its pretty simple, when blacks don't encourage the white boys to be more feminine, even gradually, they are defeating what they want. so more blacks need to present the opportunity to bring this out, the white boy will rarely be the first to move, so it more up to the brothers and the Dom black women, ball sustaining wont help the black womne, but understanding and allowing the white boys to become more female like will,encouraging them finding guys for them to experiment with, this is what works not hard core domination