Does your wife need to change jobs? Cuckoldress friends for her sounds good...
Oldguyfl,
Thanks for your interesting description. Your wife looks very fit; she is certainly an attractive woman. I like her red outfit, in particular. Very erotic.
An aspect of your wife's experience that seems striking was her choice of a co-worker for her affair. It was logical, I suppose, since she saw him every day and he seemed friendly. That he turned out to be a poor choice, though, is not surprising — if your wife had picked someone at random, even if he looked good physically, the probability he would also have turned out to be a good lover would certainly have been less than 1 — and (as suggested by Mangobutler) perhaps more like 0.25. That he was also so insensitive that he invited his cousin to peer in the window without talking with your wife about him in advance, of course, made it even worse. That was unfortunate.... but, as others have observed, "shit happens."
The point is — given your wife discovered her co-worker was "not a good lover" — they were still co-workers (presumably). Starting an affair with someone she worked with, then having a falling out (I imagine she was quite angry after the "cousin peering in the window" incident), must have been sort of like getting a divorce but then having to continue living together in the same house with her former "husband."
Thus, unless your wife or her would-be lover has changed jobs, she may be reminded of her bad experience with him on a daily basis. If so, I would suggest she needs to get out of that situation — either by applying for a position elsewhere with the same employer or, if that isn't feasible, looking for a new job.
Of the suggestions others have contributed to this thread, Mangobutler's seems to me to be particularly good. If you live in Florida (as suggested by your screen name), I would guess the number of cuckoldress wives there — including in your own town or city — is somewhere between "large" and "very large." Putting your wife in touch with some of them, such that they become friends, is probably a promising route.
I don't know, though, specifically how you could go about doing that, since cuckoldress wives usually don't state that after their names in the telephone directory. Perhaps there are others on this forum who can suggest a strategy....
—Custer