Wife-sharing, as opposed to cuckolding

[Son of John]

I would like to know how many who visit this site feel as I do, that sharing one's wife's pussy with other men is not always being a cuckold.

There are many of us who gladly share our wives' pussies with other men and who do not suffer in any way. We are not humiliated! We are not embarrassed! We do not feel that we are missing out in any way.

In fact, we benefit greatly from other men fucking out wives. It makes us even more ready to fuck them ourselves, when our turns come.

And we have never been in situations where we are ridiculed or made to perform certain menial tasks for our wives and their fuckers. We are actively involved and enjoying what is happening as much as the others are.

My favorite scenario is when we invite another man to the house, or meet him at a motel. After a few drinks and conversation, my wife gets up and undresses! The other man looks at her naked body and tells how he feels about it. He is even free to feel of her as much as he wants.

Then I ask him "Do you want to fuck my wife?" and he always says "Yes!", of course! Sometimes he is surprised, even shocked by my invitation, but he never refuses. Then I tell him he may fuck her, but that I will be right there to see it all.

And, he does! He fucks her right in front of me, with no shame or embarrassment. He and I even talk while he fucks her and I get him to tell how much he is enjoying my wife's pussy!

After he cums, I take his place and fuck her too. And these fucks are always the best ever. Just to feel this other guy's hot cum around my dick head, inside my own wife's pussy, is the most excitement I can imagine.

Do any others agree, that wife-sharing can be a completely positive thing in which the husband does not suffer, but enjoys it as much as his wife and the other guy do?

 

[mimi27406]

I believe if you check the dictionary you will find wife sharing is just a form of cuckoldry.

 

[wife_hubby]

wife sharing/cuckolding

Since I am fairly new to this concept I have been doing research, so to speak, into the cuckold lifestyle. From what I have found here and on other websites there are many different types of cuckold husbands. Some are as follows: submissive, dominant, generous, voyeur, bi-cuck, sissy cuck, chastity cuck and humilation cuck. My hubby seems to fall under the humiliation cuck definition. There is a couple that we are friends with that we met while in the swing lifestyle. The male half is definately a dominant/voyeur. He selects all his wife's bulls. He sets up the playdates. He loves to watch his hot wife getting fucked by other men and often takes pictures or video tapes her encounters. He never participates. Being an alpha male, he would be insulted if someone even suggested he was a cuck, even though he is. On the flip side, our friend would never understand the hubby being a humiliation cuck. He just can't conceive of a man wanting to be humiliated, dominated or cut off from sex from his own wife. There are many different ways to practice cuckoldry. From your description, you sound like a voyeur. It really turns you on to watch your wife having sex with another man, this has nothing to do with humiliation. It is something erotic you share with your wife. So, for you it is a positive thing because that is what you are into. For my hubby, his turn-ons are different from yours. He sees the way we practice cuckoldry as a positive thing as well. I have found there tends to be more stories and emphasis on the husbands who are submissive, chastity or humiliation cucks. This could be because the other types don't condsider themselves cucks.

 

[SoonToBe]

I have considered myself a cuck because I get a degree of enjoyment out of my wife's denial of sex with me when she wants to be with her lover.

We do not do the humiliation, male-panties, chastity, degradation, housework, paint-her-toenails stuff as none of that interests us.

But I do enjoy the arousal that her short-term denial brings me. I also very much enjoy her teasing me about her and her lover. This, however, is largely at my request (but now I sense that she is enjoying it too). Yes her lover "prefers" she be clean when she sees him and that knowledge that she wants that for him is also very arousing.

But absent this denial/teasing stuff, I would have said we were much more in a wife-sharing situation than a cuckold one. I think the term cuckold implies some level of denial or preference of another man (could be more but this would be the minimum to be a cuckold in my book), despite what the dictionary definition is.

 

[imported_pussy boy]

I was like you son of john for a lot of years . But then i started to have these bi / gay fantasys . I love watching my wife being fucked real hard by another man . But on the other hand i myself have started liking being a little submissive , and i love to clean my wife's bull's and her creampies . But my wife is not a control freak nor does she dominate me or try to humiliate me . And like you son of john i don't sit in the corner and wait for permission . I love sloppy seconds , but my wife decides if she wants to be a slut for me . There are all kind's of cuckolds but i don't understand the one's who like there partner to beat them down . Put them in a cage , don't give them sex whatever . That just doesn't sound like fun at all . I guess there are different degrees of humilition , i love it but i have my limits .

 

[imported_pussy boy]

Cuckold or mouse

I was like you son of john for a lot of years . But then i started to have these bi / gay fantasys . I love watching my wife being fucked real hard by another man . But on the other hand i myself have started liking being a little submissive , and i love to clean my wife's bull's and her creampies . But my wife is not a control freak nor does she dominate me or try to humiliate me . And like you son of john i don't sit in the corner and wait for permission . I love sloppy seconds , but my wife decides if she wants to be a slut for me . There are all kind's of cuckolds but i don't understand the one's who like there partner to beat them down . Put them in a cage , don't give them sex , whatever . That just doesn't sound like fun at all . I guess there are different degrees of humilition , i love it but i have my limits .

 

[4julie]

Cuckold

I believe if you check the dictionary you will find wife sharing is just a form of cuckoldry.

To me a cuckold is the husband of a cheating, adulterous wife. Most states and lots of other countries do not recognize a woman having sex with anohter man, with the express permission of her husband, as being adultery, so sharing your wife isn't adulterous, therefore the husband isn't a cuckold!

QED.

 

[x2watchher]

I do not understand the humiliation That would piss me off.I do like the idea shareing my wife with another man It has never happened BUT she knows how exited I get when we talk about her taking a lover on the side.I would love to watch but she would never do that at least not at first mybe after she has been with the guy several times and is comfortable.I have had this fanticie for many years My wife was dead aginst it at first but now she is curious. One question I ask myself is why this turns me on. I am streight we are happily maried great sex why do I want to risk that by letting her have sex with another man??????????

 

[Son of John]

For, X2watchr, the answer to your question is: Because that's the way we are! There is something coded into the brain of all males which causes them to want to share their wives/girlfriend's pussies with other men.

I will get howls of protest from some but I truly do believe that it is as natural as can be, to want to share your pussy with other men.

 

[InDeep]

Like so many things in life, different things are enjoyable for different people. There is nothing wrong with sharing your wife's pussy and then claiming her after he's cum inside. Then again there is nothing wrong with the wife or FB humiliating the husband if that's what works for them. There are so many variations to what turns us all on which why life is so great!!

 

[imported_pussy boy]

Who wants a good girl

For, X2watchr, the answer to your question is: Because that's the way we are! There is something coded into the brain of all males which causes them to want to share their wives/girlfriend's pussies with other men.

I will get howls of protest from some but I truly do believe that it is as natural as can be, to want to share your pussy with other men.

I've been wanting to say this for a long time so here it is . We can analyze this cuckold thing forever but to me the bottom line is . If you want to share you wife's pussy or your girlfriends pussy with other men . Then like me you just want your wife or girlfriend to be a slut , fucking other men . My wife's a slut for other men and i love it . So i guess that makes me a cuckold . A cuckold is just a name for a pervert who wants to see his partner getting fuck like a slut . But the cuck can take on many rolls , Ok let's hear it . And for you son of john or anyone else , don't we love to see porno's and watching women getting fucked . Just think that is someone's wife . I know whats coded in our brain's JOHN a pervert or just a guy who loves to see that wife being a thats right a slut .

 

[drackas]

i share her but i am cucked .her regulars often stay with us and we all share the bed and her .gangbangs i am there to .but she dose like me to watch and take up the back of the row .
If its a new cock i have to watch and not touch in case i put them off
our if she has 2 or 3 regs around i sometimes have to go wait downstairs
a bit of everything

 

[CuckoldMick]

John, Pussy--- I agree. In its rawest form that's it. Where this comes from probably has something to do with Evolutionary Psychology--- that is, when we were all living in a cave the Alpha Male would get all the pussy. The rest of us stood around and watched, getting more and more aroused. When the big guy was finished, if we were lucky, he'd let us all have a turn. But, if we didn't get a turn, we got off from watching. Additionally, the Alpha probably fucked our wives too--- so sloppy seconds and cuckoldry emerged as a genetically wired part of our brains. This aside--- I just love my wife being a slut. I just wish she'd let me enjoy it more by including me more.

 

[Son of John]

Thanks for the answer. I have a very simple answer for this question. If you like to share your wife's pussy with other men, whatever the circumstance, then you are a wife-sharer! That doesn't need to be analyzed any further.

In my own case, I love to meet with my wife and another guy at a motel, then watch as she undresses and and teases him with her body, which proceeds to him fucking her in front of me. I am not a "sissy boy" and I am not being left-out. I am not submissive or humiliated. The other man does not do anything to put me down. Nor does my wife.

We all three enjoy the experience. My wife gets fucked by another guy than just her husband. The other guy gets some married pussy, and in front of her husband, even. And I get the extreme excitement of watching another man using my wife's naked body for his sexual pleasure. Everyone has a good time!!!

And, yes, I fuck her too, just as soon as he pulls his cock out of her cunt. I always cum the best of all when I am fucking into another guy's cum, right inside my own wife's pussy! I truly feel sorry for any husband who has not had the experience of sharing his wife's pussy with other men!

 

[bi-cuck]

wife sharing is great

As I read your posting, Son of John, I was at my holiday home which is about 3 hours drive from home.

My wife, was at our home and having sex with her regular fuckbuddy and it was a breakthrough event.

By breakthrough I mean that she decided that she trusted him enough to not worry about using condoms.

Anyway he fucked her and blew his spunk into her belly. That really turns me on as there is nothing better than feeling another mans cum in her pussy after he has just put it in there.

I also believe that a mans semen contains a hormone that has an effect on a woman, sort of binding her to him sub-conciously, anyway I hope that happens as I love to see her being fucked and see another mans cock spurting into her pussy. Nothing better than silky seconds is there?

Last night, she had spoken to me on the phone just after he arrived at our house with champagne and a pizza. She asked if I minded them having sex without me being there and off course I said no I didn't mind, I said, just go ahead and have fun with him. I also spoke to him and gave him my permission to fill her pussy.

This morning I gave her a call and she told me that he fucked her twice. After the first time, they went into the pool to cool off, where he tried to fuck her again but they apparently decided it was better in the bedroom so he fucked her in our bed again the second time and blew in her again.

As my wife was enjoying her lover's cock inside her, I was enjoying a great wank, just thinking about what they were doing and I know that at the end of the day, she is still my wife and I will get to enjoy her gorgeous body again when I get home and my cock will be welcomed into her to fill her and love her.

So I agree with you Son of John that sharing one's wife's pussy with other men is not always being a cuckold. That wife-sharing can be a completely positive thing in which the husband does not suffer, but enjoys it as much as his wife and the other guy do?.

I am now looking forward to our next threesome with her 'trusted' fuckbuddy so that I can enjoy silky seconds again, in the meantime I can enjoy some amazing fantasies as I masturbate myself and no I do not feel humiliated.

 

[drackas]

must agree i do like to watch and share .she sometimes has her bf fuck her while on speaker phone .but thats a different thread

 

[mimi27406]

Pussy Boy puts it in perspective

I've been wanting to say this for a long time so here it is . We can analyze this cuckold thing forever but to me the bottom line is . If you want to share you wife's pussy or your girlfriends pussy with other men . Then like me you just want your wife or girlfriend to be a slut , fucking other men . My wife's a slut for other men and i love it . So i guess that makes me a cuckold . A cuckold is just a name for a pervert who wants to see his partner getting fuck like a slut . But the cuck can take on many rolls , Ok let's hear it . And for you son of john or anyone else , don't we love to see porno's and watching women getting fucked . Just think that is someone's wife . I know whats coded in our brain's JOHN a pervert or just a guy who loves to see that wife being a thats right a slut .

We want he to be a slut, and we enjoy it.

 

[CuckoldMick]

In brief, my opinion is that absent a BF/husband's participation in his wife's/ SO's ex par experiences you are "wife-sharing". Of course by definition a man is cuckold if he knowingly allows his wife/ SO to have sex with other men. You become a "cuckold" when your wife/ SO actively "cucks" you--- that is, allows you to be a part of her play in some way--- watching, listening, etc. or through humiliation, clean up duty and so on.

 

[duke9555]

In brief, my opinion is that absent a BF/husband's participation in his wife's/ SO's ex par experiences you are "wife-sharing". Of course by definition a man is cuckold if he knowingly allows his wife/ SO to have sex with other men. You become a "cuckold" when your wife/ SO actively "cucks" you--- that is, allows you to be a part of her play in some way--- watching, listening, etc. or through humiliation, clean up duty and so on.

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a *cuckold* is a man whose wife is sleeping
with another
a *wittol* is a husband who allows if not encourages
his wife to sleep with another

 

[CuckoldMick]

Duke, thanks for the clarification. It seems to me that the term "cuckold", though, has become synonymous with the "lifestyle", like Xerox is in the copying business and Kleenex is for tissues. Fast food restaurants call their burgers "sandwiches"---patrons call them burgers (a rose by any other name would still be a rose). But still, I do appreciate the finite distinctions between terms and we should strive to utilize the correct terms for the activity we are referencing. Best wishes!!