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wife asks me what is a cuckold?

cdlola

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we were coming home from a night out and out of know where she asks me "what is a cuckold ?" and i said "its usally a marriage where the wife is allowed to have other sexual partners besides her husband ,and that she gets to pics any other partners she wants but the husband isnt allowed to have partners besides the wife in most cases, and in most cases from what ive heard the wife is usally dominate to the husband but submissive with her other lovers who are most likely dominate sexually" she then says "yeah i thought it was something like that" and i asked her "why do u ask? where did u hear of that ?" and she replied "i just heard of it then checked out a porn site to see what it was" and i said oh ok ,then the conversation went on to other things not related to the topic, it just was amazing to hear her say that it makes me think she knows what a cuckold relationship is and if shes looked it up online that she at least has some interest in it
 
Is there a chance that she is aware of your interest some how and was being coy ? Perhaps she has seen it in your browser history of over your shoulder. Seems like a huge coincidence, but who knows.
 
I concur with Mac and Cucoldclub; i think she knows something about you that you haven't told her yet.
She probably didn't want to embarrass you by telling you she knows you are on this site or something. On the other hand, she could have been hoping that you'd come out clean when she asked you. Perhaps that could have been a great opportunity to come out.
If you guys have a good relationship, maybe this is the time to sit down and have a 'clear-the-air-talk.
 
hi and thanks for your advice , i dont think she found my web history she has her own laptop computer and my computer is password protected ,but there is always the very slim chance she has seen that i have visited sites like this, she told me how she saw it she was on a porn site and it was one of the categories of videos there but i guess its possible she somehow got on my computer and saw my history, either way i dont know what i should do next should i bring it up or just wait and see if she brings it up again
 
update:

she mentioned it again today ,she said she had checked out a few videos of it online ,i asked her so what did u think about it ,she said "it seems mostly like married couples where the wife gets to get fucked by black men whie the hubby watches" i said "yeah it usally is but could be with any kind of man while the hubby watches but it does seem to be mostly black guys" i then asked her "so did u like watching it?" she said "it is interesting" and she left it at that , it is so hot for me that she mentioned it again im hoping she gets some ideas from it for real
 
Take is slow. Problem is, you don't know what speed will give you what you desire. ( loud crazy sex between your wife and her new lover " and what will either let her drift away from it or become offended by it altogether.
 
She is probably doing her research and thinking about what next card to play. Be patient and ready to open up should she ask you point blank what you think about it.
It could all turn out fine.
 
well I hope you take advantage of her interest the next time she brings it up. If she brings it up two or three times you could perhaps try to gauge her interest and display some interest of your own. additionally since she has brought it up twice if you want to be a cuck you could always bring it up yourself.
 
If your wife is really....

....interested in fucking with other men, it is far better for you, the husband, to be involved, even somewhat in control.

Besides, she will be far safer if you are present when other men fuck her, and that should be one of your priorities.

My experience has been that women who are thinking, or even talking, about fucking with other men have already reached the point of wanting to fuck with them. There is probably nothing the husband can do to take-away that desire, so if he is smart, he will become involved.
 
Congratulation!

In my opinion you went at least half of your way --> assumption: you want to be one. In my opinion the major problem is to become the wife aware of this lifestyle and your wishes and fantasies.

If your wife knows the term cuckold you have a big advantage!

Please let us know how you will proceed.

Thanks
fred
 
update:

first: thanks for all the advice so far from everyone i really am grateful for it
ok as for an update she is chatting with lots of men again there have been 1 or 2 that shes taken an interest in chatting while im with her and then chatting with them alone on cam ,neither of the chats with them has really gotten to sexual ,mostly flirting and her showing them a peek of her tits ,stuff like that but i have noticed her giving them compliments like how cute his smile is and things like that, she might chat again tonight ,im hoping she does as she seems to really be enjoying it again
i will keep u posted if anything new happens ,thanks again
 

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