any stretch, really in the average range. His cock was about 4 inches and about half as thick as mine. I'm not into aggression or domination, I believe in fuck and let fuck. However, he was so affected by it he went limp and everything fizzled after that. His GF and I tried to encourage him but he got so embarrassed he couldn't cope. She later admitted to me they had problems in bed, which is why they thought of a threesome to spice things up. It actually got worse with this experience. Just my luck, it was my first threesome and went that way lol.

 

[DeeDeenCO]

Sowrong: 5" is a bit under "average," but as I have always felt, who wants to be just average?

Below, my husband is 4 1/2" when he is fully erect. From personal experience, I know he is small. And that should be obvious by seeing his 4 1/2" cock compared to my lover's cocks.


My husband has never been able to make me orgasm, but most every lover I have been with has.

I think that in many marriages and relationships wives are content with their husband's cock size, even if he is small. For many women it is the man they love, and not for his penis.

It is because I have the freedom to be with other men, and every lover I have ever had has been bigger cocked than my husband is, that I have come to prefer larger cocks, not just because they are big, but because of how they feel inside me, how strong my orgasms are with larger cocked men and how larger cocked men make me feel much more feminine.

If your wife likes your size, I say don't play with fire. I know from personal experience, and from friend's experiences, that once you experience, and really enjoy a larger cock, you'll want it more often. You'll even begin to prefer larger cocks.

Below is my husband . . .


And this is what I prefer . . .


So, the way I see it, from personal experience, if a man is "average" sized, then he is small compared to a lot of other men.

 

[spankie]

Average has been defined over and over as from 4-6", for the general population. If you are living in an african american community, average might be quite different. If your partner formerly had partners that were bigger than you she will think you are below average...

If you feel like you are undersized (like at least half of us do, by definition of average), and you think that is important then you will be miserable. I will never forget what my boddy with the 3 inch cock said. "I figured I might as well enjoy what Ive got, and not complain about it." And he did!

 

[2wheel]

I've always considered myself under sized less than average (about 6"), guess video porn helped create that image. Then I went to a sex club. I saw other guys erect and flaccid. That completely changed my mind to average maybe a bit over.

HOWEVER!

Over the last several years my wife is on a quest to regain her virginity and I haven't been in her pussy in that long. Now comes the oddity. Muscles atrophy, "decrease in size or wasting away of a body part or tissue". My cock has become smaller, maybe 4 1/2".

Can a penis atrophy?

 

[Sowrong]

Hi all.

Firstly, thank you for the open and honest replies.

Secondly, apologies for not responding for so long. I took some time out from my cuck desires/issues as it was affecting my erections. Having confirmed to myself that I would Iove my wife to be a slut I've found my erections much harder and my cocktail feels bigger (i know it actually isn't but being harder is helping my wife to get closer to cumming).

I'm now trying to understand how best to approach the first step with my wife.